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  • 38: Getting into it with The Boundary Badasses

    38: Getting into it with The Boundary Badasses
    May 22 2025
    In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce.

    Together, they explore:

    • What coercive control looks like and how to recognize it

    • How to negotiate vs. compromise in a relationship

    • Setting personal and relationship boundaries

    • Speaking from your “authentic voice”

    • How unresolved childhood wounds affect adult dynamics

    • How to shift from conflict to connection in healthy ways

    Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience.

    📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass
    🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com
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  • 37: The Anxious Generation | Why Kids Are More Anxious Than Ever | Conversations for Couples Podcast

    37: The Anxious Generation | Why Kids Are More Anxious Than Ever | Conversations for Couples Podcast
    May 8 2025
    In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt dive into The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt—a powerful and eye-opening look at how the rise of smartphones, social media, and a decline in real-world play are fueling an epidemic of anxiety and depression in kids.

    As a family therapist and a divorce lawyer with decades of experience—and as parents and grandparents—Julie and David bring personal stories, professional insight, and practical takeaways to help families navigate modern parenting.

    They explore:

    • The importance of free play for healthy brain development

    • How overprotection in the real world and underprotection online is hurting kids

    • Concrete steps to reduce anxiety and build resilience

    • Why schools and parents should rethink kids and smartphones

    If you're raising children, working with kids, or simply wondering what’s changed in the past decade, this is a must-listen.

    🎧 Learn more at: www.afloodoflove.com
    📲 Follow us on all platforms: @TheBullitts

    📖 Book discussed: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
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  • 36: Marrying Business and Love with The Couplepreneurs

    36: Marrying Business and Love with The Couplepreneurs
    Apr 24 2025
    In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Kyle and Ariel from Couple Entrepreneurs—a married couple in South Florida who not only run a successful business together but also coach other entrepreneurial couples on how to grow their business without growing apart.

    They share their personal journey of moving from the “anti-honeymoon” phase to becoming business partners and co-founders. Together, we explore:

    • The early struggles of working with your spouse

    • Boundaries that protect both the relationship and the business

    • Communication tactics that build respect and clarity

    • The "four-part framework" every couple in business should know: Vision, Goals, Strategy, and Roles

    • How to reignite romance after work mode

    • Why building couple confidence is essential for long-term success

    💡 Whether you're in business with your partner or just want to communicate better, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt moments, and real talk.

    Links & Resources:

    🔗 Learn more about Kyle & Ariel's work:
    https://kyleandariel.com/cplive

    📲 Follow them on Instagram:
    https://instagram.com/couplepreneurs
    DM the word “VISION” for their free Vision Date guide!

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    #ConversationsForCouples #CouplesInBusiness #MarriageAndBusiness #RelationshipGoals #EntrepreneurCouple
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    34 m
  • 35: Conquering Intimacy Conflict with Steph Flood, LMFT

    35: Conquering Intimacy Conflict with Steph Flood, LMFT
    Apr 10 2025
    Why is it so hard for couples to talk about sex and intimacy—even after years together?

    In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt sit down with licensed therapist and intimacy expert Steph Flood to talk all things sex, shame, vulnerability, and communication in long-term relationships.

    Steph has worked with over 1,000 couples, helping them reignite their intimacy and navigate issues like mismatched libidos, infidelity, low sex drive, and that all-too-common post-kid disconnect. She brings honesty, humor, and professional insight into one of the most vulnerable topics couples face.

    💬 What We Cover in This Episode:

    • Why we’re never taught how to talk about sex

    • The shame and silence around intimacy in relationships

    • Why parenting and menopause are intimacy killers—and how to reconnect

    • What really happens with mismatched sex drives

    • The truth about porn, performance anxiety, and unrealistic expectations

    • How to rekindle desire when your bodies—and routines—have changed

    • The “daily affection” tip that helps couples stay close

    • Why honest check-ins and communication may save your marriage

    • Steph’s 3 go-to tips for couples struggling with sex

    📌 Steph’s Top 3 Tips:

    1. Have regular intimacy check-ins: "How’s this going for you?" goes a long way.

    2. Practice daily affection: Hugs, touch, and physical closeness—not just sex—keep your bond strong.

    3. Be honest about your needs before they turn into resentments. Vulnerability builds connection.

    👩‍💻 More About Steph Flood:
    Steph is a Nashville-based marriage and family therapist who offers virtual therapy, courses, and coaching for couples across the country.

    📲 Find her at:
    🔗 Website: www.afloodoflove.com
    📸 Instagram: @stephfloodoflove

    💑 Hosted by Julie & David Bullitt
    Julie is a licensed family therapist. David is a divorce and family lawyer. Married for 38 years, they've worked with couples through the toughest of times—and come out stronger.

    📍 Chapters:
    00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
    02:00 Why Is Sex So Hard to Talk About?
    06:40 Shame, Religion, and the Messages We Inherit
    09:50 Common Points Where Couples Drift
    12:20 How to Talk About Intimacy Without Blame
    15:15 Post-Kids, Menopause, and Low Libido
    20:00 When Porn Becomes a Problem
    23:30 Communication Tools: Check-Ins, Affection & Honesty
    28:10 Daily Touch & the “Are You Needing More?” Conversation
    31:00 Safe Communication for When You Feel Disconnected
    34:00 Steph’s Online Course & How to Work With Her
    36:00 Final Takeaways

    🔔 Subscribe to our podcast for honest conversations, helpful advice, and real-life stories about what it takes to make love last.

