
Slay the Bully
How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win
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Rebecca Zung Esq.
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Slay narcissists—the ultimate bullies—in negotiations by following this simple formula—developed by one of the top 1 percent of attorneys in the nation—a proven method to take you from victim to victory, without backlash!
Whether your relationship is professional or personal, narcissists have a way of honing in on their prey that is unparalleled.
The path into hell is camouflaged, artfully concealed under lies and charm, red flags skillfully diverted away, until you finally realize that their tactics have left you feeling utterly drained to your soul.
The population of narcissists is becoming an epidemic. The problem is that we’ve been applying a blanket approach to negotiation with narcissists and expecting them to work like they do with reasonable people.
But narcissists’ brains are not wired the same as reasonable people. That is why a conventional approach to negotiation always fails.
But there wasn’t a playbook on HOW to deal with them … until now.
In this book, globally recognized high conflict negotiation expert and top attorney Rebecca Zung shares her revolutionary framework to SLAYing your negotiation with the narcissist.
By the time you’re finished listening, you will know how to shift the dynamic of power and be more confident and empowered in every aspect of your life!
©2023 Rebecca Zung, Esq. (P)2023 Recorded BooksListeners also enjoyed...
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Covert Narcissism
- Signs of a Covert Narcissist, Ways to Protect Yourself from Their Manipulation and How to Deal with Their Narcissism
- By: Louisa Cox
- Narrated by: Heidi Baker
- Length: 1 hr and 44 mins
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Covert narcissism is a hidden and concealed form of narcissism, making it all the more difficult for the abuser to be confronted or "outed" for their behavior. Covert narcissism is a passive-aggressive, hostile, and toxic form of abuse that makes victims feel hopeless, unheard, hurt, and confused by the abusers' behavior.
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Good
- By John Galt on 08-10-19
By: Louisa Cox
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Co-Parenting Hell
- Raising Healthy Kids with a Toxic Narcissist Ex
- By: Janet Bloom
- Narrated by: Siobhan Hallinan
- Length: 3 hrs
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Are you dealing with a difficult ex who’s ruining your kids’ childhoods? Does it feel impossible to be happy because of this, not being able to see a way out? Are the challenges of co-parenting too difficult that you feel lost and hopeless? You probably feel like you want to scream from the top of a mountain or pull your hair out because of the stress.
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A game-changer!!
- By Valerie Parks on 10-31-23
By: Janet Bloom
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Divorcing Your Narcissist
- You Can't Make This Shit Up!
- By: Tracy A. Malone
- Narrated by: Kate Parry
- Length: 13 hrs and 26 mins
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You fell in love. On your wedding day, you never dreamed life could be any better. Now you’re in the midst of a heated battle, your head spinning and your heart broken, wondering where that person went. Tracy A. Malone, an internationally recognized expert on emotional abuse and narcissistic personality disorder, survival coach and founder of a narcissistic abuse support website, has been there, along with countless others whose successes offer quick, enlightening glimpses into methods used to outlast the attempts at destruction, and flourish after the dust has settled.
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Start with Chapter 11
- By Michelle on 03-14-23
By: Tracy A. Malone
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Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare
- How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Julie McKay
- Length: 19 hrs and 53 mins
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Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its effects on victims who are in toxic relationships with partners with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Individuals with this disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as "narcissistic abuse". Unfortunately, the full extent of what narcissistic abuse entails is not taught in any psychology class or diagnostic manual.
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Finally
- By zero on 12-08-16
By: Shahida Arabi
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The Safest Place Possible: A Guide to Healing and Transformation
- By: Debbie Mirza
- Narrated by: Debbie Mirza
- Length: 3 hrs and 39 mins
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The Safest Place Possible is a journey to self-love and healing. If you have lost yourself in an unhealthy or traumatic relationship and want to find your way back to who you really are, if you have had the rug pulled out from under you, if you are experiencing anxiety and fear, if you are unsure of your future, this is the book for you. This book is both a memoir as well as an incredibly helpful guide to healing through transforming the relationship you have with yourself.
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So grateful for this book!
- By Sunny on 08-03-19
By: Debbie Mirza
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Divorcing a Narcissist
- The Lure, the Loss, and the Law
- By: Supriya McKenna, Karin Walker
- Narrated by: Supriya McKenna
- Length: 13 hrs and 59 mins
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Separating or divorcing a narcissist or someone who has narcissistic traits can be a difficult, draining experience. This book is written for the spouse of such a personality to support them step by step through the legal process, as well as through the difficult emotional journey that they'll be undertaking. It will help you recognize narcissistic behavior, prime you on what challenges lie ahead, and provide practical insights on how to survive the process. It will also help you work with your lawyer so you can both understand the potential pitfalls.
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Excellent!
- By Roxanne F on 01-13-23
By: Supriya McKenna, and others
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Coercive Control
- Breaking Free from Psychological Abuse
- By: Lauren Kozlowski, Escape the Narcissist
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 1 hr and 48 mins
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Coercive control will see an abuser dominate their victim's life, from the food they eat, the people they see, the places they can go, and the things they can say. A controlling partner, through fear and intimidation, will seek to ensure their victim is subdued, to the point of accepting any and all abuse that's fired their way.
