In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen dive into one of the most overlooked yet powerful disciplines of godly manhood: knowing when to speak — and when to stay silent.

From disciplining your kids to navigating marriage conflict, the words you choose (or don’t choose) shape your family, your leadership, and your spiritual legacy. The guys share real-life stories and biblical principles to help you grow in discernment, develop self-control, and walk in wisdom with your speech.

You’ll learn how silence can be a strength, how to speak truth without starting wars, and why surrendering your tongue to God is a mark of spiritual maturity. Whether you’re dealing with anger, miscommunication, or just trying to lead well — this episode will challenge and equip you to speak life or stay silent in the right moments.

🧠 Key Takeaways

✔️ Not every moment requires your opinion
✔️ Listening to understand > reacting to win
✔️ Silence can be an act of strength, not weakness
✔️ Discipline your tone before you discipline your kids
✔️ Trust God to handle what your words can't

📖 “Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.” — James 1:19

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In this episode of Men After God,Kenny Sexton unpacks the dangerous allure of Folly as portrayed in Proverbs 9:13–18. While Wisdom calls with truth, Folly shouts with lies — offering shortcuts, pleasure, and freedom that ultimately lead to destruction.

This isn’t just about immorality — it’s about every false path that tempts men to step away from God's wisdom. Whether it’s lust, pride, laziness, or selfishness, Folly disguises herself well. But her house? It’s a grave.

This conversation challenges men to recognize deception, walk in discernment, and choose the discipline of wisdomover the ease of destruction.

🧠 Key Takeaways
✔️ Growth often begins with surrender
✔️ Some things must be torn down for God to rebuild
✔️ Trusting God's timing leads to deeper healing
✔️ Effectiveness > Efficiency in spiritual life
✔️ You’re not stuck—you’re being shaped

📖 “There is a time to break down, and a time to build up...” — Ecclesiastes 3:3

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In this raw and reflective episode of Men After God, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen dive deep into the reality that sometimes, God has to break us before He can rebuild us. Life comes in seasons — some marked by growth, others by pruning — but all are used by God to shape us into the men He’s called us to be.

Drawing from Ecclesiastes 3 and personal experience, Dustin and Luke explore what it means to walk through a season of tearing down. They discuss how to stay faithful during uncertainty, how to embrace spiritual reconstruction, and why effectiveness in your walk with God matters more than outward efficiency.

This episode is for every man who’s ever asked, “Why is this happening?” and who wants to trust God’s process even when it hurts.

🧠 Key Takeaways
✔️ Growth often begins with surrender
✔️ Some things must be torn down for God to rebuild
✔️ Trusting God's timing leads to deeper healing
✔️ Effectiveness > Efficiency in spiritual life
✔️ You’re not stuck—you’re being shaped

📖 “There is a time to break down, and a time to build up...” — Ecclesiastes 3:3

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In this episode of Men After God, Kenny Sexton explores Proverbs 9:1–6, where wisdom prepares a feast and calls out to the simple: “Come, eat of my bread and drink of the wine I have mixed.” But not everyone responds.

This isn’t just a poetic image — it’s a wake-up call for men of God. The invitation is clear: step into wisdom, or miss out on the life God has for you. Dustin and Luke unpack what it means to accept wisdom’s invitation, leave behind immaturity, and become men who walk in spiritual strength and understanding.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• Why Proverbs 9 is a direct challenge to passive manhood
• What it means to accept God’s invitation to grow in wisdom
• How spiritual immaturity holds you back in family, faith, and leadership
• The cost of ignoring wisdom’s call
• How to start walking with wisdom — today

📖 “Leave your simple ways, and live, and walk in the way of insight.” — Proverbs 9:6

💥 The invitation is open. Step in, or miss out.

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In this special Mother’s Day episode of Men After God, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen challenge Christian men to think beyond cliché gifts and temporary gestures—and instead give their wives what matters most: spiritual leadership, consistency, and Christlike love.

This isn’t just another holiday episode. It’s a call to rise up as the husband and father your wife and kids truly need—not just one day a year, but every day. Whether you're a new husband or a seasoned dad, this conversation will equip you to honor your wife by becoming more like Christ.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• Why spiritual maturity is the ultimate gift you can give your wife
• How to lead your home with humility, strength, and faith
• The difference between doing something nice and being someone godly
• How honoring your wife reflects your relationship with God
• Practical steps to show love through presence, purpose, and prayer

📖 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” — Ephesians 5:25

💥 This Mother’s Day, don’t just buy flowers—be the man she’s been praying for.

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In this episode of Men After God, Kenny Sexton dives into Proverbs 9:1–6, where wisdom is pictured as a woman preparing a feast and inviting men to leave behind immaturity and step into a life of understanding.

He explores what it means to truly accept God’s invitation to wisdom, why many men reject the call, and how embracing wisdom leads to transformation in every area of life—from fatherhood to leadership to spiritual growth. This episode challenges you to pull up a seat at God’s table and become the man He’s calling you to be.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• What Proverbs 9 teaches about God’s call to wisdom
• Why spiritual growth requires humility
• How real men respond when God invites them deeper
• What it looks like to hunger for truth in a noisy world
• How wisdom shapes your family, mindset, and mission

📖 “Leave your simple ways, and live, and walk in the way of insight.” — Proverbs 9:6

💥 The feast is ready. Will you show up?

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In this episode of Men After God, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen unpack the deeper truth about giving—it’s not just about money, it’s a spiritual test that reveals the condition of your heart.

They explore what it really means to give by faith, why generosity starts with obedience, and how our views on money can either reflect trust in God or a need for control. You’ll hear biblical examples, practical advice for starting small, and encouragement to lead your family in a lifestyle of open-handed generosity.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• Why giving is about faith, not finance
• How generosity tests your trust in God
• The danger of the scarcity mindset
• How to teach your kids about giving
• What true stewardship looks like for godly men

🕐Time Stamps
1:54 The Heart of Giving
4:27 Living by Faith in Generosity
7:10 Stewardship and Control
10:44 Trusting God with Our Resources
14:32 Obedience in Giving
16:53 Discipline vs. Faith in Giving
19:37 Faith and Giving: The Core Connection
21:17 Mindsets: Scarcity vs. Abundance
24:16 The Choice of Belief and Conviction
28:16 Starting Your Giving Journey
32:56 Obedience in Giving: A Heart Matter

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In this powerful episode of Men After God, dive into Proverbs 8:1–21 and unpack God's personal invitation to every man: choose wisdom and live.

You’ll hear why wisdom is more valuable than gold, how it leads to real success and righteousness, and why ignoring its call leads to regret and destruction. Through real talk and biblical insights, we’ll show you how to hear wisdom’s voice in today’s noisy world—and how choosing God's wisdom transforms your life, leadership, and legacy.

🧠 You’ll Learn:

• Why wisdom is more valuable than wealth, fame, or power
• How to recognize God's voice through wisdom
• What happens when you walk in wisdom daily
• How wisdom leads to true satisfaction and eternal impact
• Why the men who answer wisdom’s call shape the future

📖 “Take my instruction instead of silver, and knowledge rather than choice gold…” — Proverbs 8:10

🔥 The call is out there. The question is—will you answer?

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