Caring for aging parents is hard! Dave and Bethlie discuss practical ways you navigate these difficult times. If you are in this season, or will be in this season, we trust this content will be a help. If you know of someone who could use this, please share it. \

Caring for Aging Parents

1. It is hard.
   1. Life is busy all by itself, but caring for aging parents doubles or triples the load.
   2. Some parents are pretty much on their own all the way through life, but others need lots of help and care.
2. As much as possible, plan ahead before care is needed.
   1. Talk with all the family who is involved or who will be.
   2. If possible, purchase insurance plans that will help.
      1. Perhaps pay for them as a family.
      2. Secure wills and power of attorneys and bank accounts and all that while it can be done easily.
   3. Have a plan as to who is in charge and who will help and how it will be done.
3. Be prepared for misunderstanding and difficult responses
   1. Remember truth when accusations are made
   2. Remember truth when challenges occurC
4. It needs to be a WE affair and not a ME affair
   1. Get everyone involved
      1. Brothers and sisters
      2. Aunts and uncles
      3. Sons and daughters
      4. Spouse
   2. Everyone get involved
      1. One person likely cannot do it by themselves
      2. Each person must shoulder some responsibility

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Join Dave and Bethlie as they discuss medication and the role it plays in their home.

• Try exercise
• Try counsel
• Try meditation
• Try lifestyle changes
• Try prayer
• Try family changes
• Try training
• Try spanking
  • Spanking is a simple method of amplifying the consequences of negative behavior at a time when the negative behavior is not as BIG of a deal

If you choose to use medication, use them sparingly

Small doses

Short time, not a lifetime

Aware of all the side effects

Do much research

• Billion dollar industries produce modern meds
• Then subsidize doctors and pharmacys and clinics who prescribe them
• It is a FOR profit business
• Your health is your responsibility.

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1. Meds and special needs: often asked question and often commented matter (both for and against)

1. 1. Meds are here to stay

1. 1. 1. Most everyone uses meds in some way
         1. Some are pharmaceutical
         2. Some are natural
         3. Some are spooky
      2. We take Tylenol, blood pressure medication, antibiotics
      3. Most will take some vaccines.
         1. Polio
         2. Measles
         3. Illustration of mine
            1. Yellow fever vaccine on one of my missions trips
               1. It was required to enter the country
            2. Chicken Pox because I have never had it

2. Do everything possible not to use them; instead focus on older, proven methods that have worked for centuries:

1. 1. 1. Home and Family
         1. Determine to have a strong family
            1. Lots of love - said and shown
         2. Work to have a peaceful home
            1. Quiet
            2. Routines
         3. Work to have a protected home
            1. The internet has caused a huge mental health crisis
               1. Bullying
               2. Shaming
               3. Promotion of negativity
                  1. Climate change
                  2. Gender issues
                  3. War
                  4. Famine
                  5. Etc
            2. TV has contributed as well
            3. Remove access to social media or greatly limit its use
               1. Our kids never had it and have all had great friends
                  1. We found those at church
                  2. We found those at Sunday School and youth programs
                  3. We found those in our own family (brothers, sisters, cousins, etc)

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1. Take aways from Renea’s session (Episode 265 adn 266
   1. Have Faith in God
   2. Get all the help you can get
   3. Patiently train them
   4. Have a journal to write the journey and the memories and the blessings
   5. Have a Bible to note the promises
   6. Introduce them to Jesus
      1. Friend for my heart . . .
   7. Teach your special needs child to pray
      1. I’m very bad weak, Help me to be strong in Jesus Christ
   8. See them as a beautiful gift from God

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For this special episode Dave and Bethlie invite you to join them for part 2 of 2 of the 2024 Special Education Summit hosted by Tabernacle Christian School in Hickory North Carolina. The speaker is Renee Gamble and you will not want to miss her talk!

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Thanks for joining us! See you next week.

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For this special episode Dave and Bethlie invite you to join them for part 1 of 2 of the 2024 Special Education Summit hosted by Tabernacle Christian School in Hickory North Carolina. The speaker is Renee Gamble and you will not want to miss her talk!

Do you know someone who could benefit from this series? Will you share this episode with a friend?

Interested in attending the 2025 Special Education Summit? Click Here for more details.

Thanks for joining us! See you next week.

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Thanks for joining us for Part 4 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

If you missed parts 1 and 2, and 3 here are the links:

Part 1

Defining special needs

Part 2

1) Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand

2) Recognize that special needs are nothing new

Thank you for joining us!

Part 3

1) Parent's must train children

2) Paren'ts must bring them up/norture them.

Episode 264 Notes

Part 4

5. Recognize that special needs children can be lead to Christ

1. 1. Be patient
   2. Be repetitive
   3. Believe in the power of the gospel
   4. Teach them to love
   5. Teach them to love Jesus

Having a special needs child doesn’t negate the responsibility to train them anymore than it negates the responsibility to care for them.

Special Education Summit

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https://www.tabernaclechristianschool.org/special-education-summit

Thanks for joining us for Part 3 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

If you missed parts 1 and 2 here are the links:

Part 1

Defining special needs

Part 2

1) Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand

2) Recognize that special needs are nothing new

Thank you for joining us!

Episode 263 Notes

3. Recognize that God’s commands are the same

1. 1. Parent’s must train children
      1. Having a special needs child doesn’t negate the responsiblity to train any more than it negates our responsibility to care for them.
         1. Our culture often believers it does (it negates our responsibility to care for them)
         2. Abortion is usually the answer
         3. Giving them away as a foster child or giving them up for adoption is another way
      2. Having a special needs child means that you have a greater responsiblity to train and care
   2. Parent’s must bring them up/nurture them
      1. Remember that you are not alone. GET HELP

4. Recognize that behavioral issues are to be solved with patient teaching and training

1. 1. ODD; ADHD; ADD are quite normal and will become worse if left alone
   2. A child left to himself, brings his mother to shame

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