If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop of parenting problems that never seem to go away, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing a perspective shift that will change how you approach challenges—not just in parenting but in every area of your life.

We’re breaking down The STEAR Framework (it’s a game-changer!) and diving deep into how our thoughts shape our experience of problems. I’m also getting personal, sharing reflections from my family’s multi-month adventure abroad and how one emotional moment with my daughter, Becca, brought it all into focus.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The Truth About Problems: Why most problems aren’t what you think they are—and how this shift can change everything.
• The STEAR Framework in Action: How to consciously approach challenges so you can grow and connect more deeply with your kids.
• Tools for Reflection: How to use your past year (or even your camera roll!) to uncover what worked, what didn’t, and what to focus on in 2025.
• From Chaos to Calm: Practical strategies to handle common parenting “problems” like messy rooms, tantrums, or sibling squabbles with confidence.

Why This Episode Matters

Problems aren’t just roadblocks; they’re opportunities for growth—yours and your child’s. Whether it’s morning chaos or eye rolls at the dinner table, you’ll walk away from this episode with a fresh perspective and tools to redefine what’s possible in your parenting journey.

Take Action This Week:

1. List Your Problems: Write down all the “problems” in your parenting life.
2. Separate Facts from Thoughts: Use the STEAR framework to simplify and reframe these challenges.
3. Reflect on 2024: What worked, what didn’t, and what do you want to focus on in 2025?

Key Takeaways:

• Problems are neutral. It’s not the situation but your thoughts about it that create frustration.
• Connection is the goal. Solving problems consciously strengthens your bond with your kids and sets the stage for a more connected family life.
• Every challenge is an opportunity. Whether it’s a tantrum or a missed curfew, there’s a chance to grow—for both you and your kids.

Resources Mentioned:

• The STEAR Framework: A step-by-step tool to shift your perspective on problems.
• Follow me on Instagram @connectmethodparenting to see Becca’s incredible dance compilation reel!
• Check out my website (https://connectmethodparenting.com) to find out when we're starting the next PIVOT round, which will dive deeper into reflection and problem-solving strategies for your best parenting year yet.

Let’s make 2025 the year we approach parenting with curiosity, compassion, and connection. Remember, you’re doing so much better than you think you are. Now go connect your face off with your kids, and let’s tackle those “problems” together.

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Hey, hey, everyone! Andee here! 🖐️ Let’s dive into a topic that is near and dear to so many of us—because, let’s be honest, we’ve all tried it—corrective parenting. You know, the old-school model of using rewards and consequences to manage behavior that doesn’t work long-term. Today, I’m breaking down exactly why.

In this episode, we’re getting real about:

• The history of corrective parenting (hello, rats and pigeons 🐀🐦) and where it all began.
• Why rewards and punishments only create short-term behavior changes (and leave you exhausted).
• The hidden costs of corrective parenting—on your relationship, your child’s confidence, and their sense of safety.
• What neuroscience and developmental psychology have to say about how kids actually learn and grow.

I’m also sharing what I know works: the Connective Parenting approach. No sticker charts, no bribes, no taking away their favorite toy. Just real connection that helps your kids want to listen to you. Sounds dreamy, right?

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re stuck on the hamster wheel of correcting and consequencing, this episode is for you. We’re talking about kicking those old techniques to the curb and stepping into something that feels so much better—for you and your kids.

And don’t forget, if you’re new to Connect Method Parenting, I’ve got a FREE course to get you started! We’ll cover the biggest parenting challenges and how connection changes everything. You can grab it here: cmp.works/course

Let’s break up with corrective parenting and step into a developmentally appropriate way of raising our kids. It’s time. 💪

Catch you in the episode!

xoAndee

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Whether it’s January or August, Monday morning or Thursday afternoon, the opportunity to start fresh is always available.

