• DOD178: I Think You Gave Me the Wrong Kid
    Jan 10 2025

    Thomas brings us an impossible conundrum that was shared in an article recently: two couples were undergoing IVF, their samples were mixed up, and they unknowingly gave birth to the other's baby. Would you let your genetic offspring go and continue your family with the baby you've already been raising and loving for a year, or would you want to reunite with your biological child?

    But the question Lydia knows you've all been waiting for...did the dads remember to rip into it this week?

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    45 mins
  • DOD177: Don’t Punish the Behavior You Want to See
    Jan 3 2025

    The Toms would like to talk about some of the greatest parenting advice they ever saw. And it's a meme. Or like, a tweet or something. But it's that good.

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    44 mins
  • DOD176: Someone Named “Tom” Is Here and Says He Used to Be On the Podcast?
    Jan 1 2025

    No idea if we're being scammed or not but assuming it's real, he's got a lot to tell us about his horrific Christmas.

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    47 mins
  • DOD175: What If Our Kids Don't Want Kids?
    Dec 27 2024

    Lydia joins Thomas and Eli to talk about a recent NYT article about the hidden grief of not becoming a grandparent. How would we feel if our children decided they didn't want kids?

    (Fingers crossed, this should hopefully be the last of the no-Tom episodes!)

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    43 mins
  • DOD174: Bad Mojo Dojo
    Dec 20 2024

    Lydia and Heath are with us as we tackle a listener question about a situation regarding their child's karate class, and we discuss what makes a coach good or bad. We're releasing the patron version for everyone because the bonus story just needs to be heard. It features t

    And yes, the audio still sucks since this was the same recording session. Last one!

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    48 mins
  • DOD173: Free-Range Parenting - Good Idea? Or Eli's Nightmare. Or Both.
    Dec 18 2024

    We were not able to locate the actor who normally plays Tom so in this episode he has been replaced by the combined forces of Lydia Smith and Heath Enright. The 4 of us discuss an article about a free-range parenting experiment.

    Note: I (Thomas) made a blunder in the recording of this podcast and had to use backup audio which combines Lydia and I. As a result, the quality is a little sub-optimal to a degree that may even be noticeable to normal human people. I could apologize, but no one is more upset about it than me, so does that really make sense? I think I'll apologize to myself and then not accept my own apology.

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    45 mins
  • DOD172: The Bad Influence Friend
    Dec 13 2024

    Eli had an interesting situation come up with Max involving another kid being potentially a bad influence. What should we do in this situation? And then he realizes he has never told us his infamous "Pot Party" story...

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    39 mins
  • DOD171: Crashing Your Ex's Vacation
    Dec 6 2024

    Tom shares a post from Reddit's Am I the Asshole and the dads debate the asshole-ranking of all of the characters involved.

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    44 mins