
Pleasing People
How Not to Be an Approval Junkie
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Timothy Andrés Pabon
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By:
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Lou Priolo
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Are you a people pleaser? Are you addicted to approval from others, and would do just about anything to get that approval?
Biblical counselor Lou Priolo exposes all the prideful manifestations of this problem and, as always, offers solid, systematic Biblical solutions! Even those who feel that they do not have this problem should listen to this helpful book, because what you don't know can and will hurt you and others.
©2007 Louis Paul Priolo (P)2021 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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- Jim Danner
- 12-12-23
Biblical and practical
This book by Lou Priolo is gold. It will teach, convict, correct and train in righteousness. Why? Because it is so biblical. If followed, this will help you become free of people pleasing.I recommend all Priolo’s works.
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- Jules T
- 02-21-22
Such a knowledgeable writer
Lou Priolo has such a depth of understanding when it comes to applying God’s word to our daily lives. He breaks it down in understandable language and it echoes his daily walk with God and applying these principles
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- Rhode Island Parent
- 02-08-24
Very helpful!
This book provides a clear Biblical basis for living in a way that is more concerned about pleasing God and not just living for man’s approval.
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