It’s deeply natural to deeply desire deep connection. In fact, we are physiologically wired for it. But when our nervous system is out of whack, we struggle to find resonance—and end up in fawning, transactional patterns that drain our life force.

This week, Danielle is talking about the connection between your nervous system and your relationships. Because when you balance your nervous system, you have better relationships.

She’s sharing the how-tos for getting balanced and exploring what your nervous system has to do with your emotional intimacy with everyone in your life.

In this episode:

• The difference between resonant relationships and fawning—and why faking connection costs you your life force
• How to know when you’re in true heart-to-heart connection
• The guiding question to create resonance

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• REGULATE TO RELATE Masterclass—heal your nervous system to heal your relationships
• Infusion Sessions—One-on-one prosperity consciousness mentoring with Danielle
• Follow + Subscribe to Danielle on Substack for weekly essays + more
• Join The Heart Centered Collective
• Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Danielle has never talked publicly about this.

In her 20s, she was channelling “guides”—a term she uses very loosely. It all started with a Ouija board. Friends were messing with it, and she got in on the action.

It’s a story about feeling special, getting in too deep, and discovering that “just because a disembodied energy comes through from the ‘other side’ doesn’t mean that it’s higher vibration than someone on the Earth plane.”

It’s a story that may change how you think about spiritual guidance.

In this episode:

• How to tell the difference between guidance and spiritual deception
• The question that will help you discern real wisdom from spiritual BS
• Why being psychic doesn’t automatically make someone enlightened
• What your nervous system knows that your mind doesn’t

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Infusion Sessions—High-ticket, high-value 1:1 business mentoring with Danielle
• The Archives: Read on Substack
• Join The Heart Centered Collective
• Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

I think judgment of others can be a byproduct of spiritual bypassing. All us self-helpers… lean in.

Basically, spiritual bypassing is when we paint negative experiences as "spiritually positive” before we’ve actually felt the very human, negative feelings. Because we are secretly judging ourselves for having not very pretty or “spiritual” emotions and experiences.

And the offshoot of self recrimination is that you become really f*cking JUDGY with others.

That’s one of the most harmful parts of spiritual bypassing—that everything gets categorized as either “spiritual” or “not spiritual.” TV? Not spiritual. Resentment? Very unspiritual.

But when you start loving your human, “negative” behaviours more… you become MUCH COOLER to other people. It’s pretty simple. LOVE THE GNARLY WITHIN—and you know what happens? You become a more Loving person.

So… get in, loser. We’re dropping the judgment on our way to unity consciousness.

In this episode:

• How judgment stems from spiritual bypassing
• The difference between discernment and judgment
• Community is medicine
• The cost of categorizing everything as “spiritual” or “not spiritual”
• A compassionate look at why judgment might just be self-rejection in disguise

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why AI is Not Your Best Life Coach. READ | LISTEN
• Infusion Sessions—1:1 business mentoring with Danielle
• The Archives: Read on Substack
• Join The Heart Centered Collective
• Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz