
Vanilla to Kinky: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kink
Discover the Keys to How to Be Dominant or Submissive in The Bedroom: BDSM Basics, Book 1
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Zachary Zaba
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By:
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Jonathan Wolf
About this listen
Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today?
What do you think when you hear “BDSM?” I’ll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only “evil” or “mentally ill” people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM.
BDSM has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15 percent of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90 percent. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies.
I’m here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy.
If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner.
Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don’t miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation.
Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover:
- What aspects of BDSM are best for you
- How to partake in BDSM the right way
- How to find your role
- How to create amazingly intense scenes
- How to find the dynamic you love the most
- How toys can enhance your BDSM experience
- The keys to being a good Dominant
- The keys to being a good submissive
- Helpful tips to get you started on your journey
BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM.
BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start.
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BDSM Bible: BDSM 101 & Beyond
- The BDSM Bible to Bring Out Her Inner Submissive with BDSMF Training and Field-Tested Techniques [Includes Fetishism Training]
- By: Karen Jordan
- Narrated by: Don Keedik
- Length: 14 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Forget what you think you know about BDSM. This isn't about ropes, chains, and whips alone. Sure, those are fun, but there's a whole new world waiting for you beyond the typical fantasies. Welcome to the ultimate guide that goes beyond the surface, diving into the real essence of BDSM-mental mastery, psychological play, extreme kinks, and total control in everyday life. And trust me, it's a lot more exciting than just tying a knot.
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The narrator makes this trash. Pass.
- By Kevin Fox on 03-26-25
By: Karen Jordan
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Existential Kink
- Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't
- By: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Narrated by: Carolyn Elliott PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
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Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality - the “other,” the shadow side - is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impulses - our “existential kink.” Our existential kink also drives the dark or negative repeating patterns in our life: always choosing the abusive partner or boss, settling for less, thinking that we’re undeserving, not worthy. But it also is the source of our greatest power.
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Personal Experience Based Pseudoscience
- By The Humble Housewife on 11-02-21
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Vanilla to Kinky - The Domination Deep Dive
- Real Conversations About All Things Domination
- By: Jonathan Wolf
- Narrated by: Dan Levy
- Length: 6 hrs and 34 mins
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Want to know every sub’s biggest nightmare? An uncaring, inconsiderate, and selfish Dom. While there’s no wrong or right way to practice BDSM, there is a right and wrong way to Dom. Most subs report that the biggest headache in the BDSM community is the lack of “good” Dominants. Many subs have troves of horror stories that they collect and exchange like trading cards.
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Bringing in other points of views and it not being solely the author.
- By Chris J. Garcia on 01-20-25
By: Jonathan Wolf
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The Well-Spanked Wife: Domestic Discipline for the Rest of Us
- Preventing and Overcoming Women’s Infidelity through Domestic Discipline
- By: Ken Hamilton, Luisa Hamilton
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 2 hrs and 22 mins
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Are you or your spouse intrigued by the possibilities of domestic discipline, but not interested in nerdy, complicated BDSM contracts or patriarchal fundamentalist practices that try to pretend that we still live in the 1950s? This book takes a 21st century approach to spanking and domestic discipline in heterosexual relationships, offering no-nonsense tips on how to leverage your current relationship dynamics to make both partners happier and more secure in their marriage. The Well-Spanked Wife presents concepts, case studies and techniques to introduce spanking into your relationship in ...
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Easy to understand
- By Vanessa Martin on 03-13-25
By: Ken Hamilton, and others
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200 Ideas for BDSM Sessions, Mistress Slave
- By: Lady Sas
- Narrated by: Mistress Honey
- Length: 3 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
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Fresh impulses and ideas keep every relationship alive and vibrant. The experienced Femdom Lady Sas from Frankfurt/Main has compiled 200 exciting, lustful and erotic ideas for you. Get inspired and use these ideas to make your next session a special highlight.
By: Lady Sas
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The New Bottoming Book
- By: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Narrated by: Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
- Length: 5 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
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Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, "boy" or "girl", or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players.
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Much better than I expected!
- By Amazon Customer on 04-27-17
By: Janet W. Hardy, and others
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How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
- A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality
- By: Kate Kinsey
- Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
- Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
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Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real-life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.
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thoughtful, and understanding
- By james on 01-23-20
By: Kate Kinsey
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BDSM Training 101
- The Dom's Complete Guide to Submissive Training
- By: Adam Kane
- Narrated by: Nicholas James Welsh
- Length: 17 hrs and 40 mins
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Let me tell you what: Forget everything you thought you knew about BDSM. You're not just here for a basic introduction or a 101 on some boring rules you'll find in any random Google search. No, you've picked up the wildest, most thrilling guide on how to turn your bedroom into the ultimate training ground-where you command with finesse and dominate with confidence, all while keeping things fun and electrifying.
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Not bad
- By James Ramsey on 02-25-25
By: Adam Kane
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Playing Well with Others
- Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities
- By: Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams
- Narrated by: Joel Froomkin
- Length: 12 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink culture - the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums, and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.
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Needs new narrator
- By Gillian on 01-24-21
By: Lee Harrington, and others
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Surrender, Submit, Serve Her
- The Definitive Guide to Enacting Female Leadership and Embracing the Female Dominated Household
- By: Key Barrett MSc
- Narrated by: Wendy Tremont King
- Length: 4 hrs and 14 mins
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What is "Female Leadership?" It's accepting that "She knows best" in all matters. From the finances to the household to how things get done. It's trusting in her judgement to run things. This doesn't make the man weak, just the opposite, because men are the best at "getting things done."
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I found this book to be rather enlightening
- By Fatmanonabike on 05-24-22
By: Key Barrett MSc
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The New Topping Book
- By: Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy
- Narrated by: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
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Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"...the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players.
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Great book for newer lifestyle Domme's
- By Raven Eve on 09-17-17
By: Dossie Easton, and others
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Playing on the Edge
- Sadomasochism, Risk, and Intimacy
- By: Staci Newmahr
- Narrated by: Susan Marlowe
- Length: 9 hrs and 38 mins
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In this pathbreaking audiobook, ethnographer Staci Newmahr delves into the social space of a public, pansexual SM community to understand sadomasochism from the inside out. Based on four years of in-depth and immersive participant observation, she juxtaposes her experiences in the field with the life stories of community members, providing a richly detailed portrait of SM as a social space in which experiences of "violence" intersect with experiences of the erotic.
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Excellent information for beginners and experienced.
- By Britt on 06-21-19
By: Staci Newmahr
What listeners say about Vanilla to Kinky: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kink
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- brandon
- 01-25-24
Great introductory
The book was very informative, and entertaining. I really enjoyed the author's approach on the various topics.
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- Zach, a satisfied customer
- 03-21-21
Simple, straightforward concepts of BDSM
This is a short audiobook of fewer than 3 hours, and it introduced me to the wide world of BDSM and provided lifelong advice for even those who choose to be vanilla despite learning about it, namely: consent and communication are everything. It's never wise to violate the firm sexual boundaries of your partner and to never badger someone into having sex with you; these are part of the code that every person wanting a sexual relationship should maintain religiously.
Of course, learning about the various kinds of kinks, sex toys, and the suggestions of the author are also valid.
Loved it.
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- Bean
- 09-01-20
Very useful.
This short book is jampacked with great information. As a new Dom this book has to be the best information I have found yet ,and it's easy to follow.
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- Bizzget
- 07-11-20
loved it
very insightful and tons of info I never knew. would highly recommend it to any one just looking to get their feet wet first
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- Jenna G.
- 03-09-20
SIN-tilating 😉
It kept my interest, but I'd consider myself curious on the subject matter. If you're just looking to dip your toe in, this is a great read. It covers some emotional aspects that can get left out. If you are looking for more of a "how-to" book, this is not the right fit. This book gives an overview and helps you yo figure out what you might loke, what you're open to, and what some terms are you may not have even heard of.
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- InevitablyWierd
- 07-26-22
good
This is a good beginner's guide to the alternative lifestyle and covers a majority of the basics that are needed to know.
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- Nathan L Giles
- 01-30-23
good read
good read, lost of info worth the listen!!! This will open an entire new world
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- Waylon hinman
- 10-22-21
best way of understanding about kink
I was hooked from the first chapter. lots of useful information about bsdm and the world of pleasure
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- Pamela Langhorne
- 10-23-19
Great for quick reference
A good reference, but Wolf's writing style is very dry. I don't recommend trying to listen to this for leisure or in one straight shot unless you like being thrown a barrage of facts. I was given this free review copy audiobook at my request and have voluntarily left this review.
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- Anita B.
- 08-14-21
Just the basics please
This book offers some basic information for the vanilla to the hard core. Worth the read.
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