Do you find yourself mixing accountability and karma up? Do you blame yourself for every bad thing that happened? Are you constantly changing and calling it growth? Is that change to appease your bias of yourself? When you're ready to know your pain doesn't have to be in vain, THIS episode is for YOU!

In our life, for whatever reason, we attract some pretty crappy folks. You can choose yourself though. You can't complain about the people in your life, and run back to the same people who hurt you to begin with. If you're ready to feel heard about having crap friends AND learn how to make room for your people, this is YOUR episode. TUNE IN NOW!

Grief comes in many shapes for various reasons. As a single mom, I have grieved many many things. Homes, cars, jobs, relationships, trauma, and worst of all, the death of my son. If you want to gain the confidence and safety that you can live and grieve at the same time, then this episode is for you.

Still choosing to love and show up even when the world has beaten you down does NOT mean you have to continue to be mistreated. Set boundaries for yourself and your love and your giving. Save this podcast and listen every time you need a reminder that boundaries are SAFE!

Do you find yourself giving and living in love? Maybe you have it to give, maybe you don't. Your heart understands everyone's situations. You give to pour into the universe and believe it will come back. It WON'T! EVER! Not from them anyways. Listen to this episode if you are so tired of being the giver but being burnt out.

This episode is RAW. Hiding on my balcony as I journal the tears away. In a world full of bitter haters, stand out and operate in love. Even when it is lonely, even when it is hard, even when you have every reason to be bitter, still operate in love. Some, MOST, people are really sucky, and that is NOT YOUR FAULT. Reflect who YOU want to be in the mirror, not the bitterness they want you to exude. True soul peace is found in love.

Why is dating so hard? Seems even harder in your 30's. Women spend their twenties being a wife to a boy, men spend theirs being a player to a nonexistent game. Women heal in their 30's, men transition to settling down. Both are shamed for their growth and adjustment and held in their past. Where is the alignment? Where are the realistic boundaries ladies? Where is the accountability and true growth, men? You can STOP allowing behaviors and heal at any age you choose to. There is no time limit or age limit of breaking patterns and generational curses. Both sides deserve grace.

Join in this episodes poll. If you want to state why for your answer, send an email to nfluencr1003@gmail.com. I will read a select few in the second part of this episode.

This episode covered a social media status I made 5/23 about never feeling seen. It sparked interest, so I felt compelled to share here. When the world shuts us out, it is so easy to feel disregarded. Life goes on while we are paralyzed. This can create thoughts of not being worthy like other people seem to be. You are seen. You are worthy. You have to align with rooms that are meant for your purpose. Some rooms may be small, with just a few people, that is ok.