In this episode of Kizmet, host Kiz Harvey speaks with author and columnist Kerri Sackville about life after divorce and the powerful path of self-discovery. Together, they unpack the emotional rollercoaster of ending a marriage, the realities of parenting solo, and the evolving nature of friendships post-divorce. Kerry shares her honest reflections on dating in midlife, why emotional safety is non-negotiable in relationships, and how learning to embrace aloneness became a gateway to personal growth.

Whether you're navigating divorce, rediscovering yourself, or curious about midlife dating, this conversation offers real talk, hard-won wisdom, and hope for what comes next.

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Key Takeaways

• Why it’s healthier to be alone than in the wrong relationship
• How divorce can feel like a chaotic reset—and what comes after
• The challenges and rewards of solo parenting
• Why self-acceptance and comfort with aloneness are essential before dating again
• How friendship dynamics shift after a breakup
• The role of emotional safety in building new relationships
• That you don’t need an excuse to say no in dating or life

Chapter Breakdown:
00:00 — Navigating Post-Divorce Life
02:30 — Reflections on Marriage Breakdown
09:23 — The Role of New Partners
11:27 — Dating in Midlife: The Journey Begins
16:09 — The Importance of Being Alone
22:30 — Friendship Dynamics After Divorce
25:17 — The Value of Aloneness
30:28 — Finding Emotional Safety in Relationships

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