As many of you know, this time of year is always layered for me. Mother’s Day brings both sweet memories and aching absences.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I open up about my own motherhood journey. I’ve lived through the joy of raising two incredible daughters, and I’ve lived through the unimaginable grief of losing one of them. I wanted to share a few things I’ve learned along the way—things I wish I’d known when I was in the thick of it. To those of you parenting children with disabilities, caring for aging parents, or simply doing your best to hold it all together: I see you. You are not alone. And whatever Mother’s Day looks like for you this year, I hope you find a moment to honor the incredible work you're doing.

In this episode, you will hear:

• It’s okay if motherhood doesn’t feel magical all the time.

• A shift can come when you least expect it.

• Choose joy where you can.

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When it comes to protecting a loved one with disabilities, few decisions are as overwhelming as choosing the right trustee. But in a world of nonprofit pooled trusts, legal jargon, and alarming headlines about financial misconduct, how do you separate peace of mind from potential pitfalls?

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I break down everything you need to know about Pooled Special Needs Trusts, from how they work to when they make sense. I share hard-earned wisdom as both a lawyer and a special needs parent, guiding you through what questions to ask, how to vet your options, and why sometimes the best Trustee choice isn’t family, but a professional with heart and structure. You’ll walk away not just more informed, but more empowered.

In this episode, you will hear:

• What a Pooled Trust actually is, and who should consider one.

• The difference between First-party and Third-party Special Needs Trusts.

• What went wrong in the recent $100M nonprofit scandal (and how to avoid it).

• Why transparency, independence, and communication are non-negotiable.

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Caring for a child with disabilities isn’t just a full-time job, it’s a deeply personal, emotional, and often isolating journey. What if the support parents need wasn’t just about filling a shift, but about building a relationship?

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sits down with Susan Asay, founder of Apex Social Exchange Foundation, to talk about what it really means to find care you can trust. Susan shares her own story of juggling a demanding career, raising young kids, and desperately trying to find someone who could not only help, but understand. That search led to a program connecting families with compassionate, live-in care professionals trained to support children with complex needs. Building a more inclusive world starts in the home, and with the right support, parents don’t have to do it alone.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Why the person caring for your child should be a true partner in their development.

• How to find someone qualified and emotionally ready to support a child with disabilities full-time.

• Ways international caregivers fill the critical gap in America’s special needs childcare system.

• Why matching personalities just as important as matching skills when it comes to live-in care.
  
  

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Website: https://apex-social.org/

Instagram & TikTok: @apexsocial

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Workshops that equip educators to support children with disabilities and engage parents are essential in bridging knowledge gaps for better care.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with Jenny Nechvatal, an Early Childhood Teacher, Author, and devoted parent, who shares her journey raising three children, including twin boys diagnosed with level three autism. Their conversation explores the importance of accepting children's abilities and highlights the diverse support systems available in both Australia and the U.S. Embracing and celebrating a child's unique strengths is a crucial part of parenting children with disabilities. A strong support network ensures they receive the care, resources, and opportunities needed to thrive. Join us to discover how all of these elements work together to ensure empowered children and supported parents.

In this episode, you will hear:

• How educators can enhance communication with parents of children with disabilities by fostering open, empathetic, and consistent dialogue.

• Ways play-based learning is essential in early childhood education for children with disabilities, promoting cognitive, social, and motor skill development.

• Why acceptance at different stages of raising children with disabilities is crucial for fostering confidence, resilience, and a supportive environment.

• How workshops provide educators and managers with valuable skills and insights to better support children with disabilities.

• Why strong support systems are essential for individuals with disabilities and their families, ensuring access to resources, advocacy, and community connections.
  
  

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Website: https://innovativedisabilitysolutions.squarespace.com/

Read: Embracing Disability in Early Childhood: Supporting Children Living with a Disability and their Families in Early Childhood Settings

LinkedIn: @jenny-nechvatal

Instagram & Facebook: @innovativedisabilitysolutions

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Parenting can be a whirlwind of chaos and imperfections, but sometimes, it's in those messy moments that growth and learning truly happens.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with children's author, Cynthia Di Filippo Elomaa. Cynthia embraces imperfection and chaos in parenting, emphasizing that seeking support and tailored assistance is essential while recognizing that each child learns at their own unique pace. Her inclusive educational book series, "Nikki's Very Messy Room," centers on planning, collaboration, and involving children in chores to foster responsibility and ownership, all of which challenges traditional notions of order and perfection by celebrating the natural, messy rhythms of family life.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Why involving children in planning is important.

• Why seeking support and asking for help is essential in parenting.

• What activities can be provided to engage children in learning independently.

• How interactive reading experiences benefit children.

• Why it is important to understand that not every child learns at the same pace.
  
  

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Website: https://cynthiadifilippoelomaa.com/

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Embracing culture is more than just a statement; it's a way of life.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sat down with Christa Preston, founder of Embrace Kulture, to share her journey of fostering inclusion for children with developmental and cognitive disabilities in Uganda and East Africa. Inspired by her brother, Nick, and local Ugandan child, Olivia, Christa grew the organization into a fully Ugandan-led movement that has reached over a million people, influenced national policies, and transformed inclusive education. She also highlighted #NoMoreHiddenChildren, a growing social movement empowering ambassadors to identify undiagnosed children and spread the message of acceptance. Join the movement and help make a difference by visiting Embrace Kulture’s website to learn more and get involved!

In this episode, you will hear:

• The importance of community support for individuals with disabilities, regardless of culture.

• How Embrace Kulture empowers parents of children with disabilities in Uganda and East Africa

• What role parents of children with special needs play in the community.

• How Embrace Kulture collaborates with local experts and organizations in Uganda.

• Why it is important to respect and reflect the culture and community when working towards inclusive practices.
  
  

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Website: https://www.embracekulture.org/

Facebook, Twitter/X, Instagram : @embracekulture

YouTube: ​​@embracekulture6061

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Being a fiduciary is like being a financial superhero with great power and great responsibility.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I break down the critical role of fiduciary responsibilities and how to navigate them effectively. Acting as a fiduciary goes beyond managing finances; it requires transparency, organized documentation, and a deep understanding of beneficiaries' needs to make informed decisions. Fiduciaries wield the power to make decisions that significantly impact others' lives. It’s a role that demands not only expertise but also a strong sense of duty and ethics. By embracing this checklist, fiduciaries can confidently fulfill their duties and make a lasting positive impact on the lives they touch.

In this episode, you will hear:

• What key public benefits fiduciaries need to understand and track.

• What important responsibilities fiduciaries should be aware of.

• How fiduciaries can ensure effective financial oversight.

• Why positive relationships and open communication is important in caregiving and fiduciary roles.
  
  

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Supporting the special needs community is crucial for creating an inclusive and welcoming world for individuals with disabilities.

In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about the importance of intentional planning to support the special needs community and ease the anxiety that often weighs on individuals with disabilities and their caregivers. I share my experiences and how thoughtful accommodations can make all the difference as a parent. Passion is important, but real change comes from purposeful actions and planning. It’s about creating a world where everyone feels included and supported regardless of ability.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Ways to educate yourself about the challenges and barriers faced by individuals with disabilities.

• How to support organizations and initiatives that promote inclusivity and accessibility.

• Learn to speak up against discrimination and promote acceptance and understanding.

• Discover ways to encourage others to join you in advocating for the rights of individuals with disabilities.
  
  

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