This isn’t just another interview—it’s Episode 50!
And it’s personal.

In this milestone episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, I sit down with the man who unknowingly mentored me into this podcasting journey—David Shands. From seeing my face in a Profiles of Success booklet at 17, to becoming the #1 voice in entrepreneurship podcasting, David’s story is the embodiment of intentional growth, faith-driven resilience, and legacy building.

We dive into:

• Defining moments that shape our future
• Turning insecurities into fuel
• Why entrepreneurship is no longer optional
• How to think bigger (and act bolder)
• The real value of showing up every day

🎙️ Whether you're building a business, pursuing purpose, or redefining success, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.

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⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome + Why This Episode Matters
01:48 – David saw Melvin in LegalShield’s Profiles of Success
04:03 – From Cheesecake Factory to Mindset Mentor
06:32 – Defining Moments: Not One, But Many
10:50 – Childhood Insecurities & How They Shaped Him
16:20 – “Sleep Is for Suckers” Origin Story
20:41 – Why Entrepreneurship Is No Longer Optional
24:00 – Thinking Past the First Million
29:18 – The Power of Environment
33:40 – From Battle Rap to Boardrooms
36:15 – Thinking Is a Core Value
39:42 – Protecting Peace While Leading
43:21 – Legacy, Mentorship, and Living Fully
46:10 – Final Message: Just Go After It
48:00 – David’s Daily Routine & Contact Info

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In this powerful and deeply personal episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, host Melvin Larry sits down with longtime friend and transformational leader Harold Branch III. Together, they explore what it means to heal as men, how childhood trauma shapes identity, and the power of emotional resilience.

Harold opens up about his journey from a turbulent upbringing on the West Side of Chicago to becoming a respected poet, coach, speaker, and advocate for mental health, brotherhood, and purpose-driven living. With truth and transparency, this conversation is a masterclass on emotional intelligence, vulnerability, faith, fatherhood, and navigating pain without being defined by it.

🔑 Topics include:

• Healing trauma and reclaiming identity
• Emotional literacy and why men need it
• The difference between surviving and thriving
• Faith, vulnerability, and finding your tribe
• The role of poetry and purpose in transformation
• Brotherhood, mentorship, and mental health

This is one of the most soul-stirring conversations we’ve had—raw, reflective, and filled with grace, wisdom, and real-life insight. Whether you're battling through adversity, seeking clarity, or looking to lead from a place of healing, this episode will speak directly to your soul.

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⏱️ Timestamps

0:00 - Welcome and introduction to Harold Branch III
2:14 - How their 20-year journey began
5:02 - Harold’s upbringing in Chicago and early loss
9:31 - Poetry as therapy and expression
14:10 - Surviving trauma and reclaiming identity
19:08 - Why men feel they need permission to heal
24:45 - The misunderstood cost of male vulnerability
29:15 - Loneliness, connection, and brotherhood
33:10 - Finding your people and redefining “tribe”
38:27 - Emotional intelligence and the impact of shut down
44:01 - Mantras, mindset, and healing breakthroughs
48:15 - The power of belief when self-trust is low
52:00 - A speaker’s heart: vulnerability on stage
57:05 - Poetry that heals generations
1:02:30 - Community work across cultures and causes
1:06:45 - Final message to those afraid of their past
1:10:55 - Where to connect with Harold
1:13:21 - Final thoughts from Melvin & Harold

#ShatteredMindsetPodcast
#EmotionalHealing
#MenAndMentalHealth
#BrotherhoodMatters
#PoetryAndPurpose

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In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, I’m joined by Elle Jaye — a truth-teller, mindset shifter, and author of Survivorship. Elle’s work centers on helping women, especially single mothers, move from power struggles to purpose. But don’t be mistaken — this conversation isn’t just for moms.

Fellas, lean in.
This is about leadership in its rawest form. It's about breaking generational patterns, showing up with emotional intelligence, and letting go of control in favor of connection — whether you’re leading in your home, in your business, or just trying to lead yourself through a season of change.

