Episodios

  • I AM SO SCARED OF BECOMING 'THAT' VERSION OF MYSELF AGAIN! (TW)
    May 23 2025

    In this episode of the "Why Would I Say That!?" Podcast, Tierra discusses her past struggles with relationships and how her fear of abandonment has 'ironically' helped her gain the confidence of being alone. BUT, this has also put a halt in her healing due to avoiding relationships altogether. Most assume people with BPD fear being alone because of the symptoms including fear of abandonment, but that is far from true. Being alone for long periods of time is just another way of displaying fear of abandonment. Let's talk about it.

    TRIGGER WARNING: IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS!

    Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast

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    THANK YOU ALL FOR LISTENING I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE YOU NEXT AND EVERY FRIDAY (11AM EST.)

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    27 m
  • I Don't Want to Go Another Year Just Surviving...
    May 9 2025

    It's Tierra's Birthday! (kind of, she's still learning this podcasting thing...)

    In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about her life long struggle of "just surviving"... This year she wants to change things around and shares the things that she is currently practicing to achieve a full life. We are no longer shooting for "just making it" we deserve a full life! (And that includes you!!)

    Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast

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    THANK YOU ALL FOR LISTENING I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE YOU NEXT AND EVERY FRIDAY (11AM EST.)

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    33 m
  • Motivation? No. Just Repetition and Desperation.
    May 2 2025

    In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast Tierra discusses current and past struggles with how she was able to actually get better and improve her life. This may not the answer you wanted but definitely what is needed.

    Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast

    OTHER PLATFORMS:

    TikTok @tierrahaas

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    THANK YOU ALL FOR LISTENING I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE YOU NEXT AND EVERY FRIDAY (11AM EST.)

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    27 m
  • DID I MAKE THAT CONVERSATION WEIRD? (I Can't Stop Replaying It In My Head)
    Apr 25 2025

    In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast Tierra discusses current and past struggles with how she deals with "analysis paralysis" and how to break these habits. Getting stuck in your head about what you said and who you are is a struggle that is rarely talked about. EVERYONE experiences this at one point or another so let's talk about it!

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    23 m
  • Jealousy Is Ruining Your Life (But It Doesn't Have To)...
    Apr 18 2025

    In this episode, Tierra talks about her current and past struggles with jealousy and how she changed her perspective into making it her superpower! Jealousy is a human emotion that EVERYONE experiences but is usually looked at as something you should ignore, push down, or even shame yourself over... But, That is far from true.

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    26 m
  • SPLITTING SUCKS! (What Is Splitting And What Should You Do As Someone With BPD?)
    Apr 11 2025

    In this episode, Tierra discusses splitting and her own personal struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder. She dives deep into this topic, even going as far as to talking about the guilt and uncomfortable situations a split may cause. Splitting does NOT only happen to people struggling with BPD, it happens to almost everyone at some point in their lives!

    Tierra is not afraid to air herself out in order to make others feel a little less alone!

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    27 m
  • STUCK IN FREEZE: You Have to Do It Before You Feel Like it!
    Apr 4 2025

    In this episode of "Why Would I say That?!" podcast, Tierra talks about how it feels to be stuck in freeze and what to do if you are feeling this way! People hardly talk about the period of time where you may be waiting to get better, but Tierra has truly been there and opens up about her own personal experience on "waiting to get better".

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    27 m
  • STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR HAVING BOUNDARIES!
    Mar 29 2025

    In this episode, Tierra talks about her past struggles with guilt over setting boundaries. She often was the doormat in her relationships because she believed boundaries made her "weak" but came to realize the lack of boundaries actually gave off the opposite of what she wanted. Having a lack of boundaries makes others and most importantly you, feel unsafe, which definitely is not something anyone wants to feel! Tierra deep dives into this topic in hopes to make you feel understood and to hopefully teach you when, where, and how to create healthy boundaries!

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    29 m
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