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Jonathan "JP" Pokluda
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Everyone wants to be loved - to find someone who will stick with them through all of life's ups and downs, someone who is in it for the long haul. But in a world where dating is increasingly based on split-second decisions and geared toward casual relationships rather than marriage, it's easy for single people to feel discouraged, used, or unworthy of true love and lasting affection. Reality just never seems to match up with our (often wildly unrealistic) expectations.
Jonathan "JP" Pokluda has counseled thousands of young singles through the pain and heartbreak of dating the world's way. Now he wants to dispel the myths, misconceptions, and fairy tales you've believed about dating and replace them with the truth from the One who invented marriage, created you to crave relationship, and is the very embodiment of true love. With plenty of true stories about relationships healed and love found, this practical book explains God's purposes for singleness, dating, and marriage and covers why you should date, who you should date, and how you should date.
If you're ready to trade the world's way of dating for the way that actually works, it's time to begin dating well.
©2021 Jonathan Pokluda (P)2021 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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Heavenward!
- By Amazon Customer on 02-17-25
By: Jonathan Pokluda
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Christ-Centered Dating
- Pursuing a Relationship That Glorifies God
- By: Mark Ballenger
- Narrated by: Mark Ballenger
- Length: 6 hrs and 38 mins
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Learn how to follow God’s lead and find what (or who) is best for your life. Practical and freeing, Christ-Centered Dating helps the single Christian reflect God's image while actively seeking to meet, date, and marry the person God has chosen.
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Very Christ centered
- By unseveredties on 02-24-25
By: Mark Ballenger
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The Sacred Search
- What if It’s Not about Who You Marry, but Why?
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 5 hrs and 53 mins
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In the revised edition of his hit book The Sacred Search, author Gary Thomas helps single people of all ages make wise marital choices, in large part by rethinking what basis those choices should be made on. Listeners are encouraged to think beyond finding their “soul mate", an idea that has its roots in the philosophy of Plato, and instead adopt a more biblical search for a “sole mate” - someone who will walk with them on their spiritual journey.
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life changing.
- By Esther on 12-28-22
By: Gary Thomas
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The Love Everybody Wants
- What You're Looking for Is Already Yours
- By: Madison Prewett Troutt, Audrey Roloff - foreword
- Narrated by: Madison Prewett Troutt
- Length: 5 hrs and 39 mins
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Is there something wrong with me? How many more wrong ones until the right one? Am I hard to love? Madison Prewett Troutt knows what it’s like to ask these questions in the middle of the night—to doubt and worry about never finding the love so desperately hoped for. But Madi has discovered a deeper truth now, that the love we’re searching for is already ours. In The Love Everybody Wants, Madi sets aside the shallow messages our culture shouts every day to help us hear God’s beautiful whisper: I have loved you with an everlasting love. And nothing will ever change that.
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Great Christian Insight About Love
- By Amanda Einink on 02-21-24
By: Madison Prewett Troutt, and others
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Welcoming the Future Church
- How to Reach, Teach, and Engage Young Adults
- By: Jonathan Pokluda, Luke Friesen - contributor
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 4 hrs and 47 mins
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If you're not reaching the future of the church, your church has no future. As much sting as that statement has, it's hard to argue with. Yet many churches have no idea how to attract and retain younger generations. If you want to understand how to reach, teach, and empower young adults in your church, Jonathan "JP" Pokluda is ready to show you how.
By: Jonathan Pokluda, and others
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Relationship Goals
- How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex
- By: Michael Todd
- Narrated by: Ameen Gaines
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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Realer than the most real conversation you’ve ever heard on the topic, Michael Todd’s honest, heartfelt, and powerful teaching on relationships has already impacted millions of people in all seasons of life around the world. Now, in Relationship Goals, Michael tells his own story of heartache and healing, unpacks explosive truths from God’s word, and tells it to you straight to help you win at relationships in every part of your life.
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WOW!!!
- By Sugar Sweet on 04-28-20
By: Michael Todd
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Thank You for Rejecting Me
- Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself
- By: Kait Warman
- Narrated by: Kait Warman
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
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Rejection comes in many forms, but it does not have to debilitate you. A popular relationship coach and podcaster helps you overcome rejection with practical strategies to get back on your feet, grow in grit and confidence, and live unflinchingly.
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How you respond to rejection is so important!
- By Victoria Duffoo on 03-02-21
By: Kait Warman
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The Meaning of Marriage
- Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
- By: Timothy Keller
- Narrated by: Lloyd James, Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 8 hrs and 15 mins
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Few subjects are as compelling-or as endlessly variable-as love and marriage. The Bible is filled with references to husbands and wives, from the story of Adam and Eve to advice in the New Testament, each open to interpretation. In The Meaning of Marriage, Timothy Keller, pastor of New York's Redeemer Presbyterian Church and bestselling author of The Reason for God, uses the scriptures as his guide to show readers what God's call to marriage is, and why this is such a powerful call.
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Now my most recommended book on marriage
- By Adam Shields on 01-26-12
By: Timothy Keller
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The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
- How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World
- By: John Mark Comer, John Ortberg - foreword
- Narrated by: John Mark Comer, Kris Koscheski
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
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"Who am I becoming?" That was the question nagging pastor and author John Mark Comer. Outwardly, he appeared successful. But inwardly, things weren’t pretty. So, he turned to a trusted mentor for guidance and heard these words: "Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life. Hurry is the great enemy of the spiritual life." It wasn’t the response he expected, but it was - and continues to be - the answer he needs. Within this audiobook, you’ll find a fascinating road map to staying emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world.
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Pedantic and Patronizing
- By Hannah Raveling on 08-06-20
By: John Mark Comer, and others
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Gentle and Lowly
- The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers
- By: Dane Ortlund
- Narrated by: Dane Ortlund
- Length: 5 hrs and 17 mins
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Christians know what Jesus Christ has done — but who is he? What is his deepest heart for his people, weary and faltering on their journey toward heaven? Jesus said he is "gentle and lowly in heart." This audiobook reflects on these words, opening up a neglected yet central truth about who he is for sinners and sufferers today.
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Disappointment.
- By Fossilized Tree Sap on 12-27-21
By: Dane Ortlund
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Find Your People
- Building Deep Community in a Lonely World
- By: Jennie Allen
- Narrated by: Jennie Allen
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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In a world that's both more connected and more isolating than ever before, we’re often tempted to do life alone, whether because we’re so busy or because relationships feel risky and hard. But science confirms that consistent, meaningful connection with others has a powerful impact on our well-being. We are meant to live known and loved. But so many are hiding behind emotional walls that we’re experiencing an epidemic of loneliness. In Find Your People, you’ll discover exactly how to dive into the deep end and experience the full wonder of community.
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Christian
- By E. Wood on 04-08-22
By: Jennie Allen
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Sacred Marriage
- What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
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What if God designed marriage to make you holy instead of happy? What if your relationship isn't as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God? In Sacred Marriage, best-selling author Gary Thomas uncovers the ways that your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God and with each other. Join over one million others who have already uncovered Thomas's tips for fostering a sacred marriage. In Sacred Marriage, Thomas invites you to see how God can use your relationship with your spouse as a discipline and a motivation to love God more.
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just when I wanted to give up
- By Nestor on 01-10-18
By: Gary Thomas
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Eight Dates
- Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
- By: John Gottman PhD, Julie Schwartz Gottman PhD, Doug Abrams, and others
- Narrated by: James Patrick Cronin, Julie McKay
- Length: 5 hrs and 9 mins
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Navigating the challenges of long-term commitment takes effort - and it just got simpler, with this empowering, step-by-step guide to communicating about the things that matter most to you and your partner. Drawing on 40 years of research from their world-famous Love Lab, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman invite couples on eight fun, easy, and profoundly rewarding dates, each one focused on a make-or-break issue: trust, conflict, sex, money, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.
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What the F. Robot-reader???!?!?!
- By Anonymous User on 01-21-20
By: John Gottman PhD, and others
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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Gary Chapman
- Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
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Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!
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Unexpected Brilliance
- By Vanessa on 02-08-07
By: Gary Chapman
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- Benjamin
- 07-27-21
Must read book for Christian singles!
If you're a Christian single, please do yourself a favor and read this book. It'll change your perspective on dating and marriage.
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- Deborah Miller
- 01-05-22
Cover to cover
I listened to Outdated straight through while country driving. It had my attention the whole time, which is a rarity.
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- Austin Rucker
- 10-14-21
rock and roll
great to hear a straightforward review of the things that work. d how to directly address the issues
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- Cowboy Steve
- 02-21-22
Single people of all ages, whether never married or divorced, read this book!
Amazing! I have been married more than once. And am asking myself what am I doing wrong? Why can’t I stay married? Maybe I should just stay single.
I am 61 and want to be in love and married.
God dropped this book into my hands. It was given to me by my daughter who came upon this book by chance. My daughter didn’t buy the book and she gave it to me.
I now know I was dating all wrong. I was not dating intentionally.
Read this book if you are dating.
I am starting to read the book a second time.
Whether you are dating to be married or just dating for fun. Either way this book is life changing.
Read the book single people!
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- Becca
- 01-01-23
good!
not great! but good! beat for if you are single looking to date!! not too helpful if you are in a somewhat healthy, God-honoring relationship! still good info though!! very counter cultural ideas about dating that challenges me but i liked!!!
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- Kindle Customer
- 06-11-23
An Essential Read
Love the authors discussing his own struggles and being vulnerable. This provides a great blueprint for meaningful and faithful dating!
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- Stephen L.
- 01-29-25
Great book, good perspective
Slow talker so had to listen at 1.5-7x speed, otherwise a great book. Highly recommend.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-13-21
An absolute MUST!
If you’ve struggled with thoughts of the “grass could be greener with someone else” or “I don’t know if they are THE ONE,” or even just hesitancy in taking the next step, this is the book for you! Everything is laid out with biblical backing and makes perfect sense once you know what you should be looking for verses what we tend to think we need. Amazing book and a must read for everybody, especially if your hope is to live a God glorifying life/the best life!
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- Payton Christopher
- 03-18-21
Single ready to mingle? Read this book first!
Christian dating is always a touchy subject because God's word doesn't outline what dating is... but God's word does outline how we are to pursue one another, how we are to develop and grow our relationship with him, and how we are to conduct ourselves within marriage. That being said, JP does a great job of pointing the reader back to what God says.
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- Jennifer
- 03-09-23
great information!
this book is fantastic to give a good perspective of relationships. whether a christian or not, there is some great advice on longterm relationships and what to look for.
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