Adam and Oliver were struggling with family finding when they came to the NFS summer camp. The people they met gave them the strength to continue and their son came home weeks later. They talk about the highs and lows, including how they've dealt with their son initially bonding more with Oliver than with Adam. They even tell us all about their "Jar Fairy" who magically sends messages to the people their son misses.

Brian and Kevin knew they wanted to adopt. They imagined themselves with one new born baby, but as their assessment progressed, they realised they wanted siblings. With a few months, they had a two-year-old and a one-year-old.

Lee and John adopted their son three years ago when he was two. They talk about preparing for transracial adoption; the things they got right and the mistakes they made. They also talk about how the first six weeks were difficult but overall their journey has been joyful.

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