
The Big Life
Embrace the Mess, Work Your Side Hustle, Find a Monumental Relationship, and Become the Badass Babe You Were Meant to Be
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $19.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Cassandra Campbell
-
Ann Shoket
-
By:
-
Ann Shoket
About this listen
Millennial women are changing what it means to be powerful and successful in the world - for everyone. Forever.
You want The Big Life - that delicious cocktail of passion, career, work, ambition, respect, money, and a monumental relationship. And you want it on your own terms. Forget climbing some corporate ladder; you want a career with twists and turns and adventure. For you, success matters only if it's meaningful.
Ann Shoket knows the evolving values of young women more than anyone. She's the voice behind the popular Badass Babes community, a sisterhood of young, hungry, ambitious women who are helping each other through the most complex issues around becoming who you're meant to be. As the trailblazing editor in chief of Seventeen for the better part of a decade, Shoket led provocative conversations that helped young women navigate the tricky terrain of adolescence and become smart, confident, self-assured young women. Now that they are adding muscle to the framework of their lives, she's continuing the conversation with The Big Life.
The Big Life is packed with actionable guidance combined with personal advice from high-profile millennial women who have already achieved tremendous success, plus intimate conversations with a cast of compelling characters and Shoket's own stories on her quest for The Big Life. You'll learn to tackle all of the issues on heavy rotation in your mind, such as:
- How to craft a career that's also a passion
- How to get respect from a boss who thinks you're a lazy, entitled, and self-obsessed millennial
- Why you need a squad of people who support you as you build your Big Life
- How a side hustle will make you smarter, hotter, and more in control of your destiny
- Why work/life balance is a sham and you need to embrace the mess
- How to find a partner whose eyes light up when you talk about your ambition
Written in Shoket's friendly and authoritative style, The Big Life will help you recognize your power, tap in to your ambition, and create your own version of The Big Life.
©2017 Ann Shoket (P)2017 Audible, Inc.Listeners also enjoyed...
-
Power Your Happy
- Work Hard, Play Nice, and Build Your Dream Life
- By: Lisa Sugar
- Narrated by: Lisa Sugar
- Length: 4 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lisa Sugar has an amazing job. She spends her days at PopSugar creating content about pop culture, must-have handbags and makeup, healthy recipes, and Instagram-worthy sweets. She manages an enormously successful, growing company with employees who love what they do. And her life is just as great at home. She and her husband have three daughters, and she's the number one soccer mom who loves reading bedtime stories every night.
-
-
This was perfect timing!
- By Amber on 09-21-16
By: Lisa Sugar
-
I Shouldn't Be Telling You This
- Success Secrets Every Gutsy Girl Should Know
- By: Kate White
- Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
- Length: 10 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A witty, wise, straight-talking career guide for women, I Shouldn't Be Telling You This is the perfect book for the current economic climate, whether you're just starting out, re-entering the workforce after maternity leave, or simply looking for a career change; it contains essential tips and bold strategies from a gutsy innovator who helped increase Cosmo's circulation by half a million copies per month.
-
-
AMAZING
- By valarie on 01-21-14
By: Kate White
-
Girl, Stop Apologizing (Audible Exclusive Edition)
- A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
- By: Rachel Hollis
- Narrated by: Rachel Hollis
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Rachel Hollis has seen it too often: women not living into their full potential. They feel a tugging on their hearts for something more, but they’re afraid of embarrassment, of falling short of perfection, of not being enough. In Girl, Stop Apologizing, number-one New York Times best-selling author and founder of a multimillion-dollar media company, Rachel Hollis sounds a wake-up call. She knows that many women have been taught to define themselves in light of other people - whether as wife, mother, daughter, or employee....
-
-
girl, listen.
- By Johanna on 03-08-19
By: Rachel Hollis
-
Killing It
- An Entrepreneur's Guide to Keeping Your Head Without Losing Your Heart
- By: Sheryl O'Loughlin
- Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
- Length: 8 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Aspiring entrepreneurs are told that to launch a business, you must go all in, devoting every resource and moment to making it work. But following this advice comes at an enormous personal cost: divorce, addiction, even suicide. It means sacrificing the intangibles that make life worth living. Sheryl O'Loughlin knows there is a better way. In Killing It, she shares the wisdom she's gained from her successful experiences.
-
-
Great read! Insightful!
- By Justine A. Kundert on 06-14-17
-
Man Up
- How to Cut the Bullshit and Kick Ass in Business (And in Life)
- By: Bedros Keuilian
- Narrated by: Bedros Keuilian
- Length: 4 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Author Bedros Keuilian, founder and CEO of Fit Body Boot Camp and known as the "hidden genius" behind many of the most successful brands and businesses throughout multiple industries, will teach you how to break out of the sea of mediocrity, get singularly focused on your purpose, and do what it takes - not only to achieve but dominate your goals.
