In this raw and real episode of Let It Be: Legacy, we’re going to war with the four most common dream killers — and guess what? They’re not always external. Sometimes the greatest resistance isn't the economy or the haters… it's you.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or like time is passing you by while your dream sits on pause — this episode is your wake-up call. Because you were born to build, lead, and leave something behind that outlives you. But first, you’ve got to confront what’s been standing in your way.

1. Family Pressure – How those closest to you can unintentionally discourage your dream with fear, tradition, or survival mindset.
2. Friendship Circles – Why not everyone deserves access to your ambition, and how to tell if your “friends” are actually holding you back.
3. Lack of Knowledge – The silent killer. You can’t manifest what you haven’t mastered. Learn how to get the right info, mentors, and tools to move forward.
4. You (Yes, You) – Self-sabotage. Procrastination. Perfectionism. Fear of success. Learn how to get out of your own way.

• Why your upbringing or culture may subconsciously be boxing you in
• How to set boundaries with family and still walk in love
• The difference between supportive friends vs familiar faces
• Real talk on how ignorance is expensive, and how to close the knowledge gap
• Biblical wisdom for calling out the lies you’ve believed about yourself

• Feels stuck between loyalty to others and the call to pursue more
• Is wrestling with self-doubt and procrastination
• Has big vision but little traction
• Wants to build something real and honorable without feeling guilty for dreaming bigger

✅ Audit your circle

✅ Set boundaries with love

✅ Commit to lifelong learning

✅ Create a habit of daily self-belief and bold action

You weren’t created to live average.

Don’t let familiar faces talk you out of a God-sized future.

Silence the noise. Get clear. Move forward.

In this impactful episode of Let It Be: Legacy, we’re getting real about money—not for Wall Street, but for Main Street.

This one is for the everyday man: the husband, the father, the grinder, the one trying to keep his home together and his head above water. We're pulling back the curtain on financial literacy, exposing what schools never taught us and what society never expected us to master—yet we must.

Because truth is…

💔 More marriages break from money issues than infidelity.

💰 Too many men are trying to lead families without financial vision.

📉 And financial failure isn't always about laziness—sometimes it’s just lack of knowledge.

• How to talk money with your spouse without starting World War III
• The difference between a regular savings account and a high-yield savings account (and why it matters)
• Why check cashing places, pawn shops, and the lotto are modern traps for the broke and desperate
• The stewardship principle—managing God's money, not just your own
• Bouncing back from bankruptcy, bad credit, divorce, or even a prenup
• Practical tips to rebuild your financial legacy step-by-step

✅ What school didn’t teach: compound interest, credit scores, wealth mindset

✅ Why your peace is more important than a quick payday

✅ How to create a financial plan that supports your purpose, not your pressure

✅ The spiritual side of money: obedience, stewardship, and provision

✅ How to protect your home from becoming another statistic

• Feels embarrassed about his money mistakes
• Wants to lead his family without living paycheck to paycheck
• Is tired of financial stress causing emotional and relational breakdowns
• Needs real guidance without all the financial jargon
• Is ready to bounce back and build forward

Share this episode with a brother who needs a financial reset.

You’re not behind—you’re just now getting the right information.

You are not a slave to your bank account, your past, or your mistakes.

You’re called to steward, to provide, and to build legacy.

Welcome to Let It Be: Legacy — the podcast where we talk purpose, power, and provision for men building a life that outlives them.

In this critical episode, we’re going straight to the heart of something that’s destroying families, futures, and faith: uncontrolled emotions.

🛑 From domestic violence…

🛑 To public meltdowns…

🛑 To lives lost over one bad decision…

We’re seeing it happen every day—especially in the Black community, where too many men were never taught how to feel, only how to fight or shut down. We’re bleeding from wounds that were never treated. But that ends today.

1. Name It Before You React

Learn how to identify what you’re really feeling before it turns into a reaction you’ll regret.

2. Heal Your Unspoken Hurt

Understand how childhood trauma, father wounds, and emotional suppression shape your current responses—and how to finally break the cycle.

3. Change Your Environment

Discover how your surroundings, social media feed, and friend circle might be fueling your emotional instability.

4. Make a Plan for Peace

Build spiritual and emotional disciplines that help you respond like a man of purpose—not a man in pain.

• Proverbs 29:11 – “A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.”
• Psalm 147:3 – “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
• 1 Corinthians 15:33 – “Bad company corrupts good character.”
• Matthew 5:9 – “Blessed are the peacemakers.”

• Grew up without a father or emotional role model
• Struggles to express feelings without anger
• Has ever scared himself with his own reactions
• Wants to stop the generational cycle of silence, rage, and regret
• Desires to be emotionally strong and spiritually sound

This isn’t about judgment—it’s about healing.

Because if you don’t control your emotions… they will control you.

And it could cost you your wife, your kids, your career, or your calling.

But you can take it back—starting now.

🛠️ Tools for Change

📓 Journaling prompts

📖 Scriptures for reflection

🙏 Therapy and prayer encouragement

👥 Community reminders

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Check out this article on today’s topic https://www.willabram.com/post/7-things-you-can-do-to-improve-your-mental-health-especially-as-a-man

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and in this powerful episode, Honorthi opens up about the importance of protecting your mental health—especially as a man. With powerful insight, personal conviction, and research-backed wisdom, this episode outlines 7 practical steps you can take today to regain control of your mental, emotional, and spiritual health.

