
Autism in Heels
The Untold Story of a Female Life on the Spectrum
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Jennifer O'Toole
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This intimate memoir reveals the woman inside one of autism’s most prominent figures, Jennifer O'Toole. At the age of 35, Jennifer was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, and for the first time in her life, things made sense. Now, she exposes the constant struggle between carefully crafted persona and authentic existence, editing the autism script with wit, candor, passion, and power. Her journey is one of reverse-self-discovery not only as an Aspie but - more importantly - as a thoroughly modern woman.
Beyond being a memoir, Autism in Heels is a love letter to all women. It’s a conversation starter, a game-changer, and a firsthand account of what it is to walk in Jennifer's shoes (especially those iconic red stilettos).
Whether it's bad perms or body image, sexuality or self-esteem, Jennifer's journey is as much a human journey as one on the spectrum. Because autism looks a bit different in pink, most girls and women who fit the profile are not identified, facing years of avoidable anxiety, eating disorders, volatile relationships, self-harm, and stunted independence. Jennifer has been there, too. Autism in Heels takes that message mainstream.
From her own struggles and self-discovery, she has built an empire of empowerment, inspiring women the world over to realize they aren't mistakes. They are misunderstood miracles.
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In Unmasking Autism, Dr. Devon Price shares their personal experience with masking and blends history, social science research, prescriptions, and personal profiles to tell a story of neurodivergence that has thus far been dominated by those on the outside looking in. For Dr. Price and many others, Autism is a deep source of uniqueness and beauty. Unfortunately, living in a neurotypical world means it can also be a source of incredible alienation and pain.
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Disappointing
- By Debra M. Givin on 11-12-22
By: Devon Price PhD
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Strong Women Lift Each Other Up
- By: Molly Galbraith
- Narrated by: Molly Galbraith
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
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Many women have false beliefs about who we are and what we must do to succeed. If you pit yourself against other women because of this, you’re holding yourself back. It’s time for a change. Women are ready to stop the vicious cycle of criticizing, judging, gossiping, and comparing themselves. We want to feel good in our own skin and know we’re enough, just as we are. This book is an evidence-based, actionable guide to creating a better life for yourself and a better world with more opportunity for women and girls.
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Timely Read
- By Anettrouer on 04-09-21
By: Molly Galbraith
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One by One by One
- Making a Small Difference Amid a Billion Problems
- By: Aaron Berkowitz
- Narrated by: Michael David Axtell
- Length: 11 hrs and 9 mins
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Dr. Aaron Berkowitz had just finished his neurology training when he was sent to Haiti on his first assignment with Partners in Health. There, he meets Janel, a 23-year-old man with the largest brain tumor Berkowitz or any of his neurosurgeon colleagues at Harvard Medical School have ever seen. Determined to live up to Partners in Health’s mission statement “to bring the benefits of modern medical science to those most in need”, Berkowitz tries to save Janel’s life by bringing him back to Boston for a 12-hour surgery.
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Excellent
- By Alan on 02-07-21
By: Aaron Berkowitz
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Spectrum Women
- Walking to the Beat of Autism
- By: Barb Cook - editor, Dr Michelle Garnett - editor, Lisa Morgan - foreward, and others
- Narrated by: Emily Joyce, Vivien Carter
- Length: 9 hrs and 51 mins
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Barb Cook and 14 other autistic women describe life from a female autistic perspective, and present empowering, helpful and supportive insights from their personal experience for fellow autistic women. Michelle Garnett's comments validate and expand the experiences described from a clinician's perspective, and provide extensive recommendations. Autistic advocates including Liane Holliday Willey, Anita Lesko, Jeanette Purkis, Artemisia and Samantha Craft offer their personal guidance on significant issues that particularly affect women, as well as those that are more general to autism.
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It feels patronizing
- By M on 09-08-23
By: Barb Cook - editor, and others
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Love in the Blitz
- The Long-Lost Letters of a Brilliant Young Woman to Her Beloved on the Front
- By: Eileen Alexander
- Narrated by: Stephanie Racine, Sian Clifford, Oswyn Murray
- Length: 21 hrs
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On July 17, 1939, Eileen Alexander, a bright young woman recently graduated from Girton College, Cambridge, begins a brilliant correspondence with fellow Cambridge student Gershon Ellenbogen that lasts five years and spans many hundreds of letters. But as Eileen and Gershon's relationship flourishes from friendship and admiration into passion and love, the tensions between Germany, Russia, and the rest of Europe reach a crescendo. When war is declared, Gershon heads for Cairo and Eileen forgoes her studies to work in the Air Ministry.
