In this episode of First to Thrive, Nicole Cruz is joined by Mariela de la Mora, a leadership coach and founder of the Reclamation Mastermind. Mariela, a daughter of Mexican immigrants, shares her journey of building a million-dollar business while navigating the complexities of being a first-generation immigrant and a single mother. From personal reinvention to becoming an in-demand thought leader, Mariela offers insights on how to reclaim your self-trust, your voice, and your worth as a woman of color.

Key Takeaways:

• Self-Trust as a Skill: Mariela and Nicole dive deep into why self-trust is an essential skill for first-gen women, particularly when breaking out of traditional molds and stepping into new phases of life.

• The Power of Reclamation: Learn how Mariela turned her struggles with self-doubt and people-pleasing into an empowering journey of reclaiming her voice and building a brand based on who she truly is.

• The Importance of Personal Branding: Discover how your unique story and background as a first-gen can become your superpower in the business world, especially when you stop hiding parts of yourself.

• Breaking Free from Expectations: Mariela discusses her decision to leave a high-paying job and start a business that allowed her to fully show up as herself — and how that decision transformed her life.

• Self-Care as the Starting Point: Learn how small actions of self-care can lead to monumental shifts in your self-trust and decision-making.

Mariela shares how her journey of self-trust, starting over, and embracing her full identity has shaped her coaching practice today. Her work empowers other daughters of immigrants and women of color to embrace their authenticity and create the life and business they desire without having to dim their light.

Connect with Mariela:

• Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/mariela.delamora/

• Reclamation Mastermind: Open for enrollment on February 18th. DM Mariela on Instagram for more information on how to join.

Nicole's 2-part Workshop Series: Sign up here to start prioritizing your own needs and desires, and learn how to make decisions that align with your true values. https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/workshopseries

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• Website: www.nicolecruzcoaching.com

• Join the book waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

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In this episode of First to Thrive, Nicole Cruz discusses the importance of prioritizing your peace, especially in a world that demands a lot from marginalized communities. With the challenges of the current political climate and ongoing global crises, Nicole encourages listeners to reflect on what peace means to them and how it can be a powerful form of self-care and resistance.

She acknowledges that peace is a privilege, something not always available to those in survival mode, but as first- and second-generation individuals, we now have the ability to create space for peace. Nicole offers practical ways to start prioritizing your peace, such as setting boundaries, taking time for yourself, and being gentle with your expectations.

Nicole also shares how peace supports long-term resilience and social change, reminding us that we need to sustain ourselves for the work ahead.

Links & Resources Mentioned:

• Nicole's 2-part Workshop Series: Sign up here to start prioritizing your own needs and desires, and learn how to make decisions that align with your true values. https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/workshopseries

Follow Nicole:

• Instagram: @nicolecruzcoaching

• Website: www.nicolecruz.com

• Join the book waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

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In this episode of First to Thrive, Nicole sits down with Arielle Abalon, a Filipino-American artist, to talk about the powerful yet challenging act of prioritizing yourself, especially when faced with family expectations. Arielle shares a deeply personal story of navigating a difficult conversation with her dad about marriage and having kids. Instead of succumbing to societal and familial pressures, Arielle courageously sets boundaries, prioritizes her own desires, and advocates for her right to choose her own path.

Key Takeaways:

• Setting Boundaries with Family

• Not conforming to Family Expectations

• Fear and Regret Are Not Your Burdens

• Honor Yourself and Your Family by prioritizing what you truly want

Links & Resources Mentioned:

• Nicole's 2-part Workshop Series: Sign up here to start prioritizing your own needs and desires, and learn how to make decisions that align with your true values. https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/workshopseries

Follow Nicole:

• Instagram: @nicolecruzcoaching

• Website: www.nicolecruz.com

• Join the book waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

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Welcome to 2025! In this heartfelt and reflective episode, Nicole Cruz shares her journey of prioritizing herself in a season of transformative change, including writing a book that aims to serve first- and second-generation immigrant communities. Nicole explores why prioritizing yourself is essential—not just personally but for the larger collective—and how this practice signals self-worth and breaks generational patterns of self-sacrifice.

What to Expect in This Episode

• Nicole’s personal journey of prioritizing her book project and making space for what matters most.

• The challenges of putting yourself first, especially as a first- or second-generation immigrant.

• Why prioritizing yourself is more than just “self-care”—it’s a declaration of your worth.

• The connection between self-prioritization and advocating for the community in challenging times.

• Five signs that you may need to prioritize yourself more.

Key Takeaways

1. Prioritizing Yourself is Revolutionary

   • Putting your wants and needs first is not selfish—it’s a way to affirm your value and break free from harmful generational patterns of self-sacrifice.

2. The Emotional Roots of Self-Prioritization

   • Nicole discusses how guilt, shame, and cultural expectations can make prioritizing yourself feel unnatural, but it’s a practice worth embracing for long-term well-being.

3. A Vision for the Future

   • Nicole envisions her book as a well-worn, highlighted resource for immigrant descendants, guiding them to make decisions rooted in their values and desires.

4. Five Signs You Need to Prioritize Yourself More

   • Always saying yes and struggling to set boundaries.

   • Feeling stretched thin and overcommitting.

   • Neglecting personal desires and goals in favor of others’ needs.

   • Constantly seeking external validation or approval.

   • Experiencing resentment or burnout from overgiving.

5. An Invitation for 2025

   • What would it look like to live a life where your needs, desires, and values take center stage? Nicole encourages listeners to imagine and work toward this possibility in 2025.

Resources Mentioned

• Nicole’s upcoming book: Supporting immigrant descendants in shifting from proving themselves to prioritizing themselves. Join the waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

• Connect with Nicole on Instagram and LinkedIn for updates on the book and workshops. https://www.instagram.com/nicolecruzcoaching/

Join the Conversation
Have you experienced challenges in prioritizing yourself? What shifts are you hoping to make this year? Share your thoughts and stories with Nicole on social media or in the podcast community!

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Struggling to follow through on your goals? In this episode, Nicole Cruz breaks down why follow-through is hard, especially for 1st and 2nd Gen folks, and shares practical strategies to help you move from frustration to action.

What You'll Learn

• Why external pressure isn’t the solution and what really drives follow-through.
• How to build belief in yourself and your goals.
• The importance of finding a deeper, sustainable motivation beyond excitement.
• Practical steps to start taking consistent action today.

Get access to my free library: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/free-resources

Sign up for my book waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

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In this episode we will explore:

• Why it is important to honor our wants

• How to reconcile our wants and shoulds

• How to use body cues to differentiate your wants vs shoulds

There’s a reason why we want certain things over others. Our wants point us towards what we’re meant for. Versus our “shoulds” which tell us what others want for us or ways in which we’re supposed to live our lives. As 1st and 2nd gen immigrants, our ancestors didn’t get to honor their wants. They spent their energy surviving. They didn’t have the freedom to just do what they wanted and design their lives in a certain way. But we get to. We’re meant to.

If you want to start building a life for yourself that honors your wants vs shoulds, this episode is for you.

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In this episode, Nicole Cruz reflects on the three key lessons she learned about herself in 2024 and how she plans to apply them in 2025. She emphasizes the importance of reflection, the need for clear direction, the challenges of balancing work and rest, and the value of believing in oneself and embracing the magic of possibilities. Through her personal experiences, she encourages listeners to learn from both their past and future selves and to approach the upcoming year with intention and belief.

Takeaways

• It's okay to experience confusion while seeking clarity.

• Listening to oneself can prevent extreme swings in energy.

• Embracing past experiences can provide valuable insights.

• Magic can often lead to better outcomes than logic.

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In this episode of First to Thrive, Nicole Cruz guides listeners through the process of visioning for the upcoming year. She emphasizes the importance of identifying personal desires and aspirations, particularly for individuals from first and second-generation immigrant backgrounds. The conversation explores the significance of envisioning an ideal future, the challenges of overcoming fear and limiting beliefs, and practical best practices for effective visioning. The episode includes a guided visualization exercise to help listeners articulate their dreams and set the stage for actionable steps towards achieving them.

Takeaways

• Visioning is a powerful tool for self-discovery.

• Visioning is about imagining the ideal future, not setting goals.

• Realism can often limit our aspirations; aim higher.

• Being specific in visioning helps our brains problem-solve effectively.

• Your vision can evolve as you grow and change.

Get access to my free library: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/free-resources

Sign up for my book waitlist: https://nicolecruzcoaching.com/book

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