Links to speak to today's guests:
Thuy Lam: buildwealthcanada.ca/plan
Alanna Abramsky: broadmoney.ca

After conducting hundreds of interviews over the past 10 years with different financial experts and those who have been able to hit their financial independence number early, one of the common themes and best practices that I’ve noticed emerge time and time again is that those who are wealthy actually track their spending.

At the end of the day, knowing what you spend every year on essential expenses versus discretionary expenses like vacations and fun activities lets you actually forecast with pretty good accuracy how much you need to become financially independent so that you can retire early if you wish.

It’s also one of the key, critical ingredients that you need to be able to know whether you can sustainably live off your portfolio, and for how long.

Now, I will admit, tracking expenses is not something that I personally find fun. It’s one more thing to do, and we’re all busy enough as it is. But literally every single financial planner that I have ever worked with over the years who knew what they were doing, and every single person that I’ve talked to who was able to retire early or reach financial independence early, had expenses as one of the key components that they managed and that they needed to know to be able to determine with accuracy when it is safe to stop working and live off your investments forever.

It really is a skill and process worth developing that you will literally be using your whole life. My wife and I have now been either fully retired or semi-retired for the past 9 years here in Canada, and I can tell you that knowing our expenses year to year has been critical in making sure that we don’t overspend and have to go back to work. And, as I’ve mentioned in the past, knowing this has also been a huge financial anxiety reducer for me personally, since you actually know how much you have and how much you need, and so you aren’t in a state of anxiety every time that the credit card bill comes in, hoping that you and your family didn’t overspend this month.

In this episode, I invited 2 highly experienced financial coaches here in Canada to discuss how we should be tracking our expenses, whether we actually need a traditional budget, the different processes that we can follow to properly manage this key component of our financial lives as efficiently as possible, and what tools we can use here in Canada to make this whole process less tedious and more automated and productive.

Our first guest is Thuy Lam. Thuy is a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) with over 20 years in financial planning, financial coaching, wealth management, and business consulting experience. She enjoys working with clients who value financial advice conveyed in an easy-to-understand fashion, and especially those looking for help with cash flow planning while going through a life change, such as a new job or career, marriage, divorce, or retirement. I've worked with Thuy personally, and she's been amazing at helping my wife and I plan out our finances in our early retirement.

Our second guest is Alanna Abramsky. She has been financial coaching for over 10 years and has helped more than 1,000 Canadians over this time. She has over 30 years of experience in the personal finance field, and she started Broad Money with the mission of empowering Canadians to take control of their financial futures, offering support and guidance every step of the way.

Have you ever felt that knot in your stomach watching the stock market tumble, especially after you’ve just invested some of your hard earned money? Have you ever wondered how seasoned investors with large amounts invested handle those gut-wrenching portfolio drops?

Well in this episode, we're tackling market volatility head-on. Our guest Marc Beavis is a seasoned investor who’s lived through multiple major crashes over the decades, and he shares powerful mindset shifts and actionable strategies to help you stay calm, stay invested, and stay on track—even when the headlines scream chaos.

I also share my own strategies that have helped me stay calm, anxiety-free, and stay invested after nearly two decades of investing which has played a huge impact in helping us achieve financial independence in our early thirties.

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One of the reasons that I really wanted to have Marc on the show is that:

1. He’s been in the industry for decades working with clients, so he’s got not only wisdom on what has helped him stay the course over the decades with multiple stock market drops, but also what has worked well for others that he’s worked with; Canadians with different personalities and temperaments.
   
   

2. He’s retired and in his 60's so he actually has real life experience going through the crashes with a significant amount of his own money invested, like in the 2008 financial crisis and the tech crash in the 2000s, just to name a few.
   
   

3. He also runs one of the largest Canadian investing YouTube channels in Canada, called Beavis Wealth, so despite retiring, he’s still very much on top of what’s been happening and what we can do to better handle declines in our own portfolios.

Thanks to Marc’s help, you'll learn the mindset shifts needed to endure significant declines, and discover proven strategies for staying calm and confident when your investments plummet.

Today’s episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt confused, anxious, or just plain stuck when it comes to money. We're diving deep into the emotional and psychological side of personal finance with Jessica Moorhouse, an accredited financial counsellor who's spent over a decade helping Canadians untangle their money struggles.

In this conversation, Jess reveals the most common patterns she's seen over the years—from overspending traps to financial fears we rarely talk about—and the simple, practical strategies that can truly make a difference.

We’ll also unpack powerful insights from her new book, “The Hidden Barriers Between You and Financial Freedom”, including why even those who are financially secure can still feel stressed about money. You’ll learn how to spot the invisible forces that keep you stuck, and more importantly, how to move past them.

Plus, if you're in a relationship, this episode is packed with real-world advice on managing money as a couple—without the fights and resentment.

By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with actionable tips and the clarity you need to take control of your financial future—without losing your peace of mind.

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