Hanah Desherow is the top producing real estate agent in Northern Virginia, "the only Hanah who spells her name with one N", and a woman with a heck of a lot of mental fortitude.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Fear of Complacency in Men

07:09 - Memories and Grief

09:48 - Fear of Abandonment

20:33 - How Do You Make Friends?

26:53 - Mindset Shift from 20s to 30s

41:53 - Getting Caught in the Work-Induced Dopamine

51:04 - "I Don't Even Know How I Got Here"

59:32 - People Who Take Advantage of You

01:09:47 - Mental State of Disarray

01:25:09 - Final Questions

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Summary: In this episode, we dive into a thoughtful and unfiltered conversation about growth, connection, and the complexities of relationships in today’s world. From navigating fear and expectations to exploring how love, respect, and self-awareness shape our interactions, this episode reflects on what it means to be human — flawed, hopeful, and constantly evolving. Along the way, we touch on the impact of upbringing, the power of vulnerability, and the quiet strength found in patience, empathy, and authenticity.

We also explore how personal experiences and internal battles shape our daily lives — from the fear of complacency to the desire for meaningful connection. With moments of humor, honesty, and introspection, the conversation naturally flows through topics like emotional resilience, unspoken expectations, and the subtle ways people express love and navigate trust. It’s less about having answers and more about asking the right questions.

Whether you’re someone who thrives on structure or embraces the chaos of everyday life, this episode offers relatable reflections on self-growth, friendship, and the importance of staying grounded. It’s a reminder that everyone is figuring it out as they go — and that sometimes, the most valuable insights come from simply sitting down and talking it through.

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Hanah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/homewith_hanah

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