Hey, Survivor! How do you know the narcissist still wants control, after you’ve gone low or no contact? In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 subtle manipulation tactics they may use to control your behavior, emotions, thinking, and other relationships. You may feel stressed, exhausted, or crazy when the narcissistic or toxic individual goes dark, then deploys these passive-aggressive tactics. You’re not alone, and this puts your health and well-being at risk. So, prioritize your peace and healing!

If you, or someone you know, need help navigating narcissistic control tactics, this episode is for you.

Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.

💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you rest as a trauma survivor? In this episode, I’m using an acronym to share 4 ways to R.E.S.T. on your healing journey. You may have learned that rest is weak, for the lazy, or that stillness is unsafe. Chronic stress, CPTSD, and hypervigilance will compromise your health and well-being. But rest is a power move. And your healing starts with YOU!

If you, or someone you know, need more rest, this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you deal with the casualties of narcissistic and toxic relationships? In this episode, I’ll cover 3 things to know and do, when the narcissist poisons your crew. Betrayal can be a blessing. And you’re worthy of healthy relationships and a vibrant life!

If you, or someone you know, need help identifying, navigating and healing from the loss of relationships after narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you navigate traumatic comparisons in narcissistic families and other relationships? In this episode, I’m sharing my personal experience and insights on what I call “post-traumatic pissing contests. I’ll cover 3 key points to help you set healthy boundaries and hold space for yourself and others. Enough of the invalidation and minimization of lived experience! Your truth matters!

If you, or someone you know, have been a victim or perpetrator of the trauma comparison game (aka “post-traumatic pissing contest”), this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you protect your peace, when narcissistic or toxic people disguise abuse as “teasing?” In this episode, I’m revisiting the teasing narrative, after hearing from a survivor who was subjected to this behavior at a graduation party. I’ll share tips and insights on how to identify, navigate and heal, while casting off guilt, shame, and confusion. You’re worthy of respect!

If you, or someone you know, have been force-fed a teasing narrative after narcissistic abuse,, this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you navigate accusations of stalking the narcissist in your life? In this episode, I’m sharing my recent experience, compliments of a social media troll, and offering some insights and tips to help you move through the self-blame, shame, and confusion. Some people aren’t worth compromising your health and well-being. And you’re worthy of truth, healing, and peace.

If you, or someone you know, have second-guessed yourselves after narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! How do you protect your peace, when navigating narcissistic dynamics in relationships - especially with people who are supposed to love you? In this episode, I’m highlighting 6 tactics (or toxic behaviors), along with 6 tools that you can use to stay grounded in your truth and protect your peace. Regardless of the relationship or circumstances, your truth matters; and you’re worthy of feeling seen, heard, and safe.

If you, or someone you know, are navigating narcissism in close relationships, this episode is for you.

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💚Lesley

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Hey, Survivor! What does a narcissistic defense strategy look like? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 ways that the truth gets twisted in court. I’ll share specific examples from the juvenile arson trial that wrapped up last week with a guilty verdict on all 4 counts. Whether you’re navigating the justice system, or dealing with other toxic relationships, you'll find some trauma-healing gems.

If you, or someone you know, are fighting for truth while navigating narcissism, this episode is for you.

Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.

💚Lesley

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