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Wonderful narration
- By mag on 09-06-20
By: Eileen Alexander
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The Pattern Seekers
- How Autism Drives Human Invention
- By: Simon Baron-Cohen
- Narrated by: Jonathan Cowley
- Length: 5 hrs and 42 mins
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Why can humans alone invent? In The Pattern Seekers, Cambridge University psychologist Simon Baron-Cohen makes a case that autism is as crucial to our creative and cultural history as the mastery of fire. Indeed, Baron-Cohen argues that autistic people have played a key role in human progress for 70,000 years, from the first tools to the digital revolution. How? Because the same genes that cause autism enable the pattern seeking that is essential to our species' inventiveness.
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I made it about halfway through
- By David on 06-26-21
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Different, Not Less
- A Neurodivergent's Guide to Embracing Your True Self and Finding Your Happily Ever After
- By: Chloé Hayden
- Narrated by: Chloé Hayden
- Length: 7 hrs and 2 mins
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A neurodivergent's guide to embracing your true self and finding your happily ever after. Growing up, Chloé Hayden felt like she'd crash-landed on an alien planet where nothing made sense. Eye contact? Small talk? And why are you people so touch-oriented? She moved between 10 schools in 8 years, struggling to become a person she believed society would accept, and was eventually diagnosed with autism and ADHD. When a life-changing group of allies showed her that different did not mean less, she learned to celebrate her true voice and find her happily ever after.
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Shallow research
- By Livia on 12-03-23
By: Chloé Hayden
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Laziness Does Not Exist
- By: Devon Price PhD
- Narrated by: Em Grosland
- Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
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From social psychologist Dr. Devon Price, a conversational, stirring call to “a better, more human way to live” (Cal Newport, New York Times best-selling author) that examines the “laziness lie” - which falsely tells us we are not working or learning hard enough.
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An Absolute Waste of Time. Not practical at all.
- By Graham Austin on 07-25-21
By: Devon Price PhD
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This Is What You're Really Hungry For
- Six Simple Rules to Transform Your Relationship with Food to Become Your Healthiest Self
- By: Kim Shapira, Kaley Cuoco - foreword
- Narrated by: Kim Shapira, Erin Bennett
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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It's time to stop restricting yourself and learn to make your relationship with food healthy—without forcing yourself to eat "healthy." Dietitian Kim Shapira has developed six simple rules that will change your relationship with food forever. In This Is What You're Really Hungry For, she breaks down the science to get your brain and your body on board, replaces fad diets that do not last with a sustainable method that encourages you to eat what you love, and empowers you to be the authority in your own body.
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This book was helpful in some ways.
- By Bean on 09-08-24
By: Kim Shapira, and others
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Autism Relationships Handbook
- How to Thrive in Friendships, Dating, and Love
- By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN, Joe Biel
- Narrated by: Kate Mulligan
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
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Ever since he came out as autistic, Joe Biel has been contacted by people wanting to share their stories and ask questions. The most common question by far is: How do I find a romantic partner? Autistic listeners will find valuable answers and perspectives in this book, whether they are just getting ready to jump into dating, are seeking to forge closer friendships, or are looking to improve an existing partnership or marriage.
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such a helpful book
- By Anonymous User on 07-18-21
By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN, and others
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I Didn't Sign Up for This
- A Couples Therapist Shares Real-Life Stories of Breaking Patterns and Finding Joy in Relationships . . . Including Her Own
- By: Dr. Tracy Dalgleish
- Narrated by: Dr. Tracy Dalgleish
- Length: 9 hrs and 1 min
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Couples therapist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish has spent the last seventeen years dedicated to helping hundreds of couples in distress find hope and healing, sometimes by staying together and other times not. Breakdowns in communication, lack of intimacy, infidelity, overbearing in-laws and exes (to name a few)―she's seen it all. Shortly after the birth of her first child, Dr. Tracy suddenly began to see herself in her clients' narratives.