Elle opens up about personal scars, family wounds, and the courageous mindset shifts that turned her pain into power — and the conversation challenges us all, as men and women, to rethink what strength really looks like.

We talk legacy, fatherhood, emotional honesty, and how to lead without letting past pain call the shots. If you've ever wrestled with how to lead better — this episode is for you.

#Fatherhood #LegacyMindset #ShatteredMindsetPodcast #EmotionalHealing #LeadWithPurpose

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⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
01:32 – Elle’s Journey & Why Her Story Matters to All of Us
04:55 – The Meaning of Being “Parentified”
08:44 – Leadership vs. Control: A Hard Truth for Fathers
13:10 – How Our Parents’ Wounds Shaped Us
17:26 – Men, Emotion, and What We Were Never Taught
23:20 – Understanding “Agency” and Inner Authority
26:34 – Breaking the Grip of Judgment and Reputation Management
30:05 – What Single Moms Wish Fathers Knew
34:50 – Healing Through Honesty: Owning the Pain
40:15 – “Move to the Front Burner” – A Shift We All Need
47:55 – Coaching, Change, and a Powerful Breakthrough Story
51:42 – For Fathers of Daughters Who Are Now Moms
56:40 – Final Lessons on Humanity, Leadership, and Letting Go
1:01:25 – Where to Find Elle Jaye & Closing Thoughts

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• How loss can shatter our illusions and reshape our mindset
• Why gratitude is most powerful in the middle of grief
• The value of presence in relationships, business, and legacy
• How our past, present, and future all echo into one another
• What it really means to leave something in others, not just to them

#TheShatteredMindsetPodcast #LiveFully #MindsetShift #LegacyMatters
#GratitudeInLoss

⏱ Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction: A Season of Reflection
02:08 – When Loss Shatters Our Illusions
10:52 – Gratitude in the Midst of Grief
18:36 – Why Today Truly Matters
27:14 – The Echoes of Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow
36:42 – What We Leave in Others
45:18 – The Call to Live With Presence and Purpose
52:03 – Final Reflections + Quote on Legacy

If this message spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself — LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with someone you love. Let’s build a legacy of mindset shifts and meaningful living together.

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"What are you still holding onto… that’s already let go of you?"

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores what it truly means to let go—not just of people or situations, but of the mindsets, insecurities, and limiting beliefs that no longer serve us.

You’ll learn how to release with intention, how to stop mistaking your reluctance to let go as being pulled back, and how to spot the false security we cling to in jobs, relationships, or patterns that feel safe—but keep us stuck. Melvin also clarifies the difference between honoring your past and being held hostage by it, reminding us that letting go doesn’t mean losing the lesson—it means making room for the life that’s calling you forward.

🎙️ Get ready for a moment of real talk, reflection, and mindset clarity.

#LettingGo #MindsetMatters #FalseSecurity #ShatteredMindset #PersonalGrowth

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📌 Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome + Thought-Provoking Question
01:18 – Why Letting Go Feels Heavy
03:32 – The Difference Between Letting Go and Losing
06:05 – When “Being Pulled Back” Is Actually Reluctance
09:22 – False Security and Familiar Pain
12:55 – Honoring the Lesson Without Holding the Weight
16:08 – Breaking Free from Limiting Mindsets
19:44 – Personal Story: Letting Go for Real Growth
23:07 – Making Room for Peace, Purpose, and Possibility
26:18 – Final Reflections + A Word to Carry With You
29:05 – Closing Words from Melvin

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Let’s keep this conversation going.

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Discover the hidden toll of inauthentic living and how the courage to be yourself unlocks deeper peace, purpose, and leadership impact.

In Episode 45 of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, we dive into a deeply personal and powerful truth:

In this episode, Melvin Larry explores the cost of hiding behind perfection, the fear of being seen, and the liberating strength that comes with leading from your true self.

You’ll discover:
✅ Subtle signs you may not be living authentically
✅ How overcompensating can mask deeper insecurities
✅ The link between authenticity and effective leadership
✅ Practical steps to live, love, and lead from alignment
✅ How to leave a legacy that reflects who you really are

Whether you’re in a season of transition, leadership, or rediscovery, this episode offers the kind of insight that helps you reconnect with your true self and lead with integrity and confidence.

