
The Heart of Dominance
A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance
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Anton Fulmen
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Anton Fulmen
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The Heart of Dominance is a how-to guide to the concepts and skills at the heart of consensual dominance. If you are new to dominance or still figuring out just what it’s all about and what you want it to mean to you, then this book will provide you with a solid foundation from which to start.
If you already practice dominance and are interested in improving your ability to create deep and lasting power dynamics, then you’ll find many advanced concepts and concrete techniques to integrate into your own personal style. If you have an interest in the bedrock principles of inspiring, deepening, maintaining, and enjoying control over a person who dearly, desperately wants you to control them, then this book is for you.
©2016 Anton Fulmen (P)2021 Anton FulmenListeners also enjoyed...
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- Length: 16 hrs and 58 mins
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It goes by many names: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and more. In Jay Wiseman's SM 101, the long-taboo subject of consensual sadomasochism is accurately, insightfully presented in the context of adult human sexuality, experience, and tradition for the interested non-specialist general listener.
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40% in so far, narrator is making this rough.
- By Junp on 03-27-23
By: Jay Wiseman
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Hurts So Good
- The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose
- By: Leigh Cowart
- Narrated by: Leigh Cowart
- Length: 11 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Masochism is sexy, human, reviled, worshipped, and can be delightfully bizarre. Deliberate and consensual pain has been with us for millennia, encompassing everyone from Black Plague flagellants to ballerinas dancing on broken bones to competitive eaters choking down hot peppers while they cry. Masochism is a part of us. It lives inside workaholics, tattoo enthusiasts, and all manner of garden variety pain-seekers.
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I can't recommend this highly enough
- By K. Reay on 12-10-21
By: Leigh Cowart
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Leading and Supportive Love
- The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships
- By: Chris M. Lyon
- Narrated by: Chris M. Lyon
- Length: 3 hrs and 16 mins
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Have you felt 'left out' of the traditional relationship self-help books because you derive great pleasure from following your partner's requests and direction on many things in your life? Are your friends and family having difficulty understanding that your relationship works more like a captain and first mate on a boat? If so, this innovative audiobook, Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships, can help with new and clearer understanding of yourself, your relationship and acceptance with those that you love and care for.
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My Missing Puzzle Piece!!
- By A.Whitaker on 12-19-23
By: Chris M. Lyon
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Sacred Kink
- The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
- By: Lee Harrington
- Narrated by: Lee Harrington
- Length: 17 hrs and 36 mins
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Some of us have had a moment in the middle of fun and sexual exploration that lead to connecting with the divine or having an epiphany about life that was far from expected. Others have been drawn to the possibilities of finding universal truths between the sheets or in the dungeon for all of their lives.
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Excellent resource, great manual, very detailed
- By Kindle Customer on 05-30-24
By: Lee Harrington
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The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink
- Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul’s Transgressive Necessities
- By: Douglas Thomas
- Narrated by: E.M. Burton, Bianca Drew
- Length: 10 hrs and 37 mins
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This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as listeners are guided on a provocative, lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination.
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Depth Psychology perspective on non-vanilla sexual practices.
- By Christina Osterman on 12-19-24
By: Douglas Thomas
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The Loving Dominant
- By: John Warren, Libby Warren
- Narrated by: Anastasia Watley
- Length: 10 hrs and 43 mins
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Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 40,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submission. Now, John and Libby Warren, two of the scene's most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of practitioners. Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, water sports, kinky digital photography, and more!
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I'm completely a novice, but this opened my eyes
- By Nismo240 on 05-09-19
By: John Warren, and others
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Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
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Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
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Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
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Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman's Love & Desire
- By: Karen A. Brody
- Narrated by: Corinne Davies
- Length: 10 hrs and 51 mins
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Open Her teaches a man how to embody seven masculine archetypes to engage his woman in a deeper, more passionate dance of love. Each archetype brings a power and a gift, a secret key to his woman's love and desire. Open Her will inspire a man to love his masculinity and to know the power it holds to open a woman to ever deepening states of pleasure and love.
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Perfect for beta male indoctrination
- By Robert M on 04-17-18
By: Karen A. Brody
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The Mistress Manual
- The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance
- By: Mistress Lorelei Powers
- Narrated by: Elizabeth Hart
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
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In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, the classic is available once more, in an updated new edition.
