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The Real Reason Relationships Fail (It’s Not What You Think) | Ep.12

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 In this episode, Patrick and Ted talk about what makes relationships last. They discuss choosing the right partner, the skills needed to keep love strong, and the tough decision of whether to stay or leave. They also explore the grief of losing shared memories and the often-ignored regrets people have in relationships. They challenge stereotypes about divorce, discuss the role of romance (especially for men), and share personal stories about love. Referenced articles:Gretta Duleba – https://integrationbyparts.substack.com/p/how-relationships-actually-workAella – https://aella.substack.com/p/the-difficulty-in-dating-good-men Follow us on our Socials: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLzsGH4hM9TxHC4hHPvgMJw X: https://x.com/ManDownPodcast Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:lm4shifbvs6k63eb54k2gmho Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandown.podcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mandownpodcast Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:19 - Introducing the Topic of Relationships 03:49 – What We Mean by 'Romantic Relationships' 04:46 – Pressure on Romantic Partners Today 05:17 – Most Important Conversation to Have 05:46 – Clarifying Needs and Expectations Expectations Early On 06:46 – Understanding Boundaries and What You’re Looking For 06:19 – Age Gap Relationships and Shifting Viewpoints 06:36 – Cornerstone vs. Capstone Relationships 07:30 – Life Stage and Relationship Expectations 08:51 – The Myth of "The One" 08:26 – The Dangers of Over-Complicating Your Partner List 09:13 - Compatibility Beyond Red Lines 10:04 - Avoiding Blind Commitment in Relationships 10:22 - Knowing When to Leave 10:44 - Balancing Flexibility with Non-Negotiables 11:15 - Gretta Duleba's Article 14:29 - Unspoken Assumptions in Relationships 15:19 – Matching Relationship Structures 16:00 - Relationships as Tightropes 18:20 – Conversations and Skills for Relationship Health 19:32 – Renegotiating Relationships as Life Changes 20:40 – Cultural and Familial Influence on Relationship Beliefs 22:07 – Power of Open Conversations 23:30 - Navigating Unspoken Agreements 24:00–Balancing Companionship and Intimacy in Modern Love 25:40 - Adapting to Changes Together 27:42 - The Reality of Your Twenties 29:50 - Aging, Longevity, and How Relationships Change 30:21 - Finding Stability in a Changing World 31:00 - Listen to How You Feel in Relationships 32:04 - Friendships and Emotional Health 32:18 - The Importance of Self-Awareness in Relationships 33:12 - Understanding Fear in Relationships 33:40 - Relationship Skills That Really Matter 34:10 - The Importance of Decision Making in Relationships 35:08 - Repairing Emotional Wounds 35:24 - Ted's Breakup Story and Self-Reflection 38:00 - Why Repair Is Essential in Relationships 38:11 - Rebuilding Parent-Child Relationships 38:38 - Swallowing Ego for Relationship Resilience 39:28 - Rupture and Repair in Therapy 41:22 - The Challenge of Being Comfortable in Therapy 41:43 - Confronting Difficult Family Dynamics 43:26 - How Honest Conversations Repair Relationships 44:33 - Co-Creation: Building Relationships Together 45:14 - How Life Transitions Change Relationship Phases 47:12 - Resilience and Safety 48:07 - Co-Creation Commitment 51:17 - Navigating Differences in Relationship Expectations 51:40 - Understanding the Limits of What Partners Can Give 52:46 - Turning Conflict into Growth 53:10 - Personal Growth and Boundaries 54:30 - Self-Discovery in Relationships 57:45 - The Future of Relationships 59:03 - Approaching Relationships as a Curiosity Project 1:00:00 - Modern Dating Challenges and the Pursuit of a Match 1:05:58 - High Expectations in Modern Dating 1:10:42 - Patrick Questioning Religion and Personal Identity at 16 1:13:38 - Addressing Anger 1:15:37 - Ted on the Impact of Abandoned Relationships 1:16:51 - Developing Real Relationship Skills 1:17:25 - What’s Next 1:17:45 - Ted on Romance and Relationship Skills for Men
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