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This week, I’m giving you a special sneak peek into my Aftershow—a members-only video series where I share behind-the-scenes content for those who want to go deeper after the podcast. Normally, this content is exclusive to my SubscribeStar supporters—but today, I wanted to give you a little taste! 💜

In this episode, I’m coming to you from my bedroom for a playful age play show and tell. From Harry Potter pyjamas to unicorn storybooks and pacifiers, I share some of my favourite little items—and how my relationship with age play has evolved over the years.

🎁 You’ll hear about:
– My very first age play item (still in rotation!)
– The soothing power of sucking (yes, that kind too 😏)
– Slade’s soft, nurturing daddy energy
– Magical bedtime rituals, complete with star projectors and plushies
– Why age play feels more comforting—and less taboo—than ever before

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In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined once again by the incredible DaddaG—event organiser behind KangaCon and long-time member of the ABDL community. With over 20 years of experience as both a diaper lover and caregiver, DaddaG brings a deep, compassionate perspective to the world of age play.

We explore:

🔹 Different age play roles – AB, DL, Daddy, and switching
🔹 Consent, boundaries, and what to ask before your first scene
🔹 How to approach a partner about your age play desires
🔹 Emotional connection in caregiver/little dynamics
🔹 The importance of balance, realism, and self-care
🔹 How KangaCon is evolving—and what’s next

DaddaG shares personal stories from his decades in the community, including what it means to see someone fully relax into their little self, how to read cues in a scene, and why honouring vulnerability is at the heart of good caregiving. Whether you’re brand new or deeply immersed in this world, you’ll find plenty to reflect on in this thoughtful and heartwarming episode.

🌐 Follow DaddaG on FetLife:
@DaddaG (Daddy/Caregiver profile)
@ToddlerBoyGis3 (Little side profile)

📚 Book recommendation:
Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb – Sexologist and author supporting ABDL and age players in embracing who they are and overcoming shame. Check out her books 'You're Not Broken' and 'No More Hiding'
🔗 thediaperdoctor.com

🔗 Mentions & Resources:

• KangaCon – Australia’s first age play convention
• CapCon, Tomcat, TeddyCon – Community ABDL events
• Dark Age Play – A growing area of interest for future events. You can find an excellent description here.

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In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by Deadmaxis and Aura Grey—partners in life, kink, and the art of rope. Known for their stunning suspension performances at events like Hardbeat Byron and Berlin’s Dark Circus, this couple brings over a decade of love and a deep connection to their rope journey.

We explore:

🔹 How they went from a vanilla marriage to exploring kink together
🔹 The emotional and psychological impact of rope in their relationship
🔹 Developing trust through suspension—and what it takes to play at the edge
🔹 Performing vs. private scenes – how intention and connection shift
🔹 Why rope isn’t just beautiful—it’s physically intense, deeply intimate, and always evolving

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FetLife: @Deadmaxis | @AuraGrey
Instagram: @_deadmaxis | @isee.grey

🔗 Resources & Mentions:
Hardbeat Byron – Australia’s underground kink rave & performance event
BRLN Dark Circus – A European style vent blending fetish, art, and performance
Yugen Studio SM Magazine
Polysecure - by Jessica Fern
The War of Art - Steven Pressfield

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What happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?

In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them.

You’ll hear:

• Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she had in her twenties
• How fantasy, age play, and Core Desires can help you stay connected to the younger part of yourself
• What men can do to genuinely support and desire women as they age
• The powerful role kink plays in transcending physical age and reconnecting with play, innocence, and turn-on

Whether you're in your 20s or your 60s, this episode is a celebration of growing into your sexuality—not out of it.

🔗 Links + Resources

• ✨ Vote for Turns Out I’m Into It in the Australian Adult Industry Awards
• Recommended listening: #83 What if you Could be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas
• Recommended listening: #47 Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! Interview with DaddaG

Journaling / Discussion Prompts

• What age do I feel when I’m having sex?
• How has my sex life changed in the last 5–10-20 years?
• What do you, or could you find attractive about older women, if you look beyond the cultural lens?

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In this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attracted to masculine men is something to be ashamed of.

Inspired by a scene in Beastars (an anime on Netflix), I unpack what it means to celebrate masculine power without excusing harm. We talk about violence, tenderness, emotional maturity, and why the sexiest men are often the ones who could fight—but don’t need to.

From MMA rings to Formula One tracks, this is a heartfelt and primal love letter to healthy masculinity—and an invitation to let men be tigers again!

📚 Resources Mentioned:

• Beastars – anime series on Netflix (Season 1)
• Men, Women & Worthiness by Brené Brown (short audiobook on Audible)
• @harley_rabbit on Instagram – DM TIGERBITE to join my close friends circle
• SubscribeStar After Show – for bonus reflections and behind-the-scenes thoughts

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Do you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned on, but nothing’s happening down there. Or maybe you feel ashamed, confused, or frustrated when your desire doesn’t match what your partner (or you!) expect.

In this episode, Harley Rabbit introduces the dual control model, a powerful framework from the world of sexology that could change the way you think about arousal forever.

You’ll learn how your sexual accelerator and brakes work, and how understanding these systems can help you navigate issues like low desire, erectile difficulties, body shame, and performance anxiety with more compassion, clarity, and confidence.

Journaling Prompts:

📝 Do I know what my core desires are? Am I getting them met in my sex life?
📝 Are there any external or internal threats pressing on my brakes right now? Can I do anything about them?

Resources Mentioned:

• Emily Nagoski’s Book: Come As You Are
• Previous Episode: #83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas

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Ever felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your head during intimate moments.

In this episode, Harley Rabbit shares a powerful technique for breaking free from insecurity and fully immersing yourself in pleasure—by stepping into a kink persona.

A kink persona isn’t just roleplay—it’s a way to tap into different aspects of yourself, experiment with new fantasies, and unleash parts of your sexuality you may never have explored before. Whether you're a creative storyteller, a fantasy-driven thinker, or just someone who struggles to stay present in sex, this episode will help you unlock new ways to play.

Journaling / Discussion Prompts

• If I could be anyone in a fantasy, who would I be?
• What kind of personality excites me in a sexual scenario? Am I dominant, submissive, playful, shy, aggressive?
• Write a short erotic fantasy from the perspective of your character

Resources Mentioned:

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When you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you have to love obedience, service, or degradation to be a sub? Or maybe you’re drawn to pain or bondage, but don’t feel like surrendering control?

In this episode, Harley Rabbit helps you untangle your submissive identity, exploring the many ways submission can look. Whether you’re a good sub, brat, masochist, or rope bunny, this episode will guide you in discovering what truly excites you—without forcing yourself into a box that doesn’t fit.

This one is for both subs and dominants, as we’ll also discuss how to recognise different submissive styles and find play partners who are the right match.

Journaling / Discussion Prompts:

• Do I crave giving up control, or am I more drawn to sensory experiences?
• Do I get turned on by praise, punishment, resistance, or being cared for?
• How can I communicate my unique submission style with my partner(s)?

Resources Mentioned:

• Previous Episode: #81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from the Stereotypes
• Join my Close Friends circle on Instagram @harley_rabbit. Password: Sleepybunny 🤫

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