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⌛ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
01:08 – Why this episode matters now
04:03 – Authenticity isn’t rebellion—it’s alignment
07:32 – The fear behind the mask
10:44 – How authenticity connects to leadership
13:39 – A personal reflection on identity after corporate life
16:22 – Signs you’re not being authentic
18:05 – When inauthenticity looks like overcompensation
20:41 – The hidden cost of hiding
22:10 – The rewards of living your truth
24:38 – 5 practical steps to live authentically
27:15 – What legacy are you really leaving?
28:56 – Final encouragement + Outro

#AuthenticityMatters #LeadWithIntegrity #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #TheShatteredMindsetPodcast

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From military deployment to healing bodies and bank accounts—this is the story of a man who turned a botched fade into a booming brand.

In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, host Melvin Larry sits down with George Irving—aka G.I. The Hair Doctor.
From military service to master barbering, and now the creator of 30+ holistic products and 36+ wellness drinks, George’s journey is a masterclass in reinvention, service, and spirit-led entrepreneurship.

He shares how a butchered haircut led to his passion for cutting hair, how a prophetic word ignited a business dream, and how his products now help people relieve pain, regrow hair, and feel better from the inside out. If you've ever felt stuck or uncertain about your next move, George’s story will inspire you to move with purpose—and faith.

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🌐 Connect with George Irving:
Website: https://www.githehairdoctor.com
Also known as: HolisticProblemSolver.com
Instagram/Facebook: @G.I.TheHairDoctor

🔹 Timestamps / Chapters

0:00 – Welcome & Introduction
1:32 – George’s Military Story & First Haircut
5:47 – Prophecy of a Barbershop
8:11 – Entrepreneurial Spirit from Childhood
12:40 – Transitioning from Service to Business
15:05 – Building His Brand & First Product Sales
20:19 – From Book Sales to National Product Reach
23:50 – Creating Holistic Haircare & Skincare
27:40 – Juices for Health: From Farmers Market to Taste Test
34:10 – Wellness & Pain Relief Products
40:44 – Real Testimonies from Military Vets & Clients
45:55 – Mentorship, Mindset & Moving Forward
50:40 – Legacy, Prayer & Purpose
54:20 – Final Words of Wisdom
57:11 – Where to Find George & Outro

🔹 Hashtags

#TheShatteredMindsetPodcast #GeorgeIrving #HolisticHealing #VeteranEntrepreneur #NaturalWellness

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What does it really mean to live your miracle? In this powerful and personal episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, host Melvin Larry sits down with his longtime friend, and mentor Terrance Minnoy—a certified speaker, author of Indifferent Strokes, and a 3x stroke survivor who’s rewriting what it means to not just survive, but to surthrive.

This conversation is more than inspirational—it’s a blueprint for anyone looking to reset their mindset, face adversity with boldness and clarity, and take action with faith and resilience.

🧠 What You'll Hear:

• The mindset behind miracle-level recovery
• Terrance’s RESET formula to push through tough times
• How fatherhood and faith anchored his comeback
• The connection between self-mastery and success
• How to turn your personal “stroke” into your story

🕰️ Timestamps

0:00 – Welcome & Why This Episode Matters
2:15 – Introducing Terrance Minnoy
5:30 – What “Live Your Miracle” Really Means
11:50 – Facing 3 Strokes in 24 Hours
17:22 – Why Fitness and Mindset Matter
25:48 – From Pain to Purpose: Speaking and Impact
31:10 – Identifying the “Strokes” We All Face
38:55 – Parenting Through Crisis
45:30 – Childhood, Identity & Resilience
56:10 – The RESET Mindset Formula
1:03:20 – Daily Disciplines & Stacking Wins
1:08:45 – What’s Next for Terrance Minnoy
1:13:30 – Final Word: Beyond Your Best Is Yet to Come

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🌐 Website: https://www.terranceminnoy.com
Instagram: @miraclemotivation
Facebook: Terrance Minnoy
YouTube: (New channel coming soon)

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