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Good book - author needs some gender empathy
- By Amazon Customer on 07-06-21
By: Lauren Kozlowski, and others
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Splitting, Second Edition
- Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- By: Bill Eddy LCSW JD, Randi Kreger
- Narrated by: Christopher Grove
- Length: 8 hrs and 16 mins
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Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers.
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Must read!
- By tara on 01-11-22
By: Bill Eddy LCSW JD, and others
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It's Not You
- Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
- By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD, Maria Shriver
- Length: 11 hrs and 31 mins
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It’s not always easy to tell when you’re dealing with a narcissist. One day they draw you in with their confidence and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering, What could I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals in It's Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing. Just as a tiger can’t change its stripes, a narcissist won’t stop manipulating and invalidating you. To heal in the aftermath of their abuse and protect yourself from future harm, you first have to accept that you are not to blame.
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I needed this
- By Austin E. Jonas Jr. on 03-02-24
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Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent
- By: Margalis Fjelstad, Jean McBride
- Narrated by: Senn Annis
- Length: 6 hrs and 33 mins
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Being partnered with a narcissist or borderline personality can be hard enough, but learning how to shield children from the fallout is paramount. Here, the authors tell listeners how to manage parenting when a narcissistic or borderline partner is part of the equation.
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Hope Found
- By Danielle Smith on 06-16-21
By: Margalis Fjelstad, and others
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Somatic Trauma Healing
- The At-Home DIY Crash Course in Experiencing True Body Awareness Through Somatic Secrets Anyone Can Do & Insider Techniques Your ... (Sound Healing and Somatic Mindfulness)
- By: Ascending Vibrations
- Narrated by: Alana Marie Cheuvront
- Length: 5 hrs and 15 mins
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Have you suffered trauma in the past? Have you been wanting to relieve unusual symptoms but can’t seem to get to the bottom of it? Stored trauma can often lead to physical pain and the psychological anguish that comes along with it. Want to say good-bye to all of the overwhelming and complex info out there and discover what easily works for you? You see, using somatic healing to your benefit doesn't have to be difficult, even if you feel like you've already tried everything. In fact, it's easier than you think.
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A Must-Read for Survivors of Trauma
- By Anonymous User on 11-06-23
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-14-24
Good advice
Step by step guide for what you will encounter in the process of divorcing a narcissist. Clear definitions of the types of narcissists and typical behaviors.
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- R. Wilson
- 06-18-24
So so helpful
Thank you for this incredibly helpful book! So insightful and easily digestible advice that hits the spot if you’re dealing with very toxic people! Loved it!
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- Anonymous User
- 11-24-23
Help Planning When You’re Paralyzed and Alone
The step by step approach allows for peace of mind, even if staying. It helps survivors take steps to getting their life and mind back in a healthy way. Highly recommend sooner than later!
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- Hello Kitty Fan 2016
- 02-24-24
Valuable information
There is such valuable information in this book in how to deal with people with narcissistic tendencies. This is especially valuable for those who tend to be empathetic.
Her information is eye opening and practical tips to protect yourself. I appreciate her insightful advice
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- E. Osaigbovo
- 01-04-24
Very thorough and well explained
I liked her passion. Her stories and examples. She explained her points very well. And she is brilliant and inspiring. Highly recommended!
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- Julie
- 07-29-24
Amazing!
Loved every minute! Super informative in an easy way to understand! So helpful! Inspirational! Amazing!
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- Theresa Chausse
- 11-22-24
Never met her but this was so deeply accurate of my actual experience that I trust what she says.
I got chills for the first time EVER. Was my first …anything… about narcissistic behavior. I felt like she could see inside my personal experiences without knowing me. I’m listening for the third time. It helps remind me and replaces so much negativity with very tangible hope. It has already impacted my life out in the world that isn’t this other one, with the person I am leaving.
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- Anonymous
- 12-17-23
Finally. A strategy for WINNING.
For basic sanity I agree with the general advice of radically accepting you can’t win with a narcissist or toxic person. They won’t allow it. They won’t let it go. Their narratives and delusions tell them they’ve “won” and all is moot.
But when it comes to fighting in the legal system, if you don’t understand the dynamics you’re up against with people who think this way, you’re in for a world of hurt and more potential trauma.
Rebecca lays out great advice and her stories are relevant. I’ve had to deal legally with both former romantic partners and a former business partner and this book would have helped me years ago. I’m grateful for it now as well as my ex-husband has resurrected some legal issues and this book brought me back to sanity and empowerment.
The first couple of chapters are a review of narcissism. If you’re like me and have spent years learning about it, it will be mostly a review to you.
The following chapters are gold. Rebecca’s distinction between diamond level and coal level supply is brilliant.
I would have liked to have had more information about what to do if you’ve already fallen prey to some of the narc’s tactics and reacted. There was one point in the book I felt like giving up because I didn’t have her advice soon enough, but I listened to the end and I feel heartened.
Thank you Rebecca. I appreciate that you have given us access to your amazing advice.
Five stars all day long.
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- Joan T. Kloth-Zanard
- 02-27-24
Omg!! Thank you.
Book great but too much email advertising.
I felt like I was reading what I say to my clients all the time. Now I can just send them to read this book. Thank you.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-06-24
Excellent advice
Excellent practical advice. This was made more interesting and useful by vignettes scattered throughout the book.
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