What does the best version of you look like? How does she feel? How does she carry herself? Becoming the woman of your dreams isn’t about chasing perfection—it’s about stepping into the life you truly want and becoming the most confident, fulfilled version of yourself. In this episode, we’re breaking down how to build yourself up, prioritize self-care, cultivate confidence, and create a life that feels aligned with who you really are. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to level up, this is your sign to take action.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We all have a past—things we’ve done, experiences we’ve had, and moments we’re not necessarily proud of. But when you start dating someone, how much of that past should you share? And more importantly, when should you share it? In this episode, we’re breaking down the do’s and don’ts of revealing personal information in relationships. From knowing what’s appropriate to share early on to understanding when full transparency is necessary, we’ll help you navigate this tricky conversation without oversharing or keeping unnecessary secrets.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Women today are more independent and capable than ever, and that includes choosing to have children on their own. Whether it’s through IVF, sperm donation, or adoption, more women are deciding not to wait for the “perfect” partner to start a family. But how do men feel about this? In this episode, we’re breaking down what guys really think about dating a woman who had kids on her own, how it impacts relationships, and why for some men, it’s actually easier than dating a single mom with an ex. If you’re considering having kids on your own—or just curious about how it plays into dating—we’ve got you covered.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography