By Madeline Anthony, Audible Editor

WHY BE HAPPY WHEN YOU COULD BE NORMAL? IS AN ENDURING MEMOIR ON THE LIFELONG SEARCH FOR BELONGING

Allow me to begin this review with a disclaimer: I am a massive fan of the legendary British author who penned this book, the truly iconic Jeanette Winterson. Reading and listening are a huge part of my life, and because of this, I have gotten to know many wickedly talented authors over the years. But like a first love, none of the new ones ever quite measure up.

I remember falling in love with Winterson the way a non-bibliophile might recall falling in love with another human being. The experience was visceral, bodily, and has forever implanted itself in my memory. I was 24 years old, and my Oma, who had raised me, had just died of lymphoma. I was beside myself in a way I had never known, and it was as though reading Winterson’s Written on the Body—a love story in which the main character’s lover suffers from a cancer similar to that which affected my Oma—forced out every emotion I had left. I stayed in bed for days, crying, relentlessly grieving, and, ultimately, finding solace in this profoundly timeless story of love and loss.

In the five years that have passed since that pivotal point, I endeavored to consume as much of Winterson’s work as I could get my hands on, and Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit, The Gap of Time, and Sexing the Cherry proved just as riveting as my first foray into her prose. I worked my way through her repertoire the way a person might approach higher education— proudly and with purpose. And as Winterson is such a prolific writer, I was never at a loss for material. What I had first heard about Why Be Happy When You Could be Normal? is that it told a very similar story to Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit, albeit without the fictional bits. Having read Oranges, I thought I knew the story already and opted instead for more of her passion-fueled fiction, leaving Why Be Happy as the last addition to my proverbial (and literal) Winterson shelf.

When I finally picked up Why Be Happy, I didn’t put it down until I had finished it a week later. It gave me that urgent feeling I sometimes get while reading, that everything else I do is just a distraction from the ultimate goal of Getting Back to The Book. I was pleasantly surprised to find that aside from the crucial, unchangeable facts of the story—that Winterson grew up in an ultra-religious household in a working-class town outside of Manchester— Oranges and Why Be Happy are distinct and not to be compared. While Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit is a fictionalized coming-of-age novel, Why Be Happy When You Could be Normal? is a searingly honest portrait of a middle-aged woman reflecting on a hard-won life."

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