How has culture & marriage changed? What does a moral marriage look like? When should you leave a sexless or otherwise immoral marriage? How can men and women live in harmony? BOOK A SESSION ▶▶▶https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/

Renowned Marriage Therapist, Rick McCarthy, shares his wisdom from almost 5 decades of experience as a marriage therapist and 28 years as a psychology professor.

In his new book “Restoring Marriage and Families: A Guide and Tools “In Order to Form a More Perfect Union” Rick McCarthy provides a compelling roadmap to reclaiming the vital institution of marriage and the nuclear family—the bedrock of every successful civilization in history. He explains how modern society has undermined these pillars and offers a practical plan to reverse this destructive trend, fostering hope and renewal for marriages, families, and communities.

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0:00 – 1:28 – Intro

1:28 – 7:45 - How Culture Has Changed

7:45 – 14:52 - Marriage Therapy as Crisis Management

14:52 – 24:08 – Where Marriages are Goin Wrong

24:08 – 34:41 - Handling a Sexless Marriage and When to Leave

34:41 – 42:03 – How Women Have Changed

42:03 – 46:22 - Women Need to Admire Men

46:22 – 50:11 – Restoring Values & Responsibility

50:11 – 1:03:46 - The Rise of Porn

1:03:46 – 1:07:24 – Maintaining Personal Integrity

1:07:24 – 1:08:34 - Outro

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Dr Robert Glover discusses the root cause of ‘Nice Guy Syndrome’, co-dependency, fear of confrontation with women, self-growth in relationships, self-soothing, sexless marriages & advice for wives of ‘Nice Guys’. CHANNEL MEMBER PERKS ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join

Dr. Robert Glover has over 40 years of professional experience as a relationship therapist and men’s coach. He specializes in helping men build community and level up to the best version of themselves. He has authored four books, including the bestselling No More Mr. Nice Guy. He founded Integration Nation, an international community for men in 2023.

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0:00 – 3:38 – Introduction

3:38 – 10:31 – What is a ‘Nice Guy’?

10:31 – 17:45 - The Origins Nice Guy Syndrome

17:45 – 19:51 - Faulty Roadmaps

19:52 – 22:43 - Co-dependency

22:43 – 27:55 - Differentiation

27:55 – 30:58 - Soft Men & ‘Simps’

30:58 – 32:57 - “Don’t Piss Off The Women”

32:57 – 36:24 - Female Readers

36:24 – 42:49 - Relationships as Growth Machines

42:49 – 57:36 - Self-Soothing

57:36 – 1:06:23 - Sexless Marriages

1:06:23 – 1:98:13 – Dealing with Haters

1:09:13 – 1:15:02 - Advice for Wives of Nice Guys

1:15:02 – 1:17:15 - Outro

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Bettina Arndt promotes gender equity through advocacy for men and challenging anti-male feminist propaganda. She tours university campuses challenging illegal kangaroo courts adjudicating abuse. Here, we discuss sex starved marriages and misandry in society. BECOME A CHANNEL MEMBER ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join

On today’s podcast, Bettina & I discuss:

• Sexless Marriages

• Feminism

• Female Expectations in Relationships

• Sexual Generosity in Marriage

• The Weaponisation of The Family Court System

You can find @bettinaarndtaus at:

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Website → https://www.bettinaarndt.com.au

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Mothers of Sons is a group of ordinary women whose sons have faced extraordinary ordeals in our unjust, anti-male legal systems and workplaces: https://mothersofsons.info/

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0:00 – 1:57 – Introduction

1:57 – 3:32 - The Sex Diaries

3:32 – 7:26 - Why Are Men Treated So Badly?

7:26 – 10:11 – Is Feminism The Cause of Sexless Marriages?

10:11 – 15:19 - Women’s Unrealistic Expectations

15:19 – 20:28 - Rejected Men vs Women in Sexless Marriages

20:28 – 26:29 - Sexual Generosity ‘Just do It!’