-
-
Good overview, but nothing new or groundbreaking
- By jbloore on 06-13-19
By: Bedros Keuilian
-
Rise and Grind
- Out-Perform, Out-Work, and Out-Hustle Your Way to a More Successful and Rewarding Life
- By: Daymond John, Daniel Paisner
- Narrated by: Sway Calloway, Daymond John
- Length: 8 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The New York Times best-selling author of The Power of Broke and "Shark" on ABC's hit show Shark Tank explores how grit, persistence, and good old-fashioned hard work are the backbone of every successful business and individual, and inspires listeners to Rise and Grind their way the top.
-
-
Work hard
- By Calaigh Clark on 05-28-18
By: Daymond John, and others
-
Power Your Happy
- Work Hard, Play Nice, and Build Your Dream Life
- By: Lisa Sugar
- Narrated by: Lisa Sugar
- Length: 4 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lisa Sugar has an amazing job. She spends her days at PopSugar creating content about pop culture, must-have handbags and makeup, healthy recipes, and Instagram-worthy sweets. She manages an enormously successful, growing company with employees who love what they do. And her life is just as great at home. She and her husband have three daughters, and she's the number one soccer mom who loves reading bedtime stories every night.
-
-
This was perfect timing!
- By Amber on 09-21-16
By: Lisa Sugar
-
I Shouldn't Be Telling You This
- Success Secrets Every Gutsy Girl Should Know
- By: Kate White
- Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
- Length: 10 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A witty, wise, straight-talking career guide for women, I Shouldn't Be Telling You This is the perfect book for the current economic climate, whether you're just starting out, re-entering the workforce after maternity leave, or simply looking for a career change; it contains essential tips and bold strategies from a gutsy innovator who helped increase Cosmo's circulation by half a million copies per month.
-
-
AMAZING
- By valarie on 01-21-14
By: Kate White
-
Girl, Stop Apologizing (Audible Exclusive Edition)
- A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
- By: Rachel Hollis
- Narrated by: Rachel Hollis
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Rachel Hollis has seen it too often: women not living into their full potential. They feel a tugging on their hearts for something more, but they’re afraid of embarrassment, of falling short of perfection, of not being enough. In Girl, Stop Apologizing, number-one New York Times best-selling author and founder of a multimillion-dollar media company, Rachel Hollis sounds a wake-up call. She knows that many women have been taught to define themselves in light of other people - whether as wife, mother, daughter, or employee....
-
-
girl, listen.
- By Johanna on 03-08-19
By: Rachel Hollis
-
Killing It
- An Entrepreneur's Guide to Keeping Your Head Without Losing Your Heart
- By: Sheryl O'Loughlin
- Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
- Length: 8 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Aspiring entrepreneurs are told that to launch a business, you must go all in, devoting every resource and moment to making it work. But following this advice comes at an enormous personal cost: divorce, addiction, even suicide. It means sacrificing the intangibles that make life worth living. Sheryl O'Loughlin knows there is a better way. In Killing It, she shares the wisdom she's gained from her successful experiences.
-
-
Great read! Insightful!
- By Justine A. Kundert on 06-14-17
-
Man Up
- How to Cut the Bullshit and Kick Ass in Business (And in Life)
- By: Bedros Keuilian
- Narrated by: Bedros Keuilian
- Length: 4 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Author Bedros Keuilian, founder and CEO of Fit Body Boot Camp and known as the "hidden genius" behind many of the most successful brands and businesses throughout multiple industries, will teach you how to break out of the sea of mediocrity, get singularly focused on your purpose, and do what it takes - not only to achieve but dominate your goals.
-
-
Good overview, but nothing new or groundbreaking
- By jbloore on 06-13-19
By: Bedros Keuilian
-
Rise and Grind
- Out-Perform, Out-Work, and Out-Hustle Your Way to a More Successful and Rewarding Life
- By: Daymond John, Daniel Paisner
- Narrated by: Sway Calloway, Daymond John
- Length: 8 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The New York Times best-selling author of The Power of Broke and "Shark" on ABC's hit show Shark Tank explores how grit, persistence, and good old-fashioned hard work are the backbone of every successful business and individual, and inspires listeners to Rise and Grind their way the top.
-
-
Work hard
- By Calaigh Clark on 05-28-18
By: Daymond John, and others
-
How to Be a Boss B*tch
- Stop Apologizing for Who You Are and Get the Life You Want
- By: Christine Quinn, Rachel Holtzman
- Narrated by: Christine Quinn
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Christine Quinn, the breakout star of Netflix’s hit Selling Sunset, shows women how to unapologetically own their power in business and relationships to live the life they deserve.
