Keywords

Arden Coutts, queer fiction, podcasting, writing retreats, mental health, creativity, community, identity, romance, LGBTQ+

Summary

In this episode, Arden Coutts shares their journey as a trans non-binary author and podcaster, discussing the evolution of their creative process, the impact of mental health on their work, and the importance of community and connection. Arden reflects on their experiences transitioning from corporate life to pursuing their passion for writing, the role of music and dreams in their storytelling, and the challenges of moving back to Nebraska while navigating family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the significance of curiosity over judgment and the power of embracing change in the creative process.

Takeaways

Arden is a trans non-binary author and podcaster.

They transitioned from a corporate job to a creative career.

Music and dreams significantly influence Arden's writing.

Mental health plays a crucial role in creativity.

Arden emphasizes the importance of community and connection.

They advocate for curiosity over judgment in conversations about identity.

Arden's writing journey evolved from fantasy to romance.

They encourage others to embrace chaos as a catalyst for growth.

Arden is open to educating others about queer identities.

They recommend being proactive in creating supportive spaces for queer youth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Arden Coutts

03:01 The Journey of Podcasting and Mental Health

05:58 Transitioning from Podcasting to Authorship

08:46 The Evolution of Writing: From Fantasy to Romance

12:14 The Role of Music and Dreams in Writing

14:58 Navigating Creativity and Mental Health

17:56 The Process of Writing: Pantsing vs. Plotting

20:57 Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs

24:01 The Importance of Authenticity in Art

27:00 Final Thoughts on Creativity and Self-Expression

29:57 The Journey of Self-Prioritization

35:30 Navigating Change and Moving Forward

42:40 Childhood Influences on Adult Choices

48:59 Embracing Self-Acceptance

52:05 Navigating Community and Connection

55:06 Creating Safe Spaces for Queer Youth

56:17 The Power of Education and Curiosity

01:01:08 Book Recommendations and Creative Inspiration

01:07:28 Advice for Creatives and Embracing Change