From breaking the silence to reclaiming joy, this is more than just self-care—it’s legacy-building.

• Why men tend to suffer in silence—and how to break the cycle
• How daily movement impacts your brain and emotions
• Why rhythm and rest are essential to your leadership and mental clarity
• The hidden dangers of digital overload
• How gratitude literally rewires your brain
• Actionable steps you can implement today to feel stronger, more grounded, and mentally equipped

• 6+ million men experience depression each year (NIMH)
• Men die by suicide nearly 4x more than women (AFSP)
• Physical activity shown to reduce anxiety and depression (Harvard Health)
• Gratitude linked to reduced stress and stronger relationships (UC Davis)

• National Institute of Mental Health (www.nimh.nih.gov)
• American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (www.afsp.org)
• Dr. Thema Bryant, APA
• Dr. Robert Emmons, UC Davis – Gratitude Research
• “Digital Minimalism” by Cal Newport

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Episode Title:

The Who, What, When, Why & How of Successful People

Podcast:

Let It Be: Legacy with Will Abram

Episode Description:

What separates the truly successful from those who only dream about it? In this transformative episode, we break down the exact framework used by high performers, visionaries, and legacy-builders across the globe. Host Honorthi walks you through the Who, What, When, Why, and How of success—five questions that, when answered with intention, unlock your next level.

Inside this episode, you'll uncover:

• WHO you are at your core—your identity, your values, your personal code of honor
• WHAT you really want and the mindset it takes to go after it with purpose and clarity
• WHEN to act and how to set real, time-bound goals with a plan of execution
• WHY you do what you do—is it for your family, your faith, your freedom, or your future legacy?
• HOW to get there—from borrowing money to building a brand, leveraging tools like social media, podcasting, and your unique story

If you’ve ever felt like success was complicated or out of reach, this episode will bring it back down to earth—and help you map it out step-by-step. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a father, a creative, or a purpose-driven leader, this is a blueprint you can revisit for years to come.

Show Notes:

• Intro – The Legacy Blueprint: Why This Episode Matters
• WHO: Discovering the Power of Identity and Core Values
• WHAT: Clarifying Your Vision and Locking in the Right Mindset
• WHEN: Creating a Clear Timeline and Execution Plan
• WHY: Rooting Your Goals in Something Deeper Than Money
• HOW: Real-World Tactics to Fund, Build, and Launch Your Mission
• Final Charge – Start Now, Not Later
• Closing Words: “It all starts with me… so let it be legacy.”

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Join our Legacy Brotherhood newsletter at www.honorthi.com and connect with a tribe of purpose-driven men and creators.

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In this powerful episode, we explore the real reasons millions are walking away from traditional 9-to-5 jobs and stepping into the world of entrepreneurship. Is it about freedom, money, or something deeper? Host Honorthi breaks down the cultural shift happening in 2025 and why owning your time, skills, and purpose is no longer optional—it's essential.

Backed by real stats, insights from top entrepreneurs like Elon Musk, Ali Abdaal, and Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche, and grounded in biblical values and modern wisdom—this episode is your wake-up call.

You’ll discover:

• Why job security is no longer secure
• How the creator economy is leveling the playing field
• Why identity and purpose are driving this movement
• The exact steps to begin your entrepreneurial journey
• How to build a legacy, not just a business

Whether you're a side-hustler, dreamer, or already in the game, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to take the next step.

Listen now and start building the life you were called to lead.

Show Notes:

• Intro: The Purpose Behind This Episode
• The Stats: Why Millions Are Quitting Corporate
• The Myth of Job Security
• Purpose > Paycheck: The Deeper Driver
• Real Examples of Everyday Entrepreneurs
• Practical Steps You Can Take Today
• How to Create Your 90-Day Exit Strategy
• Final Thoughts: What Will You Regret More?
• Calling Card: “It all starts with me… so let it be legacy.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Forbes 2025 Report on Entrepreneurship
• U.S. Chamber of Commerce Business Stats
• Tools: ChatGPT, Canva, Notion, InVideo
• www.honorthi.com – Join the Legacy Brotherhood

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Episode Summary:

In this powerful and honest episode, we tackle a hard truth: cheating isn’t just a mistake—it’s a legacy killer. Whether it's infidelity in marriage, dishonesty in business, or compromising your values for short-term gain, cheating tears apart the very foundation of trust, honor, and integrity.

We break down how cheating affects your name, your family, your purpose, and your future. More than just a moral failing, it's a missed opportunity to lead with strength and build something worth passing down. If you're serious about becoming a man (or woman) of honor, this episode is a gut check—and a call to rise higher.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why cheating isn’t just about who you hurt—it's about what you destroy
• The connection between honor, legacy, and self-control
• How to rebuild from betrayal and restore your credibility
• Why integrity isn't optional if you want to lead, love, and leave something behind
• Biblical insight on faithfulness, repentance, and restoration

Legacy Quote from this Episode:

"The moment you cheat, you trade your crown for crumbs. And some never get it back."

Take Action:

If you're caught in compromise, don't run—repent. Get accountability. Choose the hard, right road over the easy, wrong one. Your legacy depends on it.

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Obstacles will come and go throughout this life. However we use these trials and tribulations as a stepping stone.