Do you also struggle with trying to control?

Do you try to control your husband so you'll have a happier marriage? Do you try to control your children's misbehavior with punishments and consequences rather than teaching them how to behave?

Here’s the truth - We can't control others – not our husband and not our children - but we can always control how we respond to them.

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Summer can be great and it can be challenging as a parent. Our parenting strengths and weaknesses are on full display! In this replay episode, I give you the steps to help your child listen to you the first time. Children need to be taught to listen. And they're human, like us, so they naturally may not want to listen because they're busy with something else. This episode helps you teach them to listen so you won't have a summer of angry frustration and so your children can really enjoy their time with you! The chimes that I mention can be found HERE.

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It’s when a child responds to authority, usually a parent, in a rude, defiant, or disrespectful way.

Now, back talk isn’t always about rebellion.

It often comes from frustration, a need for control, or emotional overwhelm.

And while it’s frustrating, it’s important to understand that it’s developmentally normal.

Kids, especially early teens and teens, are learning to assert themselves.

But just because it’s a normal developmental stage, doesn’t mean it’s okay.

And when we feel disrespected or angry, we often speak disrespectfully to them as we tell them – or yell at them – about how disrespectful they’re being to us.

So, rather than focusing on their action – we need to focus on our action – that comes from what we think our role as parents should be.

We need to be teachers. Our job as parents is to teach our children to speak with respect.

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