-
-
Only 30 minutes in...
- By Candy Mc on 05-17-22
By: Christine Quinn, and others
-
#GIRLBOSS
- By: Sophia Amoruso
- Narrated by: Sara Jes Austell
- Length: 4 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The first thing Sophia Amoruso sold online wasn’t fashion - it was a stolen book. She spent her teens hitchhiking, committing petty theft, and dumpster diving. By twenty-two, she had resigned herself to employment, but was still broke, directionless, and working a mediocre day job she’d taken for the health insurance. It was there that Sophia decided to start selling vintage clothes on eBay. Eight years later, she is the founder, CEO, and creative director of Nasty Gal, a $100 million plus online fashion retailer with more than 350 employees.
-
-
For those who haven't done much
- By Debra on 04-21-15
By: Sophia Amoruso
-
Permission to Screw Up
- How I Learned to Lead by Doing (Almost) Everything Wrong
- By: Kristen Hadeed, Simon Sinek - foreword
- Narrated by: Kristen Hadeed
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The inspiring, unlikely, laugh-out-loud story of how one woman learned to lead - and how she ultimately succeeded, not despite her many mistakes, but because of them. This is the story of how Kristen Hadeed built Student Maid, a cleaning company where people are happy, loyal, productive, and empowered, even while they're mopping floors and scrubbing toilets.
-
-
Interesting, but a foul mouth
- By Sam Biggs on 12-23-17
By: Kristen Hadeed, and others
-
Do Over
- Rescue Monday, Reinvent Your Work, and Never Get Stuck
- By: Jon Acuff
- Narrated by: Jon Acuff
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
New York Times best-selling author Jon Acuff has drawn millions of online fans who love his refreshing mix of humor, honesty, and wisdom about the world of work. Now he offers his most important audiobook yet, a guide to making big career changes - by choice or necessity - and escaping the horrible feeling of being trapped in the wrong job.
-
-
Great book!
- By Holly Richardson on 05-23-15
By: Jon Acuff
-
The Matriarch Rules
- How to Own Your Power, Know Your Worth, and Lead the Life You've Always Wanted
- By: Randy Patterson
- Narrated by: Randy Patterson
- Length: 4 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The matriarch's vision for her career is as big as her love for her family, and she's paid her worth for work she's passionate about. The matriarch knows exactly what she wants the end game to be and she has the power to make it come to fruition. Simply put: She has her act together and you feel safer and more secure when you're in her presence. So, the question is, how does one become her? This book answers that question and more.
-
-
Empowering, funny, emotional, in your face
- By Megan on 02-21-20
By: Randy Patterson
-
The Most Powerful Woman in the Room Is You
- Command an Audience and Sell Your Way to Success
- By: Lydia Fenet
- Narrated by: Lydia Fenet
- Length: 6 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lydia Fenet, senior vice president of Christie’s and seasoned auctioneer, shares the secrets of success and the strategies behind her revolutionary sales approach to show you how to embrace and channel your own power in any room.
-
-
The Most Powerful Woman In The Room Is Unrelatable
- By Laura M. on 10-09-20
By: Lydia Fenet
-
Agent You
- Show Up, Do the Work, and Succeed on Your Own Terms
- By: Nicole Lynn
- Narrated by: Nicole Lynn
- Length: 4 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What does it take to achieve your personal and professional goals? When is the right time to take calculated risks, and how do you prepare for the moment when opportunity presents itself? If anyone can show you how to do this, it’s Nicole Lynn. As the first Black female agent to represent a top-three NFL draft pick, Nicole worked her way from childhood poverty to become a Wall Street financial analyst, then attorney, and now top agent to elite athletes and entertainers.
-
-
Real spill !
- By Brittanee on 03-12-25
By: Nicole Lynn
-
Radical Confidence
- 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want
- By: Lisa Bilyeu
- Narrated by: Lisa Bilyeu
- Length: 7 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Author Lisa Bilyeu grew up in London, where she was always told her dreams of Hollywood were a little too big for a girl. Despite her first love of movie-making, Lisa moved to Los Angeles and became a housewife—for eight frickin’ years! How the heck did that happen? Radical Confidence is the “empowering, transformative, and practical” (Jay Shetty, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Like A Monk) story of how Lisa unpaused her life to cofound a company that went from zero to a billion dollars in just five years and became the leader in the world of personal development.
-
-
thank you, Lisa! I needed that soooo much!
- By Anonymous User on 07-05-22
By: Lisa Bilyeu
-
Unfiltered
- Proven Strategies to Start and Grow Your Business by Not Following the Rules
- By: Rachel Pedersen
- Narrated by: Rachel Pedersen
- Length: 6 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In 213, Rachel Pedersen was a single mom, freshly off of food stamps and struggling to get her life on track. Three years later, she left her 9-to-5 job and launched a consulting business with her husband. Today, she is the founder and CEO of two multimillion-dollar companies and an expert in every aspect of social media, helping businesses 1X (or 1X!) with massive, needle-moving growth.
