Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children.

On this week’s episode, “Breaking Free from the Shame That Whispers 'You Failed,'” hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this powerful and uplifting episode, Laine is joined by special guest Jill Savage, bestselling author and expert in overcoming perfectionism, who shares heartfelt wisdom on moving past parenting shame and embracing grace.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

• Jill Savage’s “25 Scriptures for When Life is Hard”: jillsavage.org/truth
• Jill’s Books: No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, No More Perfect Marriages, Empty Nest, Full Life
• Laine’s website and free resources: lainelawsoncraft.com (First 10 days of her book Warfare Parenting free)
• Sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net

About Jill Savage
Jill Savage is an accomplished author, sought-after speaker, and founder of Hearts at Home, an organization providing encouragement to moms worldwide. With a authentic, relatable style, Jill’s books—including No More Perfect Moms and Empty Nest, Full Life—draw from her own experiences and struggles, helping parents release unrealistic expectations and combat the “perfection infection.” Jill is passionate about guiding families to embrace authenticity, offer themselves grace, and break free from guilt and comparison, especially in challenging parenting seasons.

Key Talking Points:

• Understanding the “perfection infection”—unrealistic expectations and comparisons on social media (2:00 – 4:30)
• Steps to kick perfectionism and comparison: honest conversations, shifting mindset, self-grace, and accepting God’s forgiveness (4:30 – 8:30)
• Jill’s viral story about sharing real-life messiness (7:42 – 9:18)
• Warning signs when shame or guilt becomes toxic, and when to seek help (10:11 – 11:47)
• Reclaiming your identity in Christ—not in your child’s choices or behaviors (12:13 – 14:33)
• Reminders that no family, house, or child is perfect—even Billy Graham’s (14:33 – 15:17)

Time Stamps:

• 00:00 — Introduction and social media comparisons
• 01:51 — Jill explains “perfection infection”
• 04:13 — Strategies to combat comparison and perfectionism
• 05:17 — Grace for past parenting choices and accepting growth
• 07:08 — Tools for breaking the comparison trap
• 08:29 — Jill’s viral ‘real life’ social media post
• 10:11 — Warning signs when guilt turns toxic
• 12:13 — Restoring identity in God, not in parenting outcomes
• 14:33 — No perfect families: even well-known faith leaders’ struggles
• 15:34 — Resources and final encouragement

Conclusion:
Shame and guilt often whisper lies to struggling parents, but as Jill Savage and Laine Lawson Craft remind us, your child’s choices do not define your worth. By breaking free from unhealthy comparisons, embracing honest conversation, and finding your identity in faith, you can reclaim peace and joy in your parenting journey. Remember, you are not alone—God specializes in redemption stories, and your family’s story is still being written. Be encouraged, equip yourself with truth, and never lose hope.

Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this heartfelt episode, Laine is joined by best-selling author and speaker Jill Savage to offer hope and practical strategies for parents navigating the heartbreak of having a prodigal child. Together, they share raw stories, biblical wisdom, and survival tools to help you rise above fear, manage anxiety, and reclaim hope—even on the darkest nights.

Jill Savage:
Jill Savage is an author and speaker passionate about encouraging families through life’s most challenging seasons. As the author and coauthor of 14 books, Jill draws from personal experience and years of ministry to equip parents with faith-based resources and practical advice for navigating parenting struggles and personal crises.

Key Talking Points:

• The emotional toll of “2AM calls” and fearing for your prodigal child’s safety
• Importance of prayer and breath work in the midst of crisis
• What it means to “lovingly detach” from your adult child’s problems
• Practical strategies for managing anxiety and preventing burnout
• Using scripture and faith to ground yourself in hope
• Prioritizing self-care without guilt
• Building a supportive network and not facing struggles alone

Detailed Timestamps:

• 00:00:00 – Introduction: The pain of late-night crisis calls
• 00:04:04 – “You are not alone”—knowing others share your experience
• 00:06:44 – The power of breath work for calming the body
• 00:08:43 – How to lovingly detach from your child’s problems
• 00:11:40 – Avoiding enabling and practicing healthy boundaries
• 00:12:05 – Using scripture for strength and calm during panic
• 00:13:46 – The importance of self-care for parents in crisis
• 00:16:40 – Building a 24/7 support system
• 00:17:19 – Final thoughts: Permission to care for yourself and seek support

Conclusion:
This episode shines a compassionate light on the silent battles parents face when walking alongside a struggling child. Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage provide not only validation for the pain and panic many feel, but also equipping listeners with actionable faith-driven strategies and encouragement. From practical crisis protocols to the essential practice of self-care, their conversation is a lifeline for parents who feel isolated or overwhelmed. Remember: you are not alone, and caring for your own well-being is essential, not selfish. Take one small step today to build your support system and reclaim hope—you and your family are worth it.

Welcome to another powerful episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this episode, Laine welcomes best-selling author and ministry leader Jill Savage for a heartfelt conversation on breaking generational patterns, overcoming spiritual strongholds, and reclaiming hope in your family's story. Together, they share faith-driven strategies and practical tools for parents battling with prodigal children, family crisis, addiction, and more, offering biblical wisdom and real-life experiences to empower listeners on their parenting journey.

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Laine Lawson Craft’s book and resources: LaineLawsonCraft.com (first 10 days of her new book "Warfare Parenting" free)
• FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net
• Jill Savage’s books & resources: Jill Savage’s Website

Jill Savage
Jill Savage is a nationally recognized author, speaker, and ministry leader dedicated to encouraging families. As the author and co-author of 14 books—including "No More Perfect Kids," "Got Teens?," and "Empty Nest, Full Life"—Jill candidly shares her experiences of breaking unhealthy generational patterns and navigating parenting challenges with faith and authenticity. She is passionate about practical, grace-filled resources for moms, especially those parenting teens, young adults, or facing empty nests. Jill and her husband, Mark, also host marriage intensives, equipping couples to restore hope and connection in their families.

Key Talking Points

• Recognizing and interrupting destructive generational cycles in families
• Distinguishing between correction and connection in parenting
• Breaking spiritual strongholds such as addiction, depression, and divorce through faith
• Family tree mapping to understand inherited patterns and triggers
• Leveraging prayer (including specific strategies like the "hedge of thorns")
• Simple, realistic practices for daily spiritual warfare and transformation
• The importance of new rhythms, family values, and goal setting for change
• Fostering hope for change at any stage of parenting or family life

Time Stamps

• 00:00:00 – Introduction by Laine Lawson Craft
• 00:01:13 – Jill Savage’s background and resources
• 00:03:32 – Personal stories on generational patterns
• 00:05:49 – Shifting from correction to connection in parenting
• 00:06:44 – Addressing family history of addiction and depression
• 00:10:14 – Family tree mapping and recognizing inherited patterns
• 00:13:06 – Understanding and working through trigger points
• 00:14:45 – Role of prayer and specific strategies for spiritual warfare
• 00:17:53 – Implementing new values, rhythms, and daily habits
• 00:18:48 – Setting goals and developing plans for breakthrough
• 00:19:51 – Final thoughts and encouragement

Conclusion
This episode with Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage is a beacon of hope for any parent struggling with generational baggage or prodigal children. Their candid discussion offers practical tools, faith-based strategies, and personal testimonies that illustrate it's never too late to change your family’s legacy. From prayer techniques to creating new family rhythms, the episode empowers listeners to become “chain breakers” for their children and future generations. Whether you’re just recognizing harmful patterns or are deep in the process of restoration, this conversation reassures you that freedom and healing are possible through intentional steps and God’s grace.