Novedades

Have you ever spent time with someone who seems to make every conversation about themselves? Maybe they constantly talk about their accomplishments, need to be the center of attention, rarely admit when they’re wrong, and seem baffled—or even annoyed—when others express pain or vulnerability. They might appear charming to the outside world, but behind closed doors, interactions with them can feel draining, one-sided, or downright confusing. If this sounds familiar, you may have encountered someone with narcissistic traits.

You feel drained. Confused. Unseen. They never yelled. They never hit you. But somehow, you lost yourself. They made you doubt your memory. Your emotions. Your instincts. And even now, after everything, you still question whether it was really abuse—because it didn’t look like what people usually call abuse. But deep down, you know: something was deeply wrong. This is what covert narcissistic abuse does. It’s invisible, manipulative, and designed to make you feel like the problem. You gave more, stayed longer, tried harder—hoping things would change. But they never did.

What if the person who should have loved you most... made you feel like the problem? She could be charming in public, but behind closed doors, she was unpredictable. Cold, then cloying. Loving, then lashing out. You were constantly walking on eggshells, never sure what would trigger the next emotional storm. And even now — years later — something inside you still feels... off. Like no matter how hard you try, you’re never quite “enough.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.