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How to Not Die Alone

The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

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How to Not Die Alone

By: Logan Ury
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A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives - they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn:

  • What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
  • What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
  • How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
  • How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
  • How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
  • Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway)

This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Please note: This is an historical recording. The audio quality represents the technology of the time when it was produced.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Logan Ury. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.
Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Success Psychology Funny Inspiring Self Help Love
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Some good tips, irritating at times

The narration and stories were great. some evidence-based service, but also a lot of opinions, including irritating off-topic leftist commentary that felt forced and unnecessary to me. I think this book would be even more off-putting to some people more right of center, who I guess are not her target audience.

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Live intentionally!!

So many realistic examples of what holds us back from co-creating the relationships we want - even the subconscious obstacles. Amazing read (listen).

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Great read!

Logan is on to something! I am intentional about my career, and I learned I can be intentional about love. There’s a science behind everything. Great job, Logan! Cheers to you & Scott and cheers to intentionally ever after.

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Super helpful

This book combines new and old relationship advice that I haven’t heard before and actually reflects what it’s like to date through dating apps. I felt HEARD AND SEEN for once! Im recommending this to all my friends. Thanks for writing this book Logan!

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Dating Intentionally!

This book has given a great change in perspective to dating and relationships. Well written and easy to listen to!

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Fantastic advice for singles and daters

Listened to in pieces, over a variety of relationship stages. And now am going to listen to it all over again!
Lots of food for thought on the seemingly unique and guidepostless terrain of love and relationships

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Very eye opening

I thought this book was very enlightening and eye opening. It really made me think about the date offers I receive and especially the 2nd date. Very good book!!!!

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Logical, helpful, thought provoking

Logan was very methodical in her approach to help people think about what they want and how to go about dating, and relationships, in a more intentional way. I wish I would’ve listened to this book 3 years ago and ended my bad relationship then.

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Recommended to my GFs

I've already recommended this to a few of my girlfriends to help them navigate dating. I am in a long-term committed relationship and still found many topics insightful for my platonic and romantic relationships. Myself, my partner and my friends took the quiz and answered some of the questions during my first reading of the book. I am currently going through a divorce after 14 years of marriage and wish I had been more intentional prior to getting married. After reading this book I hope that my current relationship will have the tools to navigate the ups and downs of an enduring relationship. This may be my must-read for 2024.

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A must read for daters!

Logan Ury nails the cause of my singleness, ME! I am so grateful for this realistic view of how to approach dating with a compassionate and proactive way to find love. It worked! Now I have attracted quality men and am taking my time to get to know them and evolve my own bad habits. Thank you Logan and F$&@K the Spark!

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