
For You When I Am Gone: A Journal
A Step-by-Step Guide to Writing Your Ethical Will
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Steve Leder
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A beautiful keepsake journal inspired by For You When I Am Gone to help you create your own ethical will.
In For You When I Am Gone, Rabbi Steve Leder taught us how to write an ethical will, a letter to our loved ones that helps them understand what we have learned about how to live a meaningful life. Now, in this beautiful journal, Rabbi Leder provides prompts, exercises, and inspirational quotes to help us write our own ethical wills. As a helpful companion to the previous book or a complete stand-alone, this journal will show each of us how to create a lasting, meaningful legacy while enjoying the process of examining our lives.
* This audiobook includes a downloadable PDF containing journal pages with prompts from the printed book.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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