Our Guest for this episode:

Tom Shepard

Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https://www.Currencycamp.com and click on Find Your Financial Nature and take the assessment. Who am I? may be the most important question we ever ask ourselves and the most important information we share with the people in our lives

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Tom Shepard discuss the complexities of financial healing during and after divorce. They explore the common fears surrounding financial stability, the importance of acceptance in navigating change, and the empowerment that comes from understanding one's economic situation. The conversation emphasizes the need for a proactive approach to financial negotiations and the shift from a victim mentality to a victor mentality, encouraging listeners to embrace change as an opportunity for growth and improvement.

• Divorce can be a time of significant financial fear.
• Acceptance of change is crucial for moving forward.
• Financial independence empowers individuals post-divorce.
• Negotiation is key in financial settlements during divorce.
• The victim mentality can hinder progress and healing.
• Creating a vision for your financial future is essential.
• Change can lead to better opportunities and growth.
• Understanding your financial situation is empowering.
• Support from financial advisors can alleviate fears.
• Embracing change can lead to a more fulfilling life.

Navigating Financial Healing in Divorce

Embracing Change: A Path to Financial Independence

"You can negotiate your financial future."

"Change can lead to better opportunities."

"You can lay everything out on the table."

00:00 Introduction to Financial Healing

03:59 Understanding Financial Fear During Divorce

05:21 Acceptance and Change in Financial Circumstances

07:13 Navigating Financial Negotiations

09:43 Empowerment Through Financial Independence

11:39 The Role of Financial Planning in Healing

14:23 Overcoming Victim Mentality

16:55 Creating a Vision for the Future

19:27 Embracing Change as an Opportunity

21:58 Conclusion: Moving Forward with Confidence

35:26 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

36:55 Resources for Support and Growth

divorce, financial healing, financial fear, acceptance, empowerment, victim mentality, negotiation, change, financial independence, amicable divorce

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Our Guest for this Episode:

Carrie Mead

Carrie Mead, MS, LCPC, is a licensed mental health therapist in the states of Maryland and South Carolina. Carrie has a particular interest in working with families going through the divorce process, and she recognizes that the process is long, confusing, exhausting, and overwhelming. For the past 4 years, Carrie has been running psychotherapy groups for women contemplating divorce and for women in divorce recovery. The divorce contemplation groups have allowed many women to come together to discern if it is best for them to stay in the marriage or if it is best for them to peacefully end their marriage. This process of discernment is unique to each person and is based on their life experiences and the personal circumstances of their marriage. Carrie strives to help her clients find the path that honors their own understanding of themselves and their relationship.

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Carrie Mead discuss the complexities of divorce, focusing on discernment counseling as a tool for individuals contemplating separation. They explore the importance of self-discovery, the impact of family backgrounds on divorce decisions, and the need for open communication in relationships. The conversation emphasizes reframing divorce as an opportunity for personal growth and authenticity, while also addressing the emotional challenges that come with the process. Listeners are encouraged to seek support and consider the benefits of discernment counseling to navigate their unique situations.

• Discernment counseling helps individuals assess their relationship goals.
• Self-discovery is crucial in understanding one's needs in a marriage.
• Toxic relationships can have collateral damage on children and others.
• Divorce should not be viewed as a failure but as a chance for growth.
• Authenticity in relationships allows individuals to be their true selves.
• Recognizing patterns in relationships can lead to better decision-making.
• Family of origin influences can impact divorce fears and decisions.
• Many individuals contemplate divorce for years before taking action.
• Building courage and hope is essential for those considering divorce.
• Communication and flexibility are key components of a healthy marriage.

Navigating the Divorce Dilemma

The Power of Discernment in Relationships

"Do I stay or do I go?"

"It's okay to be apart."

"Divorce is not a failure."

00:00 Introduction to Divorce Dilemma

03:44 Understanding Discernment Counseling

06:58 Authenticity in Relationships

09:38 Reframing Divorce as Growth

12:56 The Process of Discernment

15:38 Family Background and Divorce Fears

17:08 Statistics on Marriage and Divorce

18:32 Overcoming Fear in Divorce

20:13 Flexibility and Communication in Marriage

24:40 Understanding Emotional Abuse and Therapy Dynamics

27:32 The Role of Coaching vs. Therapy

31:49 Exploring Discernment Counseling

35:54 Rethinking Marriage Contracts

42:14 Top Tips for Navigating Divorce

46:08 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

47:37 Resources for Support and...

Our Guest For This Episode:

Tom Shepard

Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https://www.Currencycamp.com and click on Find Your Financial Nature and take the assessment. Who am I? may be the most important question we ever ask ourselves and the most important information we share with the people in our lives

Tom Shepard's Website

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Tom Shepard explore the intricate relationship between money and happiness, especially in the context of divorce. They discuss how to navigate financial negotiations during difficult times, the importance of understanding one's financial nature, and the empowerment that comes from taking control of one's finances. The conversation emphasizes the need to reframe beliefs about money and happiness, encouraging listeners to focus on the bigger picture and engage in positive self-talk.

• Money does not equal happiness, but understanding its role is crucial.
• Life is inherently difficult, and acceptance can lead to peace.
• Pressing the pause button during emotional negotiations is essential.
• Focusing on the bigger picture can ease financial negotiations.
• Understanding your financial nature helps in managing money effectively.
• Post-divorce, individuals must learn to manage and protect their finances.
• Empowerment comes from taking responsibility for financial decisions.
• Reframing negative beliefs about money can lead to positive changes.
• Self-talk influences financial behavior and outcomes.
• It's important to recognize discomfort as a part of growth.

Does Money Equal Happiness?

Navigating Financial Challenges in Divorce

"Does money equal happiness?"

"You can do it and you will."

"Word, action, belief."

00:00 Introduction to Money and Happiness

04:08 Defining Happiness in Difficult Times

13:00 Navigating Divorce and Financial Negotiations

21:35 Understanding Financial Natures

31:22 Empowerment Through Financial Management

40:05 Reframing Beliefs About Money and Happiness

48:44 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

50:13 Resources for Support and Growth

money, happiness, divorce, financial planning, emotional well-being, negotiation, self-empowerment, financial nature, relationships, personal growth

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