In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I continue exploring the essential role of neutrality in child-centered play therapy (CCPT). I unpack how neutrality balances with congruence—honoring our genuine emotional responses while avoiding expectations that could pressure or influence a child. I share real-life examples and listener questions that highlight the delicate line between being authentic and unintentionally guiding a child’s behavior.

I also explain why even subtle expressions of approval or disapproval can shift a child’s motivation from internal to external. By staying emotionally congruent without attaching expectations, we preserve the safety and trust within the therapeutic relationship. This episode is a reminder about how neutrality strengthens the therapeutic relationship.

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Common References:
Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge.
Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group.
Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley.
VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press.
Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.