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Many couples find themselves stuck in the same argument over and over. They often feel frustrated and exhausted, wondering how to break the cycle. In this episode, anger management expert Alastair shares a three-step approach called the LNC Method.

This method is designed to help couples replace fighting with productive conversations. Alastair emphasises that this isn't just theory; it's a practical way to create understanding and find solutions that work for both partners. By learning to communicate better, you can build happier and more respectful relationships.

Key Takeaways:

• The same fight with a partner often stems from feeling unheard or uncared for.
• Using the LNC Method of Listen, Negotiate, and Commit can break repetitive arguments.
• Listening means understanding your partner's feelings and concerns, not just waiting to talk.
• Commitment to action is vital after discussions to ensure that solutions are implemented.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Compassion can be a game changer when it comes to managing anger.

In this episode, anger management expert Alastair Duhs shares a powerful story about a man named James, who almost let his rage take over in a hospital parking lot. But instead of acting on his anger, James had a moment of realisation that completely shifted his perspective.

Understanding what others might be going through can help calm the storm of anger. By asking oneself what might be happening for someone else, you can create better responses and stronger relationships.

Listen to learn how compassion is a key tool to transform anger into understanding.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding that anger often stems from misunderstanding situations can help immensely.
• Compassion is a powerful tool that can transform anger into understanding and calmness.
• When anger rises, pause and consider what the other person might be going through.
• Assuming the worst in others can lead to explosive anger and regrettable actions.
• Recognising that everyone has their struggles can help you respond with compassion instead of anger.
• Choosing to respond with empathy rather than reacting in anger can save relationships.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Sometimes, it takes just one angry outburst to hurt someone you love or to do unrepairable relationship damage. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into how to stop anger before it escalates.

Learn five simple strategies to stay calm and grounded when emotions run high. By utilising these strategies, you can prevent anger before it starts and protect your relationships.

Key Takeaways:

• Just one angry moment can hurt someone you love and escalate small issues into big ones.
• Recognising your Early Warning Signs of anger gives you more control over your reactions.
• Taking a Time-Out can help de-escalate anger and is a sign of strength, not weakness.
• Focusing on your breathing can calm your body during moments of rising anger, helping you reset.
• Reframing situations allows you to interpret events differently and maintain your emotional control.
• Thinking through the consequences of your anger can help you avoid regret and move toward desired outcomes.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.