26:29 – 30:38 - The Weaponisation of Family Courts

30:38 – 36:49 - Fighting Back

36:47 – 38:34 - Where to Find Bettina

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My first podcast guess is George 'TheTinmen' who advocates for the less than popular side of gender equality; boy's and men's issues. He has a remarkable ability to present uncomfortable facts and ugly truths about the challenges' our boy's and men are facing in society. BECOME A CHANNEL MEMBER ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join

Our recording platform decided to fail completely, just 30 minutes before our interview, so we made the decision to improvise rather than risk losing the opportunity to talk to George entirely.

I hope you can tolerate the dial up 90’s video quality (should be ok on a phone), because what follows is a wonderful conversation with George about how our are men are doing, what we might do to address the terrible truths about our school system, male loneliness, suicide and the fact that no-one really wants to talk about any of these important issues.

You can find @TheTinMenBlog at:

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Here is the charity “Two Pints Deep” which George mentioned if you would like to support them: https://www.twopintsdeep.com/

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0:00 – 1:15 – Introduction

1:15 – 8:06 – Why Do This?

8:06 – 11:08 - Why Don’t We Care About Men?

11:08 – 15:51 - Male Victims of Abuse

15:51 – 21:16 - Women Can Be ‘Bad’ Too

21:16 – 26:58 - Male Suicide & Public Awareness

26-58 - 34:45 - Lack of Support for Men & Boys

34:45 – 40:31 - Societal Disregard for Men

40:31 – 46:25 - How Can We Help Men?

46:25 – 55:35 - Can We Ask Women to Help?

56:35 – 58:18 - Outro

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If you want your husband to function well, then sex needs to be regular and enjoyable feature of your marriage. If you have committed to loving your spouse, then do it well!

Why do so many women stop wanting sex with their husbands after marriage or children? And what can you do, as a couple to rescue your sex life? This in-depth guide is for men & women.

If you want your marriage to thrive and to be filled with pleasure, contentment and satisfaction, then you simply cannot give up on sex. Choosing to have no or little to no sex in marriage is like taking a wrecking ball to the whole enterprise. If my own story had not convinced me of that, then the countless couples I meet who aren’t having sex certainly would have.

There is a solution. It doesn’t have to be this way. There are plenty of things both spouses can do to understand what’s going on and work together to resolve the situation. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together or how long this has been a problem in your marriage; the solution is the same.

In a sex positive marriage, both partners experience greater feelings of intimacy and aliveness. These marriages are filled with more joy, connection, excitement and laughter than their sexually dull counter parts.

Developing and maintaining a sex positive attitude is important for the quality of not only our marriages, but also every other aspect of our health as human beings.

To develop this sexual positivity, some of us will need to embark on a journey if we haven't yet done so. Perhaps a journey of healing, increased awareness, of analysis, and of self-acceptance. We might have to ask ourselves why we feel so negatively about this aspect of our nature. We might have to address our own hang-ups or deal with past negative sexual experiences. We might have to consider what the people around us taught us to think about sex. We might also have to question the cultural narrative around what sex in marriage really looks like and have the courage to create something entirely different for ourselves.

If your husband tells you that sex is important to him, then in my view sex simply isn’t optional in your marriage if you want him to feel loved. We expect our husbands to meet our emotional needs, so we need to meet theirs.

Surely real love means caring about the general well-being of our partners and giving them what they actually need, rather than what we feel like giving? If our husbands say they need sex to feel fulfilled, then they need sex to feel fulfilled. End of story. We can't just decide they're mistaken and reject what they're telling us, that would be unfair. If you had a dog that needed walking daily, you wouldn’t refuse to walk it because you didn’t feel like it and then wonder why it’s pacing the walls and chewing up your furniture. The dog needs exercise or it will go mad. There’s nothing wrong with the dog.

If you are married to a good man who takes good care of you, and he tells you that sex is important to him, then in my view sex simply isn’t optional if you want him to feel loved. If we expect our husbands to be generous in meeting our emotional needs, then we need to be generous in meeting theirs.