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    🌐 Learn more at www.thebullitts.com
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  • 34: Still Golden! A Visit with Joan and Chock

    34: Still Golden! A Visit with Joan and Chock
    Mar 27 2025
    In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛

    It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic.

    🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss:

    • How Joan & Chock built a relationship after The Golden Bachelor

    • Why communication is at the heart of their connection

    • Navigating intimacy and connection later in life

    • Merging adult families and celebrating the holidays together

    • Managing long-distance love with intention

    • Dealing with public pressure, fans, and the doubters

    • Their honest take on what it’s really like dating on TV

    • Chock’s sock situation (yes, you read that right 😂)

    💬 Favorite Quotes:
    ➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?"
    ➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married."
    ➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day."

    🔗 Follow Joan & Chock
    📸 Joan: @joan_vassos
    📸 Chock: @chockchapple
    💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC

    📍 Chapters
    00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
    01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor
    05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun
    09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays
    13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise
    17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy
    23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements
    28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation
    34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned
    40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate
    46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy
    51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts

    💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt
    🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo
    🔹 Follow us @TheBulitts
    🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com
    🎙️ Podcast: Conversations for Couples

    📣 Subscribe for more honest, heartfelt, and humorous conversations about love, marriage, and relationships at every stage of life!
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  • 33: Dolly and Carl Dean- Lessons for All of Us

    33: Dolly and Carl Dean- Lessons for All of Us
    Mar 13 2025
    Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔

    Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore:

    💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964
    The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman
    Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s
    How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship
    The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships
    Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together
    What made their love so strong despite their differences
    ✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
    🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com
    📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business”
    💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource

    🎧 Chapters:
    00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
    01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat
    04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman
    07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years
    10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust
    14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships
    19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free
    22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness
    27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean
    30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection?

    💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments!

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    18 m
  • 32: Finding Love with DC's Matchmaker, Kate O'Connor

    32: Finding Love with DC's Matchmaker, Kate O'Connor
    Feb 27 2025
    Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!

    Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.

    💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • How elite matchmaking works (and why high-net-worth individuals use it)
    • Why checklist dating doesn’t work (and what to focus on instead)
    • The top relationship challenges & how to overcome them
    • Understanding attachment styles & personality types in dating
    • How to flirt naturally and build genuine attraction
    • Dealing with fear of rejection & past relationship baggage
    • Finding love after divorce or loss
    • Kate’s personal love story & what she learned along the way
    ✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
    🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match
    🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn

    🎧 Chapters:
    00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
    01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker
    04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?
    07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types
    12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers
    16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma
    22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”
    26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection
    30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss
    36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned
    42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society
    45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice

    💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!

    Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society:
    🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com
    🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker
    🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety

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    YouTube Tags:
    Matchmaking, high-net-worth dating, finding love, dating tips, elite matchmaking, attachment styles, personality types, flirting tips, dating after divorce, overcoming dating fears, relationship coaching, dating advice, Conversations for Couples, Kate O’Connor, Select Date Society, relationship success, dating after loss.
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  • 31: Reigniting Relationship Passion with Susan Bratton

    31: Reigniting Relationship Passion with Susan Bratton
    Feb 13 2025
    In this steamy episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a deep dive into reigniting passion, closing the libido gap, and strengthening long-term relationships through better sex and deeper connection.

    Susan, a sexual biohacker, CEO, and bestselling author, shares powerful insights on how couples can maintain a fulfilling sex life, why mismatched libidos are a myth, and how to bring more pleasure into your relationship. From orgasmic techniques and libido hacks to sensory seduction and sex-life bucket lists, this episode is packed with game-changing strategies for couples who want to reignite desire and make love that lasts a lifetime.

    🔥 Topics Covered:

    Why "mismatched libidos" is a myth
    The difference between libido, desire, and arousal
    How women’s and men’s sexual operating systems differ
    Why foreplay vs. sex is a misleading concept
    The role of safety, relaxation & emotional connection in arousal
    Practical steps to revive your sex life after months or years of disconnect
    Techniques for orgasmic intercourse & pleasure mapping
    How small seduction offers can bring back passion
    The Sex Life Bucket List and how it transforms relationships
    Biohacking for better intimacy: Nitric oxide, GainsWave, and more
    ✨ Resources Mentioned:
    🔗 Orgasmic Intercourse Techniques (Game-changing techniques for deeper pleasure)
    🔗 Magic Pill Method (Step-by-step guide for couples to revive their intimacy)
    🔗 Better Lover Newsletter (Weekly expert sex tips & techniques)
    🔗 Sex Life Bucket List (48 erotic playdate ideas for couples)
    🔗 Pumping Guide (How to increase sensitivity & pleasure)

    💬 What was your biggest takeaway? Drop a comment below!

    Follow Susan Bratton:
    🔹 Instagram: @SusanBratton
    🔹 Website: BetterLover.com
    🔹 YouTube: Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert

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    Website: www.thebulitts.com
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    50 m
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