One of date doctors bff's discussed the perils that cute girls may undergo if you chase instead of attract, several emotional, psychological, and even relational consequences can unfold. these omens are discussed in this weeks episodes

💔 1. You Devalue Yourself

• Perception of desperation: Chasing someone often signals that you’re willing to compromise your self-respect to gain their attention or affection.

• Power imbalance: You hand over your emotional power, giving the other person control over your worth, time, and effort.

  😞 2. You Lower Your Standards

• You may start accepting breadcrumbs of attention, confusing them for love.

• You settle for being chosen occasionally instead of being a priority.

  🧠 3. You Become Emotionally Drained

• Constant pursuit can lead to mental exhaustion, anxiety, and overthinking.

• You’re left wondering what you did wrong when, in reality, they were never meant for you.

• People you chase are often not emotionally available or not that interested.

  🚩 4. You Chase an Illusion

• You end up idealizing them, overlooking red flags or incompatibilities just for the hope of reciprocation.

  🧲 5. You Block the Right People

• While you’re busy chasing, you’re unavailable to the ones who would naturally choose you.

  🧘‍♀️ The Alternative: Attract by Being

• Attraction is magnetic; when you're grounded in self-worth, you draw in the right kind of energy and people.

• Focus on healing, self-respect, and authenticity.

• Invest in yourself, set boundaries, and let people reveal their intentions.

• What’s meant for you will be effortless and mutual, not a one-sided pursuit.

• Overall Helga and Date Doctor want you all to have a sweet love and WE'RE ALL GONNA GET IT <3 (this is a threat)

• "Chasing someone who doesn't want you is the fastest way to lose yourself."