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What happens when you're doing your best—showing up, providing, staying steady—but it still doesn’t feel like enough for her?

In this episode, we explore a painful and confusing dynamic that so many men face in love: giving everything and still feeling unseen. We’ll look at what’s really happening underneath that cycle—and how unconscious patterns might be playing a bigger role than you think.

You’ll also hear:

• Why being “chosen” isn’t just about your partner—it starts with how you see yourself

• The subtle difference between service and self-abandonment

• A path to better clarity, connection, and true emotional recognition

May this episode be a lifeline for any man who’s felt invisible, exhausted, or unsure how to keep showing up when it feels like it’s never enough.

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In this special short episode, I dive into the unspoken (and really good) reasons why men may not be as emotionally expressive as their partners want them to be. These aren’t just arbitrary behaviors—there are real, adaptive reasons why we hold back. We'll also explore how these protective measures, while intended to preserve peace and harmony, often incite more conflict and turmoil in relationships.

Learning to transform this frustrating pattern is exactly what we're doing in my 21-day experience, Reclaiming the Gentle Man. It’s designed to help you shed that armor in relationships (not life), end looping conflicts, and establish deeper emotional fluency. Doors close on May 22, so if you’re ready to make these shifts, head to davelishansky.com to learn more and sign up.

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• Website: davelishansky.com

  
  

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👉 Reclaiming the Gentle Man – Join the journey to reclaim your romantic connections, expand your emotional fluency, and experience tectonic shifts in your relationship dynamics. (Doors closing soon!)

In this episode, we explore how the energy between two people—or even the tension between different parts of yourself—can reveal the hidden stories that keep you from clarity, intention, purpose, and joy.

Relationships offer us maps—when we learn to read the signs, we uncover pathways to freedom that are often hidden in plain sight. Together, we'll explore how to transform these stories and use the signals within your relationships to reclaim your power and step boldly into the life you truly desire.

By the end of the episode, you’ll have a clear path to navigate relationships with more awareness, unlocking the freedom, presence, and purpose that deep connection can bring.

Connect with Dave:

– Instagram – Follow along for insights and inspiration

– Website – Learn more and sign up for Reclaiming the Gentle Man

Thank you for listening to Reclaiming the Gentle Man.

If you found this episode helpful, please rate us and share the podcast with someone it may serve.

👉 Reclaiming the Gentle Man – Join the journey to reclaim your romantic connections, expand your emotional fluency, and experience tectonic shifts in your relationship dynamics.

In this episode, we'll explore ways to better steward our nervous systems and reveals what changes when we do (Hint: it's a lot—especially if you've been feeling numb, foggy, or disconnected from your presence and joy).

By the end of the episode, you'll walk away with three actionable practices to begin stewarding your nervous system, paving the way for healthier, happier relationships and a life of presence and peace.

Connect with Dave:

Instagram – Follow for daily insights and updates.

Website – Learn more about Dave’s work and offerings.

Thank you for listening to Reclaiming the Gentle Man.

If you found this episode helpful, please rate us and share the podcast with someone it may serve.

Our relationships are in the midst of a revolution—and this is your invitation to join it. If you’re ready to stop sacrificing your time, energy, what you want, and your clarity of purpose, Reclaiming the Gentle Man is for you.

Dave Lishansky is a Podcast Producer, Men’s Work Facilitator, and Relationship Coach. His work helps couples transcend the instinct for blame and dehumanization to create relationships that center love, curiosity, accountability, and openness.

Join Dave's 21-Day Men's Course → Reclaiming the Gentle Man
This 21-day program is designed to radically transform the way conflict happens in your relationships, so you can be truly seen, understood, and experienced the way you offer and have always wanted in return.

Connect with Dave and stay in the know → @dave_lishansky