In this episode, we explore:

• Reinvention vs. Progress: How fundamentally transforming your mindset, routines, and beliefs can change everything.
• The Power of Questioning Norms: Why parenting by default rules (early bedtimes, dinner table behavior, etc.) might not work for your family and how to redefine them intentionally.
• Facing Limiting Beliefs: From tech struggles to driving challenges in foreign lands, we discuss how to confront things that are holding you back.
• Redeciding and Letting Go: How to consciously recommit to what serves you and release the rest—be it habits, routines, or unrealistic standards.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• You have the power to create new starts anytime—no need to wait for a new year, new month, or new week.
• Reinvention isn’t about big, sweeping changes; it’s about questioning what’s working and what’s not, even down to your choice of coffee mugs. ☕
• Letting go of outdated rules and expectations allows you to show up authentically for yourself and your family.

💡 Parenting Nugget: Reinvention as a parent means recognizing and questioning automatic responses. It's about staying connected and present, even when kids are at their most challenging.

🎙️ Bonus Moments:

• The wisdom of a 25-year-old calling me out on my outdated beliefs.
• Embracing the balance of 50/50 joy and growth in life.

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Weaknesses—we all have them, but most of us try to hide, fix, or fight them. Here’s the thing: embracing your weaknesses isn’t just good for you; it’s good for your parenting. When you understand and accept all parts of yourself, you show up with more patience, compassion, and connection for your kids.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

• Why avoiding your weaknesses keeps you stuck and drains your energy.
• How embracing your imperfections helps you stay calm and regulated in challenging parenting moments.
• The surprising ripple effect this has on your relationship with your kids.

Parenting isn’t about getting it all right; it’s about creating a space where both you and your kids feel seen and understood. And that starts with how you see yourself.

Tune in to discover how owning your weaknesses can make you a stronger, more connected parent.

Let me know what you think—I’d love to hear what weaknesses you’re learning to embrace!

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Discover how embracing discomfort and leaning into challenging conversations and behavior can strengthen your relationship with your kids. Whether you're dealing with a teenage boy obsessed with video games or confronting values that clash with your own beliefs, I'm sharing practical advice on how to stay connected and supportive.

By coming alongside your kids, you build a relationship that moves beyond disagreements and fosters unconditional positive regard. I share three key strategies to help you lean into discomfort, strengthen relationships, and embrace the inevitable messiness of parenting.

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Today we're flipping the script on parenting challenges, showing you how to ditch the “right vs. wrong” mindset and embrace a whole new way of connecting.

Whether your kids are throwing tantrums, skipping curfews, or leaving their dishes untouched (again), my practical tools—like the Peace Process and STEAR Model—will help you show up calm, confident, and connected. Learn how to navigate difficult conversations with ease, unpack hidden fears that fuel frustration, and build a relationship with your child that’s rooted in trust, not control.

Parenting doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be connected.

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With the holidays just around the corner, it's crucial to show up in a way that fosters beautiful memories with our loved ones. That's why I've invited my dear friend Jennifer to join us in this episode. Jennifer is a master at intentional event creation, and I've learned so much from her over the years.

In our conversation, we explore the concept of "visioning"—a process Jennifer uses to envision and prepare for family gatherings and events. She shares her insights on how to think ahead, plan for the unexpected, and navigate the complexities of family dynamics with grace and love.

Jennifer also discusses the importance of not forcing the process and being kind to yourself. Whether it's a big family party or a simple gathering, her approach encourages us to focus on the joy of connection and the power of presence.

So grab a piece of paper, take some notes, and get ready to create the holiday experience you truly desire. Let's jump into this enlightening conversation!

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Yo, friends! 🎉 Can you believe 2025 is knocking at the door? Neither can I—time flies when you’re trying to keep your kids alive and help them become amazing humans, right?

This episode is all about a simple yet powerful idea: future-self videos. Inspired by YouTube personality MrBeast, we’re diving into how talking to your future self can spark clarity, motivation, and some serious parenting magic.

Imagine chatting with yourself six months, a year, or even five years down the road. What do you hope you’ve accomplished? How do you want to feel? This process isn’t just about dreaming big—it’s about stepping into the future version of you today.

Whether you’re aiming for more patience, stronger boundaries, or just soaking up all the chaotic, beautiful moments of parenting, this practice is a game-changer. So grab a notebook, turn on that camera, and let’s dream big while loving the present. You’ve got this! 🚀

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