Episode 12 Release Date: June 17, 2025    

Duration: Episode 11: 44 minutes    

Summary: Shaunti, Jeff, and Jenilee Samuel (host of the Java with Jen podcast) explore the complexities of being a woman leader in ministry, the challenges of marriage, and the importance of understanding the male psyche. Jenilee shares her journey from being a missionary kid to a co-pastor and her experiences with raising boys. The discussion emphasizes the need for empathy, learning, and the balance between strength and sensitivity in both personal and professional realms. Jenilee also shares her insights on parenting teenage boys, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy marriage.

Link Mentioned:      

Java with Jen Podcast

Jenilee Samuel Website

Hearing God’s Voice for Everyday Life Journal

For Women Only

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Summary: In this engaging conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are joined by Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriage Easier. Arelene shares insights on how to prioritize marriage, avoid the roommate syndrome, and implement small, practical actions to strengthen relationships. The podcast also explores the profound effects of social media on relationships, emphasizing the need for intentionality in how we engage with technology.

Link Mentioned:      

Book: Making Marriage Easier

https://arlenepellicane.com/

The Happy Home Podcast

Important questions from this week’s podcast:

• What’s it like to be married to me?
• When was the last time we had fun together?

Summary: 

In this conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, along with clinical psychologist Dr. James Sells, explore the phenomenon of young adults going “no contact” with their parents. They discuss the emotional turmoil this causes for both parents and children, the factors contributing to this phenomenon, and the importance of family therapy in addressing these issues. The conversation highlights the need for understanding, communication, and the potential for healing within family dynamics.

Link Mentioned:     

Parent–adult child estrangement in the United States by gender, race/ethnicity, and sexuality.

https://doi.org/10.1111/jomf.12898

Episode 8 and 9 Details

Summary: In this conversation, Montel and Kristin Jordan share their transformative journey from the music industry to marriage ministry. They discuss the challenges they faced in their marriage, including a crisis that led to a renewed commitment to each other and their faith. Through their experiences, they emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and the lessons that now guide their work in helping others strengthen their marriages. The Jordans also discuss Marriage Masterpeace, which offers retreats for couples to heal and grow together. 

Resources & Links Mentioned:    

Marriage Masterpeace 8-Week Study Bundle

Marriage Masterpeace Retreat at Jordan River

Montellandkristin.com

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Summary: In this conversation, Montel and Kristin Jordan share their transformative journey from the music industry to marriage ministry. They discuss the challenges they faced in their marriage, including a crisis that led to a renewed commitment to each other and their faith. Through their experiences, they emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and the lessons that now guide their work in helping others strengthen their marriages. The Jordans also discuss Marriage Masterpeace, which offers retreats for couples to heal and grow together. 

Resources & Links Mentioned:    

Marriage Masterpeace 8-Week Study Bundle

Marriage Masterpeace Retreat at Jordan River

Montellandkristin.com

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Episode 7: One of You Wants More Sex? Here’s What’s Going On.

Release Date: April 22, 2025  

Duration: 33 minutes   

Summary: In this podcast episode, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn look at the disconnect that some couples experience around intimacy—especially focusing on the statistically common scenario of one spouse (typically the husband) desiring more intimacy than the other. They discuss common myths that feed this disconnect, and provide practical advice for couples. This episode will help you not feel alone! In fact, you’ll gain an understanding of each partner’s unique desire type—fostering a healthier and more fulfilling marriage.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

Secrets of Sex and Marriage website: secretsofsexandmarriage.com

Secrets of Sex and Marriage

Unlocking an Intimate Marriage

If you are interested in having Shaunti bring research-based strategies, practical wisdom and biblical principles to your next event, please contact Nicole Owens at nowens@shaunti.com

Summary: This conversation explores the profound journey of Dan Defenbaugh, a former law enforcement officer who faced trauma and addiction, leading him ultimately to try to take his own life. Through his story, we learn about the struggles first responders face with mental health, the impact on their families, and the hope found in recovery and ministry. Dan's transformation from despair to purpose serves as a beacon of hope for others in similar situations. In this conversation, Dan recounts a pivotal moment where he sensed God leading him to establish a support organization for first responders struggling with mental health issues.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

10-42project.org

Shared Voices podcast (available on most streaming platforms)

Shaunti.com

Summary: In this podcast episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn take a look at one of the main sources of conflict and heartache in marriage—looking at how to transform this source of conflict into a source of connection. The episode is rooted in decades of nationally representative research—making their insights much more than just their opinion or an unscientific poll of social media followers. After tuning in, you’ll understand the main insecurities that most men and most women face, and you’ll leave knowing how to support your spouse rather than unintentionally nicking their most raw nerve.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

For Women Only

For Men Only

Today’s podcast features the type of game-changing, research-based findings that will strengthen the marriages in your church. If you are interested in bringing Shaunti and Jeff to your next event, please contact Nicole Owens at nowens@shaunti.com.