-
-
A Book for Every Entrepreneur!
- By K.W. on 09-23-22
By: Rachel Pedersen
-
Everything Will Be Okay
- Life Lessons for Young Women (from a Former Young Woman)
- By: Dana Perino
- Narrated by: Dana Perino
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY is a no-nonsense how-to guide to life for young women looking to reframe their thinking, to believe in themselves, to take risks, to understand their power, and to feel better overall through finding serenity and taking action.
-
-
Dana’s Progression
- By Darrell Jenks on 03-20-21
By: Dana Perino
-
How to Get Sh*t Done
- Why Women Need to Stop Doing Everything So They Can Achieve Anything
- By: Erin Falconer
- Narrated by: Lauren Fortgang
- Length: 6 hrs and 38 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Finally, in the first productivity book by a woman in a decade, Erin Falconer will show you how to do less - a lot less. In fact, How to Get Sh*t Done will teach you how to zero in on the three areas of your life where you want to excel, and then it will show you how to offload, outsource, or just stop giving a damn about the rest. In How to Get Sh*t Done she shows how even the most perfectionistic among us can tap in to our inner free spirit and learn to feel like badasses rather than drudges.
-
-
Not What I Expected
- By Justin Jones on 02-05-18
By: Erin Falconer
-
Unapologetically Ambitious
- Take Risks, Break Barriers, and Create Success on Your Own Terms
- By: Shellye Archambeau, Ben Horowitz - foreword
- Narrated by: Shellye Archambeau, Dan Triandiflou
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Full of empowering wisdom from one of Silicon Valley's first female African American CEOs, this inspiring leadership book for fans of Dare to Lead and Start with Why offers a blueprint for how to achieve your personal and professional goals, drawn from the author's own compelling story of how she weathered life's difficulties to build massive success.
-
-
A Must for Every Ambitious Professional
- By Jasper W. Kuria on 12-30-20
By: Shellye Archambeau, and others
What listeners say about The Big Life
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Gaby C
- 04-03-24
Life lessons!!
Everytime I need a reminder of how big life can be- I come back to this book!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Maria Eugenia Groba
- 03-22-17
She really knows what we are thinking
Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?
I will recommend this to every woman. There is something beautiful and rewording to know that you aren't alone. That we all have the same problems, even the people you think have the most amazing life. Yet with every story I was like " I know what your are feeling". Thank you. I need it to read this right now. By the way , I'm from Argentina , so It is for everybody.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- M. M. Kindhart
- 05-02-18
Every ambitious woman needs to read this book!
Every ambitious woman needs to read this book! every person that is interested in a woman who is ambitious and powerful needs to read this book! I was already on the path to embracing my greatness however this gave me such peace with it. a great read, loved it, am going to start my own BABC!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- aksoula
- 08-09-17
Poorly narrated, OK subject material
Felt like the narrator was trying to tell me a secret. Low energy, hushed tones, almost monotone but not quite. Material was great at some points but at others was a little too gushy fangirl about things like Taylor Swift, which was a little alienating for someone who isn't invested in that part of millennial culture. Overall had some good takeaways and a positive message.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Alexandra Medina
- 05-15-17
Just OK
I liked the book's message overall, but I don't think it was the right book for me personally. This would be great for someone fresh out of college or just starting in their career. I was hoping to hear a little more about crafting a side hustle.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
2 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Jessa McFaul
- 04-17-18
LOVE!! Already listening to it again
What made the experience of listening to The Big Life the most enjoyable?
I absolutely loved this book. It's like she was inside my head, describing my life to a T. Great motivational words.
What did you like best about this story?
Her insight
Which scene was your favorite?
The third chapter as she was describing side hustles
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
Mostly
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
- miranda boggs
- 01-24-19
Super Disappointed!
I saw Ann Shoket on a segment on GMA about being burned out and this new book of hers was mentioned. Based on the title and things she talked about during the segment, I got the impression she was speaking about those topics and how they apply to women in general, not a very select group of girls/women who are single and don't have children.
I wouldn't have wasted my money to purchase this book if it was stated anywhere that it was intended for girls/women who are single and without children. I'm a 34 year old who is married, has children, working on my career and trying to learn how to embrace the mess, but I didn't take away one single piece of advice relevant to me.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Melissa Hillsman
- 01-31-21
Don’t forget your side gig...
What I love most about this book is the idea that we can have a job that makes our money but also have a side gig that we are passionate about and can use our creative abilities to live life to the fullest and help others. This book shows many young women who have been successful in doing just that.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!