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Insight on Pleasure and Pain 🎭
- By Mandymay💄👠👛 on 07-16-17
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink
- BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
- By: Tristan Taormino
- Narrated by: Anneliese Rennie
- Length: 11 hrs and 23 mins
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The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation - a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator.
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Spoken Like A True Master!
- By Paul R Kennedy on 06-23-17
By: Tristan Taormino
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Domination & Submission
- The BDSM Relationship Handbook
- By: Michael Makai
- Narrated by: Tobias Ezra Queen
- Length: 19 hrs and 58 mins
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The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring. Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety.
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Normative, 30 years out of date
- By Victor on 03-15-16
By: Michael Makai
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This Book Will Make You Dangerous
- The Irreverent Guide for Men Who Refuse to Settle
- By: Tripp Lanier
- Narrated by: Tripp Lanier
- Length: 4 hrs and 25 mins
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Most men settle for a cookie-cutter life. This audiobook is not for most men. We live in a cushy, modern world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. You’ll learn how to: Challenge your fears so that you don’t become another guy who gave up on his potential, align your life with meaning so that you can create success on your own terms, and more.
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A New Man
- By Gabriel Y on 12-04-20
By: Tripp Lanier
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- Adam T Singer
- 12-04-22
Incredible D/S Primer
This is an incredible primer on the world of D/S that is obviously deeply informed by wisdom, noticing, and listening to the experience of a wide variety of people. What I truly valued about this book was his choice to talk about how once might frame how to think about things instead of telling the reader what to think. This approach really allowed me to resonate with the parts of D/S that fit me and let go of the parts that don't instead of trying to adjust myself to a pre-determined model. He takes the reader on a journey to see D/S as a beautiful emotional journey into deep vulnerability and trust, and how one might foster and grow those traits within a connection.
Couldn't recommend this more!
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- ben
- 12-26-23
Very Helpful
I've been in the scene for a long time and struggle with autism. This book helped clarify some social faux pas I've been experiencing. If you found this book on purpose, you won't be disappointed. If you stumbled upon it on accident, buckle up and dive in!
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- Anonymous User
- 07-29-24
Great lesson on fundamentals
I enjoy the way everything was broken out. Aunt that the basics were covered Aunt gave great ideas on how to remain connected in a dynamic.
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- Junp
- 04-07-23
New to this world, loved this book!
Absolutely recommend this book for anybody considering it.
I greatly appreciate this book's overall approach and look at various aspects of "Dominance". I found this book very informative, expansive, and nuanced. It not only has enriched my understanding and appreciation of many areas of dominance that I was already inherently interested in, but open my eyes to many others I was not aware of. Furthermore, it has helped me better understand some areas of D/s dynamics that I've had initial aversion to.
Beyond strictly the information contained within this book, I also very much appreciated the narration being from the author himself. Having worked through some other audible books with horrendous narration (*cough* Jay Wiseman's SM 101 *cough), I very much enjoyed listening to Anton Fulmen. Admittedly, while he may be a *tad* bit straight and dry from time to time, there were many more times I found the delivery and emphasis of his words to be very helpful in understanding the message. Overall I would give this a 8.5/10 for narration.
A+ for sure, highly recommend.
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- BrokeWelder
- 05-11-23
Perfect
I have read a lot of books over the subject. This one is more of a first book recommendation. It gives you a good base to go off of with scenarios.
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- Donna
- 05-27-23
A true gem!!!@
Highly recommend !!
I will definitely be listening to this educational masterpiece in the future !
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- William Skaug
- 05-17-24
Very Good
I’ve read (listened to) a lot of books on D/s. Some are filled with the “how to”’s this book seems to be filled more with “why to”’s. The contrast is very evident as you listen. I recommend this book to anyone new to D/s! Not a “must read” but definitely a “better for reading it” kind of book.
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- Phoenician
- 05-21-24
The HEART of Dominance
The Heart is ... consent, concensus, communication. This is an example of memorable prose that facilitate understanding and remembering. This is an excellent book for doms, subs (yep), switches, really everyone in the fetish community.
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- OvaryActions
- 07-18-24
A must read.
I think this book does a great job at exploring the more unspoken subtleties in a D/s relationship that I didn't quite grasp or know how to put into words as someone newer to BDSM. It dives into more the emotional and deep desire that so far other books only lightly touch on. I've enjoyed other books but what the author has said really resonated.
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- James
- 02-16-21
Excellent overview
Very mature and well written book. Provided a nice overview of the different roles that exist and how to manage the interpersonal relationship of a d/a relationship.
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