In this powerful episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with the incomparable Cindy Gallop—advertising icon, entrepreneur, and founder of the groundbreaking platform MakeLoveNotPorn (https://makelovenotporn.tv). Known for speaking boldly about sex, Cindy shares how she “accidentally” got into porn—not the industry, but the mission to revolutionize how we think about it.

Dating younger men led Cindy to discover a troubling gap between porn fantasy and real-world sex. Frustrated by the lack of practical, healthy sex education, she took action by launching MakeLoveNotPorn—a site that showcases real people having real sex, for the purpose of education, not titillation.

We dive into:
• Cindy’s origin story and what inspired her to create a sex-positive business
• The disconnect between mainstream porn and intimate reality
• The role of MakeLoveNotPorn in normalizing open conversations around sex
• How we can all be part of changing the narrative

This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about sextech, intimacy, and reshaping the way we talk about sex in the digital age.

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LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Make Love Not Porn | Website

Cindy's Viral Ted Talk | YouTube

Make Love Not Porn Academy

SOCIALS:

Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

Ava's Instagram

Cindy's Twitter (X.com)

In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby, one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers, the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer.

We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what he’s observed in the lifestyle over the years, from shifting dynamics to evolving community norms, and sprinkles in some hilarious and heartwarming stories along the way.

Whether you’re a seasoned vet or just curious about dipping your toes in, this episode offers a fun and entertaining peek into one of the best hotel takeovers in the scene.

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Splash Takeovers

EROTICON 2026 | August 6-9, 2026

SOCIALS:

Anthony's Instagram

Pinky's Instagram

Ava's Instagram

In this episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party, we welcome back relationship coach Elizabeth Cunningham for a deep and juicy conversation about eroticism and pleasure.

Elizabeth reminds us that eroticism isn’t just about sex — it’s about the full range of aliveness, desire, and connection in our lives.

Together, they explore how to tap into your wants and needs, whether in polyamory, sexually, or in other parts of your relationships. Plus, Elizabeth, Pinky, and Ava offer practical ideas for asking for (and getting!) what you want.

If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires or felt unsure about navigating pleasure with multiple partners, this one’s for you!

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Elizabeth Ann Cunningham | Website

Miss Jay | Erotic Blueprints

How To Have Difficult Convos | Website

Ro Moed | Writer & Relationship Coach