In this episode of dirty roots X, I’m taking you into one of the most intimate and powerful parts of our relationship—orgasm control. If you’ve ever been curious about how controlling when (or if) you or your partner climaxes can transform your sex life, this is the episode for you.

As the dominant partner in our dynamic, I’ll share how orgasm control isn’t just about denying pleasure; it’s about deepening trust, building sexual tension, and creating a stronger connection both inside and outside the bedroom. My partner and I will open up about our own experiences—what it feels like to give up control, the heightened arousal that comes with waiting, and how it’s made our relationship more fulfilling on every level.

We’ll also give you practical advice on how to start incorporating orgasm control into your own relationship. Whether you’re a dominant who wants to take charge or a submissive curious about surrendering that power, we’ll walk you through the steps—from communicating your boundaries to building anticipation.

You’ll learn how this practice can intensify your focus, boost your sexual confidence, and make your orgasms even more explosive when they do happen. Plus, we’ll talk about how orgasm control has brought us closer, made our sex life more exciting, and how it might just do the same for you.

—Adam