Have you ever doubted? Whether you've doubted yourself, the existence of a higher power, the efficacy of "alternative" healing techniques, or anything that goes against the mainstream -- this has likely come up for you at some point.

When Naushad was young, he came very close to being a pro soccer player. But physical injury after injury stymied him, and set him on a path of healing that took him from North to South America and beyond.

This is one man's personal journey of going from being a skeptic to a believer. Not a blind faith believer, but one with nuance and consideration -- and longstanding impacts on not only his his sex, dating, and relationship life, but his experience with Life itself.

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Want to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good. If you're looking for high-quality relationship advice, we've got it.

To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

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• “The limiting beliefs started to pick up and escalate.”
• “I could not sit with myself because there was so much anxiety.”
• “I had to ask for help, and that has historically been one of the most difficult things for me.”
• “Immediately all these doors start to open, without me trying.”
• “The messages are always there; it’s just a matter of whether we’re willing to listen.”
• “In the seeking, what that meant for me was having the humility to say, ‘I don’t know.’”
• “I’m in a dark hole and I don’t know what to do.”
• “The practice becomes not working or trying, but letting go and letting it come through.”
• “'True faith is being able to step forward when you can’t see.'”
• “What’s the next right door?”
• “This is the most important work you’ll ever do in your life.”

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• Naushad's site (https://resilientbeing.me/)
• Book rec: The Alchemist
• Book rec: The Celestine Prophecy
• Dear Men episode 305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming and trauma

Are you concerned about your lack of experience, whether that's sexually, in a dating context, or time in long-term relationships? Maybe you feel behind in some way, and hesitant or fearful about telling a woman about your level of experience.

As Jason says, "For men in particular, it means something about you if you haven’t had sex."

If it took you a while to start dating, have sex, or get into a relationship (or if, perhaps, you're not there yet as of today), you're not alone!

Here we talk through Jason's experience around pursuing ("The hope was a girl would tell me they liked me, and THEN I would feel comfortable to make the move."); dating without a lot of sexual experience (“I was terrified of what a partner would think.”); and journey around overcoming these patterns ("When you have the right system, growth can happen pretty fast!”)

Listen on to feel more relaxed and empowered about your dating and relationship experience -- wherever you're starting from.

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• "All my somatic, unprocessed wounding would come forward."
• "There’s this deep sense of being behind."
• "If you don’t like me, I get hooked on you in a sense."
• "In my family, we were robots in the same house."
• "He had people on his team to cross this divide."
• "I kinda ended up with a partner that I don’t really like."
• "Every man carries a few arrows in his heart."
• "Who even wants me? What is my value to society?"
• "It was hard to throw myself into a career when I didn’t know myself."
• "Opportunity comes from connection."

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• DM 196: The “invisible” relationship pattern that can affect everything (on childhood neglect)
• Book: Of Boys & men: Why the Modern Male is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It

Want to be even sexier to women than you are now? ;) Learn to strike while the iron is hot!

Seriously though -- striking while the iron is hot makes you a man who can generate polarity, build trust, and have women want to surrender to you. Knowing how and when to take action is very sexy ... and passivity, not so much. And all of these principles apply whether you're in a dating relationship or you've been married for decades.

Here we go through examples of men who've done this well in dating, relationships, and yes, definitely in sex! And we talk about times that we as women have felt confused, rejected, or both -- as well as times we felt lit up, radiant, desired, and HOT for the men in our lives!

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Want to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good. If you're looking for high-quality relationship advice, we've got it.

To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

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• “Sure, I’m not happy, but at least I know my non-happiness.”
• “Relationships are a skill.”
• “I always felt his desire for me and I always knew where I stood and how he felt”
• "Panty Droppers: 'I’m on it,' 'I’ve got it,' 'I’ll take care of it now.'"
• “My inner turmoil is more important than your needs.”
• “I was saying, ‘I need more sex or this relationship won’t be successful.’”
• “He wasn’t willing to do the hard work — the work to really look at his trauma."
• "It’s deeply masculine to seek the right counsel.”

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• DM episode 332: Have you ever gone into freeze? Here's what's actually going on