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  • Love, Loss & Lessons: A Journey Through Our 20s | 008
    May 22 2025

    Join us for a riveting episode of The DINKWAP Show, where our hosts delve candidly into the complexities of dating in your early 20s. In this heartfelt conversation, our guest Des shares her personal journey through love and heartbreak, revealing the lessons learned from both fleeting romances and serious relationships. With a mix of humor and sincerity, the hosts tackle topics like the all-too-familiar dating rules, the challenges of transitioning from college to adulthood, and the intricacies of navigating emotional turbulence.


    This episode captures the essence of youthful exploration and self-discovery, inviting listeners to reflect on their own experiences while enjoying lively banter between friends. Tune in for an engaging and relatable discussion that balances the serious and the light-hearted, perfect for anyone reminiscing about their journey through love and life.

    • (00:00) - - Opening banter about the "three-month rule"
    • (02:40) - - Des opens up about dating right after a serious relationship
    • (03:54) - - The story of Des's first serious heartbreak
    • (08:00) - - Exploring dating through parties and events
    • (10:30) - - The cultural aspects of dating across nationalities
    • (18:00) - - Reflections on growth and maturity in relationships
    • (23:00) - - Why clean breaks are essential after a breakup
    • (30:50) - - Wrap-up and signing off

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    33 m
  • Learning to Love: Confessions from Our College Years | 007
    May 15 2025

    In this candid episode of The DINKWAP Show, three friends reminisce about their early dating experiences during and after college. With humor and honesty, they explore the awkward encounters, questionable decisions, and valuable lessons learned in their early 20s. Join them as they discuss how age, maturity, and friendship shaped their romantic journeys and perspectives on relationships. A relatable conversation about finding yourself while trying to find love.

    • (00:00) - Intro
    • (01:14) - College dating experiences
    • (04:59) - The challenges of dating in your early 20s
    • (13:40) - The church movie incident
    • (21:35) - Learning from past relationships
    • (27:34) - Words of wisdom for 20-somethings

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    29 m
  • First Heartbreaks and Pet Names: Dating Stories from College Years | 006
    May 8 2025

    Join us for another captivating episode of The DINKWAP Show, where hosts Rem, Alvia, and Des delve into the complexities of relationships, nostalgia, and the lessons learned along the way. In this episode, the trio reflects on their high school and college dating experiences, sharing humorous anecdotes and heartfelt moments that reveal the fragility of youth and the bittersweet nature of first loves.


    As they navigate through tales of crushes, misunderstandings, and the trials of being a "sadboi," listeners will find themselves reminiscing about their own formative years. With a blend of wit and sincerity, the hosts explore the impact of friendships, the significance of pet names, and the sometimes painful lessons that come with growing up.


    Tune in for a delightful mix of laughter and introspection, as The DINKWAP Show continues to celebrate the journey of love and friendship in all its forms.

    • (00:00) - - Introduction and Fragility Discussion
    • (01:16) - - The Blue Magic Story
    • (02:27) - - High School Dating Experiences
    • (04:51) - - College Dating Challenges
    • (10:47) - - Rem's Heartfelt Story
    • (19:11) - - The Loan That Led to Heartbreak
    • (24:33) - - Reflections on Youth and Relationships
    • (25:21) - - Closing Remarks

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    26 m
  • High School Confessions: Dating, Crushes, and Blue Magic | 005
    May 1 2025

    Relive the awkward, hilarious, and surprisingly relatable journey of first loves and dating blunders in this week's DINKWAP Show episode! Alvia, Rem, and Des delve into their high school dating experiences, sharing stories of puppy love, clandestine relationships, and the infamous "Blue Magic" teddy bears. From origami love letters to the unspoken rules of high school courtship, this episode is a nostalgic trip down memory lane with plenty of laughs. Listen in as they unpack the differences between dating in their early twenties versus their late twenties, and discover why Rem has been "restless" all week. Prepare for a candid conversation that’s both endearing and entertaining.

    • (00:02) - Preview and Introduction
    • (01:44) - Find out why Des, their only friend, was unexpectedly invited to this episode.
    • (03:40) - Girl math is explained - how a simple dinner led to two bottles of wine.
    • (04:38) - Rem's restless week and his surprising reflections on dating are discussed.
    • (05:50) - Hear their stories of high school dating and the unique challenges of attending Catholic schools.
    • (12:44) - Discover what "Blue Magic" is and why it was a big deal in high school.
    • (18:40) - Alvia shares her first official boyfriend and the realities of dating in college.
    • (22:20) - Learn about the differences in dating culture between their generation and Gen Z.
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    28 m
  • Childfree by Choice, Childless by Circumstance: A DINK Perspective | 004
    May 1 2025

    On this week's episode of The DINKWAP Show, Rem and Alvia delve into the diverse realities of childless couples. They challenge societal expectations surrounding family structures, sharing personal anecdotes and insightful perspectives on the pressures faced by DINKs (Dual Income No Kids) – from those who've chosen this path to those who haven't had the same choice. A candid and empathetic conversation that explores the complexities of family planning and the importance of respecting individual choices. Join them as they navigate the joys and challenges of a life less ordinary, and maybe even learn a thing or two about the Filipino version of "Defying Gravity."

    • (00:00) - Preview and Intro
    • (01:39) - Couples Who Want Children But Can't
    • (04:30) - The Challenges Faced by Same-Sex Couples
    • (11:35) - Societal Pressures & The Importance of Choice

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    15 m
  • Navigating the DINK Life: A Candid Conversation on Adoption | 003
    May 1 2025

    Join Rem and Alvia on this week's DINKWAP Show as they delve into a deeply personal conversation about their decision not to have biological children and the possibility of adoption. With their signature blend of humor and heartfelt honesty, they explore the complexities of family planning, societal expectations, and the rewarding journey of opening their hearts and home to a child in need. Prepare for laughter, thoughtful reflection, and a refreshing perspective on modern family dynamics.

    • (00:00) - Introduction and DINKWAP Life
    • (01:07) - Adoption Discussion Begins
    • (03:21) - Alvia Explains PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome)
    • (10:49) - Hilarious Government Agency Mix-Up
    • (12:01) - Adoption Process in the Philippines
    • (14:34) - Addressing the Stigma Around Adoption
    • (18:51) - The Purest Form of Love
    • (20:05) - Conclusion

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    21 m
  • Generational Trauma & the Choice to Parent | 002
    May 1 2025

    Picking up where they left off, Rem and Alvia tackle a serious subject with their signature blend of humor and heartfelt honesty: Should they have kids? This episode of the DINKWAP Show is a rollercoaster of candid confessions, relatable anxieties, and unexpected tangents (memes are involved). Join the conversation as they unpack the realities of modern parenthood and ponder the ultimate question: Is it all worth it?

    • (00:32) - Intro
    • (01:18) - Discussing the "grind years" and ideal age for parenthood
    • (02:41) - The influence of societal emphasis on trauma and mental health
    • (03:16) - Rem's fears about passing on trauma to a child
    • (05:28) - Emotional maturity in parenting
    • (08:09) - The impact of social media
    • (18:09) - The big question: Adoption vs. biological children?

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    19 m
  • Introducing the DINKWAP Show: A Podcast for Childfree Couples | 001
    May 1 2025

    Ever wondered what life looks like as a Dual Income, No Kids couple in the Philippines? Rem and Alvia, in their debut episode of the DINKWAP Show, offer a glimpse into their lives, sharing the funny and serious sides of their child-free choice. From societal pressures to personal reflections, they tackle it all with humor and honesty, promising a refreshing take on relationships and life choices.

    • (00:16) - Intro and Podcast Explanation
    • (02:04) - What does DINKWAP mean?
    • (03:01) - Rem and Alvia's personal reasons for choosing a child-free life
    • (08:59) - The inspiration behind "The DINKWAP Show"
    • (10:09) - A deeper dive into their individual perspectives on parenthood

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    20 m
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