
Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed
Sixteen Writers on the Decision Not to Have Kids
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Narrated by:
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Johnny Heller
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Jo Anna Perrin
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By:
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Meghan Daum
One of the main topics of cultural conversation during the last decade was the supposed "fertility crisis" and whether modern women could figure out a way to have it all - a successful, demanding career and the required 2.3 children - before their biological clocks stopped ticking. Now, however, conversation has turned to whether it's necessary to have it all (see Anne-Marie Slaughter) or, perhaps more controversial, whether children are really a requirement for a fulfilling life. The idea that some women and men prefer not to have children is often met with sharp criticism and incredulity by the public and mainstream media. In this provocative and controversial collection of essays curated by writer Meghan Daum, 16 acclaimed writers explain why they have chosen to eschew parenthood. Contributors include Lionel Shriver, Sigrid Nunez, Kate Christiensen, Elliott Holt, Geoff Dyer, and Tim Kreider, among others, who will give a unique perspective on the overwhelming cultural pressure of parenthood. Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed makes a thoughtful and passionate case for why parenthood is not the only path in life, taking our parent-centric, kid-fixated, baby-bump-patrolling culture to task in the process. What emerges is a more nuanced, diverse view of what it means to live a full, satisfying life.
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Pretty good read, I wish it included larger diversity in the experiences narrated by the writers.
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My problem with this in audio format was twofold. 1 - Though there were 16 writers, there were only 2 narrators, and (personal preference) I did not love either of them. O ly having two narrators was an issue because 2 - The chapters were not labeled with their title, which seems like it would include the author. That would have been helpful because when I heard about another woman who has similar struggles to the last 3 women, I couldn't always tell which story I was on. In my mind they just became woman of Chapter 10. That didn't actually help so when many women with a similar stories were being told by the same voice, I ended up getting many of the stories mixed up in my head.
I have been listening to audiobooks for years, to be fair, never a collection of essays about real life stories, and I never have issues keeping facts straight or following storyline. I think this is probably a great read in paper or ebook, but due of the lack of properly titled chapters, and only 2 narrators, it isn't a very fun audiobook.
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Loved it!! Excellent real life, thoughtful stories
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Fantastic
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Ok, I get it
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challenging to hear the different voices
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‘Choosing Child-Free’ weaves together a tapestry of personal narratives and expert insights, creating a rich tapestry of perspectives that both informs and uplifts. Each story shared by individuals who have chosen the path of child-free living serves as a testament to the fulfillment and freedom that come from embracing one’s authentic desires and priorities.
What sets this audiobook apart is its ability to navigate sensitive topics with grace and sensitivity. Whether exploring the decision-making process behind choosing a child-free life or addressing common misconceptions and societal stigmas, ‘Choosing Child-Free’ does so with compassion and understanding, fostering a sense of solidarity and camaraderie among listeners.
A satisfying audio book.
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A nice collection of essays
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Great, but needed more voices
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