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Families raising neurodivergent children face unique challenges, especially when it comes to sibling relationships. The dynamics between neurotypical and neurodivergent siblings can be complex, often leading to comments like "Why does she get more time on homework?" or "How come he never gets in trouble for yelling?" These moments reveal a deeper need for understanding what fairness really means.

At the heart of this episode is a powerful paradigm shift: fair doesn't mean equal. Just as we wouldn't expect everyone in a family to wear glasses when only one person needs them, accommodations for neurodivergent children aren't special treatment—they're necessary tools for success. This concept can be challenging for siblings to grasp, especially when they feel they're receiving less attention or different expectations.

The neurotypical sibling experience deserves special consideration. These children often develop remarkable strengths like empathy and adaptability, but they also navigate unique challenges. They might feel pressure to be "the easy child," take on caretaking responsibilities earlier than peers, or struggle with complex emotions like embarrassment followed by guilt. When they say "it's not fair," they might really be saying "I need attention too." Through practical strategies—like creating one-on-one time with each child, encouraging open expression of feelings, celebrating everyone's strengths, and adjusting support approaches through different developmental stages—families can foster understanding and connection. By building homes where every child feels seen and valued despite different needs, we create microcosms of the more inclusive world we want to see. Ready to transform sibling rivalry into sibling support? Listen now, and discover how to help all your children thrive together.

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