Let’s talk about blowjobs.

Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice.

In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us.

And it’s not just about blowjobs. It’s about what happens when you remove pressure, drop the old stories, and let truth and turn-on take the lead.

Quick summary into this week's episode:

• The difference between performing and feeling
• How porn culture and shame hijack connection
• Why sacred sex has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with safety
• How feedback can be foreplay
• And why your body will always tell the truth (if you’re willing to listen)

And many more!

If you’re someone who’s already been on this path…

Who’s done the workshops, studied the teachings, and experienced sacred sex in its fullness…

But you know there’s another layer waiting to be unlocked…

We’d love to invite you deeper.

Our private couples retreats are for the ones who are ready for the next level of turn-on, tenderness, and truth. It’s one-on-one work with us at our lakeside sanctuary in Ontario—a space designed for sacred re-patterning, embodied pleasure, and soul-deep partnership.

💫 And as a thank-you to our listeners, if you book a call with us before July 31st, and schedule your retreat by October 31st, 2025, you’ll receive $1000 off.

👉 Book your private retreat exploration call here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

And https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Desire isn’t something you chase. It’s something you create together. We used to think desire was about how we looked, the outfit, the hair, and the moment. But now, after everything we’ve navigated together, we know it’s so much deeper than that.

In this episode, we share…

• What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodying
• How our ideas of desire have changed over the years
• What are the little things or practices that we do that make the other feel desired, and how do we desire each other in a lasting or more meaningful way

And so much more!

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

And https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

And we are back with another episode! This time, let’s talk about something that holds the key to deeper intimacy — communication.

Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship.

In this week’s episode, we explored…

• How many of us (yes, both women and men) have been conditioned to hold back our truth in relationships?
• Why it feels so scary to be truly vulnerable — and why learning to do it can transform your connection.
• What are real-life stories, practical tools, and a powerful “Fears, Desires & Loves” practice to help couples break down walls and build trust?

And so much more!

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 1st, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

And https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com