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Inaccurate info regarding affairs
- By M. Nelson on 03-12-24
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Rebuilding Beautiful
- Welcome What Is, Dare to Dream Again, and Step Bravely into What Could Be
- By: Kayla Stoecklein
- Narrated by: Kayla Stoecklein
- Length: 4 hrs and 32 mins
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Speaker and author Kayla Stoecklein delivers an inspiring message of how she came face-to-face with crushing personal loss and discovered how to rebuild a beautiful life. Since losing her pastor-husband to suicide in August 2018, Kayla Stoecklein has been passionate about bringing hope to those who wonder if life will ever hold beauty again.
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Rebuilding Beautiful, Indeed!
- By Amazon Customer on 02-25-23
By: Kayla Stoecklein
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- Hailey McKeefry
- 02-06-23
absolutely life changing book
Jenny has such a way with words, and she has put experiences I’ve had into words that i could never find. I cried so many times while listening, both in grief of hard experiences and in joy of understanding. At times, it felt like hearing my own life story, and that is something I have never been able to find. I am going to read all of her books, and I recommend this one to every single person on the planet. It is especially influential for people directly affected by autism, but I think it is so important for everyone to better understand this misunderstood difference. Jenny has given me hope and has changed the way I will think about myself and how my brain works, and there is no amount of thanks big enough for that, all I can say is thank you!
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- J Park
- 04-15-22
Thought provoking
This helped me to get a different perspective than what I naturally see. The book is done in a non chronological stream of thought, which makes it challenging to understand and points, but it does come together in the end and really helps put across the point of the book.
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- Jacque
- 06-13-22
Saved my life- a whole other side of the spectrum
I read this book after 30 years of knowing something was off. I even dabbled in the idea after college that maybe I was autistic. I had a very small handful Of the characteristics but that was it. This book was like an epiphany. She explains how women mask so easily. Now autism looks so different in women. I am so thankful for Jennifer putting this book out. I think it’s a catalyst of future stories to come (and others that are already out there”. We are just starting to unravel the autism spectrum.
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- Amazon Customer
- 09-21-21
Beautifully Written
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. She was the perfect person to narrate her own words! I laughed along and connected emotionally as she retold how she felt throughout her life. I rejoiced as she found her place in the world and became an advocate for women everywhere. If you have a connection to a girl or woman on the spectrum, this is a must read!
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- Taylor
- 02-01-21
I feel...
I loved everything about this. I feel relieved and overwhelmed all at once; which I didn't realize was possible.
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- Catherine Capone
- 10-17-20
easy listening
The book was a written in a conversational style. I've read and listened to many books on the topic but this authors personal retelling of her ups and downs deepened my understanding.
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- Daniela Ferreira
- 02-17-21
An Aspie Girl
This book was a gift. Loveeeeed it!
So happy I came across to this book, I am 29 years old and self diagnosed aspergers.
Have no idea how I will get diagnosed, but I have more tools to know I should take care of myself, my eating disorder and everything else.
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- felix
- 08-12-20
down my own personal memory lane, with tears
Dear Jennifer, thank you for writing this for us. Thank you for helping me understand my daughter, my sister, my mother, and myself. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. thank you for writing the books you wanted to read. may we all learn from your courage. <3
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- grey6
- 06-12-20
Bravo!
This is an excellent read by an important advocate for women on the spectrum. Jennifer's informative and personal style of writing is matched in value by her masterful narration of her journey. I have both the kindle version and audible narration of this important work. Although it was great to reference the text in terms of emerging understanding of neurodiversity, I found myself most enjoying listening to Jennifer add nuance and color to her language. It's as much a work of art as it is a step forward in qualitative research for females with ASD. This rare and wonderful balance gifts the reader/listerner with a sense of deep understanding, while feeling deeply understood,
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- Caitlin
- 02-23-22
The best book EVER.
This book has helped me understand myself In ways I never thought possible.
This book has lifted weight, upon weight, off my shoulders.
This book has comforted me.
This book gave me a sense of belonging.
I could re read this over and over. 10/10 would recommend
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