In this deeply heartfelt and insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Lulu a queer Nigerian-born pediatrician, former Lt. Col. in the U.S. Air Force, and a mom of a transgender daughter. Her mission centers on youth suicide prevention, particularly among Black gender-diverse youth, and she offers gender-affirming coaching through her practice, Dr. Lulu’s PRIDE Corner.

Recognized for her advocacy, she has received multiple awards, including the 2021 San Antonio LGBT Chamber Youth Advocate of the Year and the Atlanta Trans Life Award’s Pioneer of the Year.

In this conversation we explore themes of radical self-love, parenting queer & trans children, and the interconnectedness of community in supporting gender and sexually expansive individuals. Dr. Lulu shares her personal journey, the inspiration behind her work, and actionable insights for parents, educators, and allies alike.

Dr. Lulu emphasizes why the future is queer and why inward work is essential to building a more inclusive and affirming world. From asking, "What if my child is queer?" to the transformative power of radical self-belief, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to expand their understanding and support for the LGBTQIA+ community.

Key Highlights:

• Dr. Lulu's journey to radical self-love and acceptance.
• The importance of unlearning biases and relearning acceptance.
• Addressing societal fears around queerness: "What if my child is queer?"
• The significance of creating affirming spaces for queer/trans youth.
• The power of the village: collective responsibility in raising and saving children.
• Dr. Lulu’s work with her nonprofit, Lulu’s Angels Haven Inc, providing safe spaces for Black queer youth.
• Insights for parents and allies on building supportive environments.
• Dr. Lulu’s upcoming books and ongoing advocacy work.

Where to Find Dr. Lulu:

• Website: www.dr-lulu.com
• Instagram: @themomatrician
• Facebook: Dr. Lulu Angels Haven
• Nonprofit: Dr. Lulu's Angels Haven Inc.
• Podcast: Moms 4 Trans Kids

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Host: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (She/They)