We all know someone who frequently complains about their problems but actively rejects any offered solutions or support we try to give. These types of people are "help rejecting complainers"... or as we like to refer to them .. askholes.

In this episode Kathy and Nikki talk about how they handle these exact types of people and well ... they might just call you out if you are one of those people too!

Stay tuned for an all new episode next week!

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Nikki's Favorite : ELF Setting Misthttps://a.co/d/gASZQWp

https://a.co/d/c1O3NAl

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May is Lyme Disease & Mental Health Awareness Month.

Did you know every year an estimated 500,000 people are diagnosed and treated for Lyme disease ? Thousands of so many others go undiagnosed and suffer for years.

In this episode Kathy shares a glimpse into her 15+ year journey with Nikki of what it is like having Lyme disease to help spread awareness and let others know they are not alone.

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Links to our favorites this week and some references mentioned in this episode are listed below.

Nikki’s Favorite this week

Timeless Skin Care Coenzyme Q10

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WFFH6GY?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Kathy’s Favorite this week

https://www.lipton.com/us/en/our-teas/iced-tea/

https://www.lymedisease.org/

Spoon Theory

https://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/

Under Our Skin Documentary

https://youtu.be/2JgR_Jfbhv8?si=7p5F7mPtcgrUW1kG

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You may have noticed we look a little different this week! We thought we would have a little fun while talking about a topic that hits close to home for so many.

If you have ever experienced hair loss then this episode is for you! We have our special guest this week, our friend Nickie, and she is sharing her journey through hair loss and regaining confidence in wearing wigs.

Links to this week's favorites:

http://www.samsclub.com/sams/a/P990391155.ip

Nikki's Tiki Torches: https://www.wayfair.com/lighting/pdp/wbm-smart-solar-lights-waterproof-flickering-flame-led-solar-night-light-xbqh1117.html

Kathy's Hair Oil:

https://amazinghairsaviour.com/products/amazing-hair-saviour?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=19894886136&gclid=Cj0KCQjw8vvABhCcARIsAOCfwwqIOzfSJelyImSkRZgBSAVwYIwlampBIb5mEXp0pcYur6BV1IkORfgaAiI8EALw_

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https://www.tiktok.com/@blessedhomeschoolmess?_t=ZP-8wFDlzFTFDL&_r=1

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Sometimes it is hard to decide what path to go when we are faced with big life decisions. In this episode Kathy and Nikki discuss what it means to "choose the bigger life" and hope that their experiences and what they have learned, help when you have trouble making a big decision in the future!

We would love to connect with you, drop a comment below or send us a message to let us know your thoughts!

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Who has battled with forgiveness? We sure have! In this episode we discuss our perspective on what forgiveness looks like and the different kinds of forgiveness we experience. We would love to connect with you, drop a comment below or send us a message to let us know your thoughts! We have also linked our favorite things this week below!

Our Fav's this week!The Measure: A Novel https://a.co/d/i6wWlIH

Weighted vest https://a.co/d/3b6qCCc

Peanut butter cookies https://togetherasfamily.com/4-ingredient-peanut-butter-cookies-easy-cookie-recipe/#wprm-recipe-container-45632

Hatch Restore

https://www.hatch.co/restore?utm_source=google_search&utm_medium=paid_search&utm_campaign=19582800893&utm_adgroup=158824990304&utm_content=727350051751&utm_term=hatch%20restore&utm_device=m&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw5azABhD1ARIsAA0WFUHuNT9VHAJo3oDRc2YFFmNw03HopbLwdGf78BZa-wwDPiBooPUGwkMaArNQEALw_wcB

Mel Robbins podcast episode

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1ke1XvXyRISaDOmmn0edjn?si=ALO-Bf21TcCMXC0RKlpwYA

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When parental roles are reversed it can become a challenging season. In this episode Nikki and Kathy discuss their experiences being the caretaker while juggling the demands of life.

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Society often has an influence on everything we do and say and everything we don't. In this episode Kathy and Nikki get into why things we don't talk about enough should be normalized! If you would like to be a guest on the pod, have questions you want to hear answered or have topic ideas for future episodes, please send an email to: definingyouconnection@gmail.com

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